Thursday, December 9, 2010
Re: Gender Transition Struggles.
I would say the critical question is, "How do you feel?"Does continuing to live as you have make you feel bad? If it does, you need to really look seriously at transitioning. Transitioning is a particular problem for folks in long-term relationships: You have to balance the risk of being rejected by your significant other, versus the misery of continuing to live as male.I suppose the critical question is how conditional is the love of your SO?If it is unconditional, she'll figure out a way to make it work. I have a good friend who stayed with her husband even after he came out to her as being gay. They were each other's very best friend, and sex wasn't THAT important to the relationship. On the other hand my sister would have gladly called down fire from heaven upon her husband after he did the very same thing.Darling, you are between that legendary rock and a hard place.You have my blessing, wishing you a good outcome.
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