Tuesday, September 30, 2014
(7) The I Have No Show, Show. Going Topic-less!
All I need is the right man, Thank God I’m gay, No topic whatsoever, Being ditched, Bad Karaoke Nonsensical ramblings, Paris? Kelly Clarkson? Farting? A tasteless show indeed …
(70) What the Hell is Going On?
Miley Cyrus, Tammy & Melissa Lesbalimony, Opinions and what do they really mean?, The Definition of a Lesbian conclusion via Twitter, The Real L Word, Julianne Moore in Kids Are Alright is gonna learn right here and right now that Lesbians are not bisexual. Somebody has to tell us what in the gay hell is […]
CDC: Half gay/bi men diagnosed with HIV get treatment
Among gay and bisexual men in the United States who have been diagnosed with HIV, only half are receiving care and treatment for their infection, according to a new analysis by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. And just 42 percent have achieved viral suppression — meaning their virus is under control at a level that helps keep them healthy and also greatly reduces their risk of transmitting HIV to others.
'It's a Whore-Ratio...'
LOL, I just watched this video after not seeing it in YEARS. So funny...such a great time with these ladies. I'd love to do this again. Visit the ladies of CHERRY BOMB at http://www.cherrybombtv.comNow keep in mind this was a few years AND girlfriends ago and my opinions then don't necessarily reflect the ones I have today. Oh, to be young and naive again...Get More: Video & Movies, Logo: Fierce TV
The Pope Books Take That for the Next Vatican Show
After this weeks Royal Variety Performance (the one where Duchess Camilla was attacked with a stick when caught up in the London riots), the Pope has booked Take That. The show included hundreds of near naked male dancers.
Naked from the back
The five Take That members sang on top of a raised platform while the remainder of the stage was covered in male dancers wearing nothing but flesh-coloured jockstraps.
As the song continued the men re-enacted the five poses on the front of the band?s new album, Progress.
Gay newsView Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
Naked from the back
The five Take That members sang on top of a raised platform while the remainder of the stage was covered in male dancers wearing nothing but flesh-coloured jockstraps.
As the song continued the men re-enacted the five poses on the front of the band?s new album, Progress.
Gay newsView Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
(71) Are We Podfading?
Understatement of the year: “That really hurt me;” Nona’s World War II PTSD poverty complex; Some chatting w/friends re: Liza Minelli; Lez Social Scene; Mr. Softee; Being taken advantage of by one of Giulliani’s; Dirty Talk; Your vadge & chlorinated toxins, including dioxin; Sister Louis Marie & more! This one’s a little slow moving, it’s […]
Repeal law punishing gay sex with lashes in Indonesia's Aceh, says Amnesty
Amnesty International called for an immediate repeal of a new law in the Indonesian province of Aceh punishing anyone caught having gay sex or extramarital sex with 100 lashes, saying the legislation would stoke homophobia and harassment. The law punishes anybody caught engaging in consensual gay sex with 100 lashes, 100 months in jail or a fine of 1,000 grams of gold.
'It's a Whore-Ratio...'
LOL, I just watched this video after not seeing it in YEARS. So funny...such a great time with these ladies. I'd love to do this again. Visit the ladies of CHERRY BOMB at http://www.cherrybombtv.comNow keep in mind this was a few years AND girlfriends ago and my opinions then don't necessarily reflect the ones I have today. Oh, to be young and naive again...Get More: Video & Movies, Logo: Fierce TV
Monday, September 29, 2014
(36) Bernie & LINDSAY the Lezzy?
Bernie, Isaac, LINDSAY the Lezzy Trash-Talk, to Drill or Not to Drill, Hydrogen Cars, 12 Steppin’ Gift Bags, Word of the Day – Tourniquette, Why Don’t they Fall? Not Even Science Can Conclude and More Bernie … This show is dedicated to the late great, Bernie Mac.
WATCH: How Being Gay and 'Bad With Money' Can Lead to Prostitution
A first look at Ben Rimalower's candid new solo show about his addiction to overspending.
read more
read more
Dining, Drinks & Desserts
Little Italy’s “5 Star Restaurant”
Hello everyone and thanks for checking back in this week. Before beginning I would like to ask for your friendship on Facebook. In the search box type in Frank Lechner and my mug will pop up. I have created an album and will be adding photos of places we visit.
Thanks again for your continued support.
This week my guest was John Woodgate, a long time friend and wonderful man. Our destination BENCOTTO – Italian Kitchen in Little Italy, created by owners Guido Nistri and his lovely bride Valentina Di Pietro. I think this is about as Italian as it gets.
Website Quotes: The word BENCOTTO, means and refers to a meal “done well” or perfectly cooked. Our core belief is that high quality food can be simple and supremely delicious. Combining differ…
Read More
Hello everyone and thanks for checking back in this week. Before beginning I would like to ask for your friendship on Facebook. In the search box type in Frank Lechner and my mug will pop up. I have created an album and will be adding photos of places we visit.
Thanks again for your continued support.
This week my guest was John Woodgate, a long time friend and wonderful man. Our destination BENCOTTO – Italian Kitchen in Little Italy, created by owners Guido Nistri and his lovely bride Valentina Di Pietro. I think this is about as Italian as it gets.
Website Quotes: The word BENCOTTO, means and refers to a meal “done well” or perfectly cooked. Our core belief is that high quality food can be simple and supremely delicious. Combining differ…
Read More
Op-ed: Tech's Wake-Up Call From Your Transgender Coworker
I thought tech would be a progressive place to work as a trans woman. It isn't ? but it doesn't have to stay this way.
read more
read more
ACLU and Lambda Legal Ask Supreme Court to Reject Motion to Delay Virginia Marriages
Lawyers for Class of All Same-Sex Couples in Virginia Also Seek Speedy Review on Merits if Stay is Granted
August 18, 2014
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
CONTACT: 212-549-2666, media@aclu.org
Richmond, Va. ? Today, the American Civil Liberties Union, ACLU of Virginia, and Lambda Legal will ask the U.S. Supreme Court to deny the motion filed Thursday by Prince William County Clerk Mich�le McQuigg seeking to stay the recent Fourth Circuit Court of Appeals ruling in Schaefer v. Bostic striking down Virginia?s discriminatory marriage ban.
"We will do everything we can to ensure that same-sex couples do not have to wait a day longer than necessary to finally receive the dignity and protection that only comes with marriage," said James Esseks, director of the ACLU Lesbian Gay Bisexual and Transgender Project, who argued the case for the class before the federal appeals court. "The historic Supreme Court case that affirmed the right of people of different races to marry started in in Virginia. In the 47 years since then, committed same-sex couples in the commonwealth have been patiently waiting for the freedom to marry the person they love."
The organizations also will request that, if the Court decides to grant the stay, it should accept the case for full review as quickly as possible in order to minimize the harm that would be caused by the delay of the Fourth Circuit decision.
"We will fight these last-ditch desperate attempts to delay the inevitable arrival of the day when same-sex couples can marry in Virginia," Jon Davidson, Legal Director at Lambda Legal, said. "But if the Court grants a stay, we want this issue to be decided as quickly as possible."
"The Fourth Circuit finally ruled to let us get married and we are anxious to finally plan our wedding," said Joanne Harris, who with Jessica Duff is one of the named plaintiff couples in the lawsuit. "Jessi and I are prepared to continue to fight, but we shouldn?t have to wait any longer."
The ACLU and Lambda Legal represent a certified class in the lawsuit that includes all Virginia same-sex couples. Harris and Duff of Staunton, who are class representatives, have been together for 11 years and are raising a five-year-old son, Jabari. They had a commitment ceremony in 2011. Christy Berghoff and Victoria Kidd of Winchester, who are also class representatives, were married in Washington, DC two years ago, but are considered single in their home state of Virginia. They have a one-year-old daughter, Lydia.
"Marriage is a fundamental right of all Virginians," said Claire Guthrie Gasta�aga, executive director of the ACLU of Virginia. "The Fourth Circuit?s decision sent a message to every committed and married couple in the commonwealth that they are equal in the eyes of the law. The Virginia ACLU is proud to be able to say that we were advocates for the Lovings almost 50 years ago and grateful also to have had the privilege of representing the loving couples across Virginia who should not have to wait even one more day before they gain the freedom to marry."
Last month, the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Fourth Circuit affirmed a district court ruling striking down Virginia?s ban on marriage for same-sex couples. The decision did not take effect immediately, but is scheduled to go into effect August 21, unless the stay filed with Chief Justice John Roberts, the Circuit Justice for the Fourth Circuit, is granted. If the Supreme Court doesn?t grant review of the decision, the appeals court decision is final and all same-sex couples in Virginia who want to get married or want their marriages recognized will be able to do so. The ruling could also impact similar bans in the remaining Fourth Circuit states (North Carolina, South Carolina, and West Virginia) that continue to discriminate against same-sex couples.
August 18, 2014
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
CONTACT: 212-549-2666, media@aclu.org
Richmond, Va. ? Today, the American Civil Liberties Union, ACLU of Virginia, and Lambda Legal will ask the U.S. Supreme Court to deny the motion filed Thursday by Prince William County Clerk Mich�le McQuigg seeking to stay the recent Fourth Circuit Court of Appeals ruling in Schaefer v. Bostic striking down Virginia?s discriminatory marriage ban.
"We will do everything we can to ensure that same-sex couples do not have to wait a day longer than necessary to finally receive the dignity and protection that only comes with marriage," said James Esseks, director of the ACLU Lesbian Gay Bisexual and Transgender Project, who argued the case for the class before the federal appeals court. "The historic Supreme Court case that affirmed the right of people of different races to marry started in in Virginia. In the 47 years since then, committed same-sex couples in the commonwealth have been patiently waiting for the freedom to marry the person they love."
The organizations also will request that, if the Court decides to grant the stay, it should accept the case for full review as quickly as possible in order to minimize the harm that would be caused by the delay of the Fourth Circuit decision.
"We will fight these last-ditch desperate attempts to delay the inevitable arrival of the day when same-sex couples can marry in Virginia," Jon Davidson, Legal Director at Lambda Legal, said. "But if the Court grants a stay, we want this issue to be decided as quickly as possible."
"The Fourth Circuit finally ruled to let us get married and we are anxious to finally plan our wedding," said Joanne Harris, who with Jessica Duff is one of the named plaintiff couples in the lawsuit. "Jessi and I are prepared to continue to fight, but we shouldn?t have to wait any longer."
The ACLU and Lambda Legal represent a certified class in the lawsuit that includes all Virginia same-sex couples. Harris and Duff of Staunton, who are class representatives, have been together for 11 years and are raising a five-year-old son, Jabari. They had a commitment ceremony in 2011. Christy Berghoff and Victoria Kidd of Winchester, who are also class representatives, were married in Washington, DC two years ago, but are considered single in their home state of Virginia. They have a one-year-old daughter, Lydia.
"Marriage is a fundamental right of all Virginians," said Claire Guthrie Gasta�aga, executive director of the ACLU of Virginia. "The Fourth Circuit?s decision sent a message to every committed and married couple in the commonwealth that they are equal in the eyes of the law. The Virginia ACLU is proud to be able to say that we were advocates for the Lovings almost 50 years ago and grateful also to have had the privilege of representing the loving couples across Virginia who should not have to wait even one more day before they gain the freedom to marry."
Last month, the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Fourth Circuit affirmed a district court ruling striking down Virginia?s ban on marriage for same-sex couples. The decision did not take effect immediately, but is scheduled to go into effect August 21, unless the stay filed with Chief Justice John Roberts, the Circuit Justice for the Fourth Circuit, is granted. If the Supreme Court doesn?t grant review of the decision, the appeals court decision is final and all same-sex couples in Virginia who want to get married or want their marriages recognized will be able to do so. The ruling could also impact similar bans in the remaining Fourth Circuit states (North Carolina, South Carolina, and West Virginia) that continue to discriminate against same-sex couples.
ACLU of Wisconsin Files Suit on Behalf of Same-Sex Couples Married in Wisconsin
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
CONTACT: 212-549-2666, media@aclu.org
MILWAUKEE, Wis. ? Today, the American Civil Liberties Union, ACLU of Wisconsin, and Mayer Brown LLP filed suit in federal court on behalf of same-sex couples married in Wisconsin during the week after June 6 Bloechl-Karlsen v. Walker. This filing follows last week's decision out of the Seventh Circuit Court of Appeals that upheld a previous ruling by the District Court that found Wisconsin's ban on marriage for same-sex couples unconstitutional.
The ACLU, on behalf of their clients, is seeking the recognition of the marriages of four same-sex couples legally married in Wisconsin during the week between the District Court's decision overturning the ban on marriage for same-sex couples and her subsequent stay of that ruling.
"Our clients have married in Wisconsin and that isn't something the State can take away from them or refuse to recognize," said Larry Dupuis, legal director of the ACLU of Wisconsin. "The State of Wisconsin has placed hundreds of same-sex couples, including our clients, in an untenable position of not knowing if their marriages will be respected and recognized or simply ignored. Even if Judge Crabb's stay means that for a while no more same-sex couples can marry, the Constitution does not allow the State to undo or ignore the marriages that already took place."
Stacie Christian, one of the plaintiffs in the case, said, "Julie and I enjoyed one of the greatest moments of our lives the day our state granted us the same freedom to marry as any other loving couple. We made a lifetime commitment to each other 21 years ago, affirmed our marriage four years ago through our church, and again made a lifetime commitment to each other on the courthouse lawn on June 9-one that is about stability, responsibility, and building our family. We hope that those vows on June 9 will soon be as honored by our state as they are by us."
The ACLU has been working for the rights of LGBT people since its first gay rights case, in 1936. The organization also filed the first ever freedom-to-marry lawsuit for same-sex couples in 1970, and represented Edie Windsor in her successful challenge to the federal Defense of Marriage Act in June 2013. Since that time, the ACLU has filed thirteen federal marriage lawsuits on behalf of same-sex across the country."
CONTACT: 212-549-2666, media@aclu.org
MILWAUKEE, Wis. ? Today, the American Civil Liberties Union, ACLU of Wisconsin, and Mayer Brown LLP filed suit in federal court on behalf of same-sex couples married in Wisconsin during the week after June 6 Bloechl-Karlsen v. Walker. This filing follows last week's decision out of the Seventh Circuit Court of Appeals that upheld a previous ruling by the District Court that found Wisconsin's ban on marriage for same-sex couples unconstitutional.
The ACLU, on behalf of their clients, is seeking the recognition of the marriages of four same-sex couples legally married in Wisconsin during the week between the District Court's decision overturning the ban on marriage for same-sex couples and her subsequent stay of that ruling.
"Our clients have married in Wisconsin and that isn't something the State can take away from them or refuse to recognize," said Larry Dupuis, legal director of the ACLU of Wisconsin. "The State of Wisconsin has placed hundreds of same-sex couples, including our clients, in an untenable position of not knowing if their marriages will be respected and recognized or simply ignored. Even if Judge Crabb's stay means that for a while no more same-sex couples can marry, the Constitution does not allow the State to undo or ignore the marriages that already took place."
Stacie Christian, one of the plaintiffs in the case, said, "Julie and I enjoyed one of the greatest moments of our lives the day our state granted us the same freedom to marry as any other loving couple. We made a lifetime commitment to each other 21 years ago, affirmed our marriage four years ago through our church, and again made a lifetime commitment to each other on the courthouse lawn on June 9-one that is about stability, responsibility, and building our family. We hope that those vows on June 9 will soon be as honored by our state as they are by us."
The ACLU has been working for the rights of LGBT people since its first gay rights case, in 1936. The organization also filed the first ever freedom-to-marry lawsuit for same-sex couples in 1970, and represented Edie Windsor in her successful challenge to the federal Defense of Marriage Act in June 2013. Since that time, the ACLU has filed thirteen federal marriage lawsuits on behalf of same-sex across the country."
Stopping the National Organization for Marriage
I don't think I've seen a better response to a misleading ad than this one. Thanks Stop8
Sunday, September 28, 2014
WATCH: Talking Bi Issues With Campus Pride
Bi erasure and the challenges of coming out were among the topics addressed in a live-streamed forum for Celebrate Bisexuality Day.
read more
read more
New 'Corpus Christi' Documentary Spreads Message of Inclusive Love
Angry letters and death threats couldn't stop Terrence McNally's landmark play about a flock of gay men who follow the Messiah in 1950s Texas.
read more
read more
Is Simon Cowell Gay?
With the X-factor back on prime time TV in Britain, all of the tabloids are busy scraping up as much muck as they can and slinging it at everyone in the hope it will stick to someone. This week it was Simon Cowell's turn. Tough as an old leather handbag, Simon Cowell is not going to blink an eye at the rumours going around that he is gay.
I don't think Cowell is on anyones gaydar, but co judge Louis Walsh this week cleared it up for us, stating this week that his 51-year-old friend is easily "distracted by a pair of breasts".
Lois Walsh told Britain's Daily Mail newspaper this week that, "He's not gay. Not at all. He's camp. He's theatrical. But he's absolutely not gay. No way. He loves women. Haven't you seen the way he looks at girls? He'll get distracted by a pair of breasts."
Well I guess that clears it up then.
Gay news
View Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
I don't think Cowell is on anyones gaydar, but co judge Louis Walsh this week cleared it up for us, stating this week that his 51-year-old friend is easily "distracted by a pair of breasts".
Lois Walsh told Britain's Daily Mail newspaper this week that, "He's not gay. Not at all. He's camp. He's theatrical. But he's absolutely not gay. No way. He loves women. Haven't you seen the way he looks at girls? He'll get distracted by a pair of breasts."
Well I guess that clears it up then.
Gay news
View Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
(64) Love & Rage (Mini)
She’s not a f’cking “WRITER”! Blasphemers. Soy. Quack therapists, pills and doctors… oh, and don’t listen if you’re hypersensitive about these issues and can’t deal with anyone having a different opinion and/or life experience than yours. This isn’t NPR, byatches.
One Direction Gay Ad for Nintendo
Those One Direction guys are so metro-sexual with their tactile hugging and playfulness. They are toally surrounded by those One Direction Gay rumours. Irrespective of that, just like JLS they have an advertising deal with Nintendo! The only trouble with this is, they haven't released any music yet. The same thing happened with JEdward - thankGod they didn't release any music.
Getting an ad deal with Nintendo is really basically because they are famous for being an X-Factor contestant and of course for being cute, popular..... They are also at the top of their career (to date) and may have signed up for peanuts. JEdward allegedly earned �3 in their first year from PAs and advertising deals.
Anyway they are definitely getting cuter since they appeared on the X-factor?
Do you think One Direction deserve an ad deal with Nintendo?
Do you think One Direction are getting cuter?
Comments please
Gay newsView Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
Getting an ad deal with Nintendo is really basically because they are famous for being an X-Factor contestant and of course for being cute, popular..... They are also at the top of their career (to date) and may have signed up for peanuts. JEdward allegedly earned �3 in their first year from PAs and advertising deals.
Anyway they are definitely getting cuter since they appeared on the X-factor?
Do you think One Direction deserve an ad deal with Nintendo?
Do you think One Direction are getting cuter?
Comments please
Gay newsView Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
(15B) Freestyle Friday Nostalgia Hour at SpiceNYC
lost a lot of sound quality when converted to mp3 but here goes … There’s A Party Going On – Nayobe You’ll Never Find Another Love - Take It While It’s Hot – Sweet Sensation Dancing On The Fire – India Give Me Back My Heart – Corina I Remember What You Like – Jenny […]
Knight at the Movies: Two Faces; This Is Where...; Devil's Door; Innocents
Movie-wise, we're in that pocket between summer blockbusters and meaty awards contenders—that time of year when most of the movies are "medium" rather than "good" or "bad." And even with audiences finding new ways to watch movies, sidestepping the Cineplex altogether, the majority of what they're being offered—whether it be in theaters, On Demand, at a streaming site or on Blu-ray—in this time period still seems to fall into the also-ran category. Here are four cases in point—well, three sorta goods and one classic.
CDC: Half gay/bi men diagnosed with HIV get treatment
Among gay and bisexual men in the United States who have been diagnosed with HIV, only half are receiving care and treatment for their infection, according to a new analysis by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. And just 42 percent have achieved viral suppression — meaning their virus is under control at a level that helps keep them healthy and also greatly reduces their risk of transmitting HIV to others.
Saturday, September 27, 2014
ACLU-NJ Calls on Department of Defense to End Discriminatory Practice Against Transgender Veterans
ACLU-NJ action challenges DOD?s denial to change discharge documents to reflect true gender of transgender former service members
August 11, 2014
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
CONTACT: 212-549-2666, media@aclu.org
On July 30, The American Civil Liberties Union of New Jersey (ACLU-NJ) submitted two applications to the Department of Defense?s Army Review Boards Agency on behalf of two New Jersey-based transgender military veterans who are petitioning to have their new legal names fully recognized by the Army. Specifically, they seek a change to the principal document that a military veteran uses to prove a veteran?s status, known as the ?DD-214 Certificate of Release or Discharge from Active Duty.?
According to the Williams Institute, a national think tank at UCLA Law School, an estimated 134,300 American transgender veterans encounter substantial obstacles to obtaining post-service benefits because the names and genders memorialized on their military service discharge documents no longer match their names and genders following from the end of their service. This inconsistency might deprive them of benefits or services, or could subject them to invasive questions requiring personal information to explain discrepancies between documents.
The ACLU-NJ has taken action on behalf of Jennifer, a Sergeant Major who served in the United States Army for 29 years, and Nicolas, a New Jersey National Guardsman who served for 9 years. ?It?s incredibly difficult when the self you present to the world doesn?t match a piece of paper meant to represent you,? said Jennifer, who served four tours including in Iraq and Afghanistan, receiving numerous awards for bravery. "I want my medical history to be protected and to be able to start a new chapter in my life without constantly being forced to look to the past."
The DD-214 form determines veterans' eligibility for benefits and legal protections tied to military service. Veterans need this document to engage in a wide range of activities in public life, including securing a home loan, taking the bar exam, or applying for a job with an employer that gives veterans preference in hiring. Transgender veterans not only risk the denial of these many benefits because of inconsistencies on the DD-214, but also face invasive questions every time this document is presented.
"When applying for a job, the only thing I want to bring with me is my qualifications ? not a pile of papers explaining in unnecessary detail who I am," said Nicolas, who served throughout the United States during his time with the National Guard. "With a simple fix, the military could make life much easier for countless veterans. With new regulations prohibiting discrimination against gender identity within the federal government, the federal government should take steps to make that kind of discrimination that much more unlikely."
The DOD?s review board has thus far refused to amend the DD-214s, expressing an interest in preserving the historical accuracy of military records. However, the ACLU-NJ contends that the board has the authority ? as well as an imperative -- to change this policy and thereby prevent the continued injustice facing transgender service members. Not changing the document is a form of discrimination against transgender veterans.
"Transgender service members bear substantial burdens when they cannot use their DD-214s without fear of discrimination," said ACLU-NJ Deputy Legal Director Jeanne LoCicero. "Despite having served honorably in the military and earning the right to an accurate and complete picture of their military service, transgender veterans struggle with challenges the Department of Defense could easily alleviate by recognizing the needs of a group of veterans above an abstract principle. If anything, keeping the previous name is the greater inaccuracy, and the change would correct the record to reflect that veteran?s fundamental true identity."
To read a sample version of the application and letter sent on behalf of Jennifer and Nicolas, visit
aclu-nj.org/news/2014/08/11/aclu-nj-calls-department-defense-end-discriminatory-practice
August 11, 2014
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
CONTACT: 212-549-2666, media@aclu.org
On July 30, The American Civil Liberties Union of New Jersey (ACLU-NJ) submitted two applications to the Department of Defense?s Army Review Boards Agency on behalf of two New Jersey-based transgender military veterans who are petitioning to have their new legal names fully recognized by the Army. Specifically, they seek a change to the principal document that a military veteran uses to prove a veteran?s status, known as the ?DD-214 Certificate of Release or Discharge from Active Duty.?
According to the Williams Institute, a national think tank at UCLA Law School, an estimated 134,300 American transgender veterans encounter substantial obstacles to obtaining post-service benefits because the names and genders memorialized on their military service discharge documents no longer match their names and genders following from the end of their service. This inconsistency might deprive them of benefits or services, or could subject them to invasive questions requiring personal information to explain discrepancies between documents.
The ACLU-NJ has taken action on behalf of Jennifer, a Sergeant Major who served in the United States Army for 29 years, and Nicolas, a New Jersey National Guardsman who served for 9 years. ?It?s incredibly difficult when the self you present to the world doesn?t match a piece of paper meant to represent you,? said Jennifer, who served four tours including in Iraq and Afghanistan, receiving numerous awards for bravery. "I want my medical history to be protected and to be able to start a new chapter in my life without constantly being forced to look to the past."
The DD-214 form determines veterans' eligibility for benefits and legal protections tied to military service. Veterans need this document to engage in a wide range of activities in public life, including securing a home loan, taking the bar exam, or applying for a job with an employer that gives veterans preference in hiring. Transgender veterans not only risk the denial of these many benefits because of inconsistencies on the DD-214, but also face invasive questions every time this document is presented.
"When applying for a job, the only thing I want to bring with me is my qualifications ? not a pile of papers explaining in unnecessary detail who I am," said Nicolas, who served throughout the United States during his time with the National Guard. "With a simple fix, the military could make life much easier for countless veterans. With new regulations prohibiting discrimination against gender identity within the federal government, the federal government should take steps to make that kind of discrimination that much more unlikely."
The DOD?s review board has thus far refused to amend the DD-214s, expressing an interest in preserving the historical accuracy of military records. However, the ACLU-NJ contends that the board has the authority ? as well as an imperative -- to change this policy and thereby prevent the continued injustice facing transgender service members. Not changing the document is a form of discrimination against transgender veterans.
"Transgender service members bear substantial burdens when they cannot use their DD-214s without fear of discrimination," said ACLU-NJ Deputy Legal Director Jeanne LoCicero. "Despite having served honorably in the military and earning the right to an accurate and complete picture of their military service, transgender veterans struggle with challenges the Department of Defense could easily alleviate by recognizing the needs of a group of veterans above an abstract principle. If anything, keeping the previous name is the greater inaccuracy, and the change would correct the record to reflect that veteran?s fundamental true identity."
To read a sample version of the application and letter sent on behalf of Jennifer and Nicolas, visit
aclu-nj.org/news/2014/08/11/aclu-nj-calls-department-defense-end-discriminatory-practice
ACLU and Lambda Legal Ask Supreme Court to Reject Motion to Delay Virginia Marriages
Lawyers for Class of All Same-Sex Couples in Virginia Also Seek Speedy Review on Merits if Stay is Granted
August 18, 2014
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
CONTACT: 212-549-2666, media@aclu.org
Richmond, Va. ? Today, the American Civil Liberties Union, ACLU of Virginia, and Lambda Legal will ask the U.S. Supreme Court to deny the motion filed Thursday by Prince William County Clerk Mich�le McQuigg seeking to stay the recent Fourth Circuit Court of Appeals ruling in Schaefer v. Bostic striking down Virginia?s discriminatory marriage ban.
"We will do everything we can to ensure that same-sex couples do not have to wait a day longer than necessary to finally receive the dignity and protection that only comes with marriage," said James Esseks, director of the ACLU Lesbian Gay Bisexual and Transgender Project, who argued the case for the class before the federal appeals court. "The historic Supreme Court case that affirmed the right of people of different races to marry started in in Virginia. In the 47 years since then, committed same-sex couples in the commonwealth have been patiently waiting for the freedom to marry the person they love."
The organizations also will request that, if the Court decides to grant the stay, it should accept the case for full review as quickly as possible in order to minimize the harm that would be caused by the delay of the Fourth Circuit decision.
"We will fight these last-ditch desperate attempts to delay the inevitable arrival of the day when same-sex couples can marry in Virginia," Jon Davidson, Legal Director at Lambda Legal, said. "But if the Court grants a stay, we want this issue to be decided as quickly as possible."
"The Fourth Circuit finally ruled to let us get married and we are anxious to finally plan our wedding," said Joanne Harris, who with Jessica Duff is one of the named plaintiff couples in the lawsuit. "Jessi and I are prepared to continue to fight, but we shouldn?t have to wait any longer."
The ACLU and Lambda Legal represent a certified class in the lawsuit that includes all Virginia same-sex couples. Harris and Duff of Staunton, who are class representatives, have been together for 11 years and are raising a five-year-old son, Jabari. They had a commitment ceremony in 2011. Christy Berghoff and Victoria Kidd of Winchester, who are also class representatives, were married in Washington, DC two years ago, but are considered single in their home state of Virginia. They have a one-year-old daughter, Lydia.
"Marriage is a fundamental right of all Virginians," said Claire Guthrie Gasta�aga, executive director of the ACLU of Virginia. "The Fourth Circuit?s decision sent a message to every committed and married couple in the commonwealth that they are equal in the eyes of the law. The Virginia ACLU is proud to be able to say that we were advocates for the Lovings almost 50 years ago and grateful also to have had the privilege of representing the loving couples across Virginia who should not have to wait even one more day before they gain the freedom to marry."
Last month, the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Fourth Circuit affirmed a district court ruling striking down Virginia?s ban on marriage for same-sex couples. The decision did not take effect immediately, but is scheduled to go into effect August 21, unless the stay filed with Chief Justice John Roberts, the Circuit Justice for the Fourth Circuit, is granted. If the Supreme Court doesn?t grant review of the decision, the appeals court decision is final and all same-sex couples in Virginia who want to get married or want their marriages recognized will be able to do so. The ruling could also impact similar bans in the remaining Fourth Circuit states (North Carolina, South Carolina, and West Virginia) that continue to discriminate against same-sex couples.
August 18, 2014
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
CONTACT: 212-549-2666, media@aclu.org
Richmond, Va. ? Today, the American Civil Liberties Union, ACLU of Virginia, and Lambda Legal will ask the U.S. Supreme Court to deny the motion filed Thursday by Prince William County Clerk Mich�le McQuigg seeking to stay the recent Fourth Circuit Court of Appeals ruling in Schaefer v. Bostic striking down Virginia?s discriminatory marriage ban.
"We will do everything we can to ensure that same-sex couples do not have to wait a day longer than necessary to finally receive the dignity and protection that only comes with marriage," said James Esseks, director of the ACLU Lesbian Gay Bisexual and Transgender Project, who argued the case for the class before the federal appeals court. "The historic Supreme Court case that affirmed the right of people of different races to marry started in in Virginia. In the 47 years since then, committed same-sex couples in the commonwealth have been patiently waiting for the freedom to marry the person they love."
The organizations also will request that, if the Court decides to grant the stay, it should accept the case for full review as quickly as possible in order to minimize the harm that would be caused by the delay of the Fourth Circuit decision.
"We will fight these last-ditch desperate attempts to delay the inevitable arrival of the day when same-sex couples can marry in Virginia," Jon Davidson, Legal Director at Lambda Legal, said. "But if the Court grants a stay, we want this issue to be decided as quickly as possible."
"The Fourth Circuit finally ruled to let us get married and we are anxious to finally plan our wedding," said Joanne Harris, who with Jessica Duff is one of the named plaintiff couples in the lawsuit. "Jessi and I are prepared to continue to fight, but we shouldn?t have to wait any longer."
The ACLU and Lambda Legal represent a certified class in the lawsuit that includes all Virginia same-sex couples. Harris and Duff of Staunton, who are class representatives, have been together for 11 years and are raising a five-year-old son, Jabari. They had a commitment ceremony in 2011. Christy Berghoff and Victoria Kidd of Winchester, who are also class representatives, were married in Washington, DC two years ago, but are considered single in their home state of Virginia. They have a one-year-old daughter, Lydia.
"Marriage is a fundamental right of all Virginians," said Claire Guthrie Gasta�aga, executive director of the ACLU of Virginia. "The Fourth Circuit?s decision sent a message to every committed and married couple in the commonwealth that they are equal in the eyes of the law. The Virginia ACLU is proud to be able to say that we were advocates for the Lovings almost 50 years ago and grateful also to have had the privilege of representing the loving couples across Virginia who should not have to wait even one more day before they gain the freedom to marry."
Last month, the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Fourth Circuit affirmed a district court ruling striking down Virginia?s ban on marriage for same-sex couples. The decision did not take effect immediately, but is scheduled to go into effect August 21, unless the stay filed with Chief Justice John Roberts, the Circuit Justice for the Fourth Circuit, is granted. If the Supreme Court doesn?t grant review of the decision, the appeals court decision is final and all same-sex couples in Virginia who want to get married or want their marriages recognized will be able to do so. The ruling could also impact similar bans in the remaining Fourth Circuit states (North Carolina, South Carolina, and West Virginia) that continue to discriminate against same-sex couples.
Op-ed: Finding Sympathy for the Most Hated Woman in America
Three people were arrested this week for attacking a male couple in Philadelphia, but it?s the lone female suspect being burned at the stake.
read more
read more
Montana GOP policy: Make homosexuality illegal
HELENA, Mont. (AP) – At a time when gays have been gaining victories across the country, the Republican Party in Montana still wants to make homosexuality illegal.
The party adopted an official platform in June that keeps a long-held position in support of making homosexual acts illegal, a policy adopted after the Montana Supreme Court struck down such laws in 1997.
The fact that it’s still the official party policy more than 12 years later, despite a tidal shift in public attitudes since then and the party’s own pledge of support for individual freedoms, has exasperated some GOP members.
“I looked at that and said, ‘You’ve got to be kidding me,’” state Sen. John Brueggeman, R-Polson, said last week. “…
Read More
The party adopted an official platform in June that keeps a long-held position in support of making homosexual acts illegal, a policy adopted after the Montana Supreme Court struck down such laws in 1997.
The fact that it’s still the official party policy more than 12 years later, despite a tidal shift in public attitudes since then and the party’s own pledge of support for individual freedoms, has exasperated some GOP members.
“I looked at that and said, ‘You’ve got to be kidding me,’” state Sen. John Brueggeman, R-Polson, said last week. “…
Read More
The shocking lack of care and treatment of gay, bisexual men living with HIV
Among gay and bisexual men in the United States who have been diagnosed with HIV, only half are receiving care and treatment for their infection, according to a new analysis by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
And just 42% have achieved viral suppression ? meaning their virus is under control at a level that helps keep them healthy and also greatly reduces their risk of transmitting HIV to others.
?It?s unacceptable that treatment, one of our most powerful tools for protecting people?s health and preventing new HIV infections, is reaching only a fraction of gay men who need it.?
read more
And just 42% have achieved viral suppression ? meaning their virus is under control at a level that helps keep them healthy and also greatly reduces their risk of transmitting HIV to others.
?It?s unacceptable that treatment, one of our most powerful tools for protecting people?s health and preventing new HIV infections, is reaching only a fraction of gay men who need it.?
read more
San Diego LGBT Pride donates $10,000 to Stepping Stone by Staff Reporter
San Diego LGBT Pride donated $10,000 last week to Stepping Stone of San Diego, Inc., which for 10 years has provided the GLBT community with alcohol and drug rehabilitation support through a variety of residential and non-residential treatment programs. The check was presented to Stepping Stone representatives at San Diego Pride’s board of directors meeting on Sept. 15.
“This type of community support mandates that we continue solving the financial issues that have been with us for some years now,” said Stepping Stone’s Board Chair Tom Reise. “On behalf of our entire board and staff, and especially our clients, we express deep gratitude and appreciation for this gift.”
To date, San Diego LGBT Pride has given more than $1…
Read More
“This type of community support mandates that we continue solving the financial issues that have been with us for some years now,” said Stepping Stone’s Board Chair Tom Reise. “On behalf of our entire board and staff, and especially our clients, we express deep gratitude and appreciation for this gift.”
To date, San Diego LGBT Pride has given more than $1…
Read More
(30) You Like the Crazy
Isis, American Chappaquiddick Idol, Listener v/m, Quarrels, Monsters, Not so Smiley Cyrus, What’s a Hooker to Wear?, This American Life, Bottles of Red for Billy Joel … and last but not least, if you listen very carefully you will learn the real reason why cops eat donuts! Only here at the Lesma! Featuring music by: […]
Op-ed: Remembering the AIDS Crisis as a Gay Trans Man in a Double-Closet
Dr. H. Adam Ackley recalls the 1980's days where he faced two invisible killers: the deep closet for gay, transgender men and a new, untreatable virus.
read more
read more
Friday, September 26, 2014
Oh Dear John Travolta in another Gay legal case
Image via Wikipedia
Who cares (but John Travolta) is John Travolta is gay or not? In an interview with The Advocate, Carry Fisher answered questions about Johns sexuality. Fisher and Travolta go way back. On a question about whether Travolta was gay, Fisher said:-
?Wow! I mean, my feeling about John has always been that we know and we don?t care. Look, I?m sorry that he?s uncomfortable with it, and that?s all I can say. It only draws more attention to it when you make that kind of legal fuss. Just leave it be.
There have been a number of guys who have alleged that they have had relationships with Travolta.
Image via Wikipedia
On being gay John , get over it!
Gay news
View Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
Who cares (but John Travolta) is John Travolta is gay or not? In an interview with The Advocate, Carry Fisher answered questions about Johns sexuality. Fisher and Travolta go way back. On a question about whether Travolta was gay, Fisher said:-
?Wow! I mean, my feeling about John has always been that we know and we don?t care. Look, I?m sorry that he?s uncomfortable with it, and that?s all I can say. It only draws more attention to it when you make that kind of legal fuss. Just leave it be.
There have been a number of guys who have alleged that they have had relationships with Travolta.
Image via Wikipedia
On being gay John , get over it!
Gay news
View Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
3 surrender in Philadelphia gay beating case
A special prosecutor says a grand jury found officers' actions were justified in the fatal shooting of a man at an Ohio Wal-Mart. A special prosecutor says a grand jury found officers' actions were justified in the fatal shooting of a man at an Ohio Wal-Mart.
Lt. Dan Choi
Arabic Linguist. Iraq Veteran. West Point Graduate. Infantry Officer. Gay... Fired... and Fighting Back!
On March 19, 2009, Lt. Dan Choi, a West Point graduate and Iraq veteran fluent in Arabic, announced that he was gay on The Rachel Maddow Show. Because of three words – “I am gay” – Lt. Choi’s life changed forever. Despite his extreme value as an Arabic speaker able to communicate quickly and clearly with the Iraqi people, one month after his announcement Lt. Dan Choi was notified that the Army had begun discharge proceedings against him. He was one of only eight soldiers from his graduating class who majored in Arabic. Lt. Choi kindly agreed to an interview with The Gay & Lesbian Times
and this is his story.
GLT: What was it like for you to be discharged from the Military?
DC: As gay people there is no shortage of pain…
Read More
On March 19, 2009, Lt. Dan Choi, a West Point graduate and Iraq veteran fluent in Arabic, announced that he was gay on The Rachel Maddow Show. Because of three words – “I am gay” – Lt. Choi’s life changed forever. Despite his extreme value as an Arabic speaker able to communicate quickly and clearly with the Iraqi people, one month after his announcement Lt. Dan Choi was notified that the Army had begun discharge proceedings against him. He was one of only eight soldiers from his graduating class who majored in Arabic. Lt. Choi kindly agreed to an interview with The Gay & Lesbian Times
and this is his story.
GLT: What was it like for you to be discharged from the Military?
DC: As gay people there is no shortage of pain…
Read More
Knight at the Movies: Two Faces; This Is Where...; Devil's Door; Innocents
Movie-wise, we're in that pocket between summer blockbusters and meaty awards contenders—that time of year when most of the movies are "medium" rather than "good" or "bad." And even with audiences finding new ways to watch movies, sidestepping the Cineplex altogether, the majority of what they're being offered—whether it be in theaters, On Demand, at a streaming site or on Blu-ray—in this time period still seems to fall into the also-ran category. Here are four cases in point—well, three sorta goods and one classic.
If The Voice Were The Girlfriend
I wasn?t going to do it, I was not going to get invested in a reality show to find the next great singer. But on a lazy Wednesday I went to primetime on demand, the savior of people who don?t want or forget to DVR things and queued up The Voice
Out and About
Friday, October 8
Now in its 20th smash season, The Mystery Cafe proudly carries on their legacy as San Diego’s longest running dinner theater. Join them for a night of the most informal dining fun San Diego has to offer. Enjoy a four course meal, solve a mystery, be a part of the show, and laugh yourself silly! Bring the family and friends and enjoy an evening of hilarious, non-stop action, great food and good old fashioned FUN...you never know, you might get to be part of the act! 8:00 p.m. to 11:00 p.m. Mystery Café is located at 505 Kalmia St., San Diego, 92101 Tickets - $59.50 which includes 4 course meal, show and tax. Gratuity not included. For more information call the Mystery Cafe Box Office (619) 460-2200 or visit www.mysterycafe.net
…
Read More
Now in its 20th smash season, The Mystery Cafe proudly carries on their legacy as San Diego’s longest running dinner theater. Join them for a night of the most informal dining fun San Diego has to offer. Enjoy a four course meal, solve a mystery, be a part of the show, and laugh yourself silly! Bring the family and friends and enjoy an evening of hilarious, non-stop action, great food and good old fashioned FUN...you never know, you might get to be part of the act! 8:00 p.m. to 11:00 p.m. Mystery Café is located at 505 Kalmia St., San Diego, 92101 Tickets - $59.50 which includes 4 course meal, show and tax. Gratuity not included. For more information call the Mystery Cafe Box Office (619) 460-2200 or visit www.mysterycafe.net
…
Read More
Thursday, September 25, 2014
The GLT turns the spotlight on Mila Rivera
Dancer and bartender at Rich’s and Numbers
Upon meeting Mila people are surprised to find out she is not a wild party girl. Her passion is dancing, however she is a self described puzzle geek and somewhat of a homebody. She is surprisingly reserved and likes spending her days cooking, reading and relaxing. Her nights are reserved for her showboating alter ego, she says. A girl who lives to learn new things and who has interests that range from one extreme of the spectrum to the other makes for a really well rounded and interesting person.
“I love garlic, bats and sharks, caverns and canyons, drag shows, deep philosophical conversations and the smell of sandalwood. I enjoy studying language, archaeology, history, the arts, and science. My past jobs include working at zoos and observatories, wri…
Read More
Upon meeting Mila people are surprised to find out she is not a wild party girl. Her passion is dancing, however she is a self described puzzle geek and somewhat of a homebody. She is surprisingly reserved and likes spending her days cooking, reading and relaxing. Her nights are reserved for her showboating alter ego, she says. A girl who lives to learn new things and who has interests that range from one extreme of the spectrum to the other makes for a really well rounded and interesting person.
“I love garlic, bats and sharks, caverns and canyons, drag shows, deep philosophical conversations and the smell of sandalwood. I enjoy studying language, archaeology, history, the arts, and science. My past jobs include working at zoos and observatories, wri…
Read More
Love is Love
I've seen a lot of ads for marriage equality, but for some reason this one got to me. It's from Basic Rights Oregon, our state-wide gay rights organization. They're raising money to put gay marriage up for a vote in Oregon, probably in 2012, to overturn anti-gay amendment. But first they're running campaigns like this one on cable TV stations. If all works out as we plan, Oregon could be the first state to legalize gay marriage by a popular vote.
Iu-Luen Jeng on art therapy, power of young people
For most, science and art are polar opposites. But for Iu-Luen Jeng, the two make perfect sense together.
Knight at the Movies: Two Faces; This Is Where...; Devil's Door; Innocents
Movie-wise, we're in that pocket between summer blockbusters and meaty awards contenders—that time of year when most of the movies are "medium" rather than "good" or "bad." And even with audiences finding new ways to watch movies, sidestepping the Cineplex altogether, the majority of what they're being offered—whether it be in theaters, On Demand, at a streaming site or on Blu-ray—in this time period still seems to fall into the also-ran category. Here are four cases in point—well, three sorta goods and one classic.
Is San Diego the New Home of LGBT Activism?
Why this Southern California city should be on your radar for LGBT activism.
read more
read more
I?m not a playa, I just crush a lot: a guide to dating multiple people at once
A lesbian guide on how to date multiple people at once without drama
Wednesday, September 24, 2014
The Dinah 2011: Day One
After fourteen hours of being airborne and being not so airborne in the longest layover ever at LAX, I finally touched down in Palm Springs at 7:30 PT last night and raced over to the comedy show at the Riviera, which was already in progress. 90 degrees, clear skies, palms trees lining the streets.
(48) Glossy Glam Drag Race
Intro from Our Friends at the I’m Going to Kill You Podcast Rupaul’s Drag Race, Bigots From All Walks of Life and/or Opposing Parties Etcetera Can ALL Agree on One Thing: H8 Legislation. PC Polizia, Homogenization, the Fairness Doctrine, Freedom of Speech, Women and Food, Stupidity: the Side Effect of Narcissism and more … http://www.imgoingtokillyou.podomatic.com […]
Same-Sex Marriage in the Bible Belt and Beyond
Ever since the US Supreme court overturned DOMA last summer, state after state has overturned voter-approved bans on gay marriage. In recent months, judges have struck down laws prohibiting same-sex marriage in five states. Idaho and Arkansas join the ranks this week....Read Full Post
(77) The We Hate This Show Show But Love You Like Crack Cocaine
We really do hate this particular podcast with a passion. We talk a lot about nothing but feel intensely pressured to post content, even if it’s devoid of meaning … like Julie Chen’s every tear. Mostly all of it is recorded on the portable so it’s tinny, there’s lots of shouting and the sound goes […]
Louisiana judge: Gay marriage ban unconstitutional
Louisiana judge: Gay marriage ban unconstitutional Judge ruled that ban violated 14th Amendment as well as a constitutional requirement. Check out this story on USATODAY.com: http://usat.ly/1uAHuvu Bill Nelson, left, and Stan Grant, listen to speakers during a rally in reaction to today's decision by a federal judge which upheld Louisiana's ban on same-sex marriages, in the French Quarter of New Orleans, Wednesday, Sept.
Tuesday, September 23, 2014
See Rochelle, She's MY Boo!
So you know that pic I posted this weekend of me meeting the AMAZING Whoopi Goldberg and me looking like someone just punched me in the face and stole my bike? THAT is EXACTLY how my face looks right now watching what I just found on youtube:LOL what?? ...and then also, what. PLEASE do yourself a favor and watch the entire 2 minutes and 4 seconds cause it will change your life.
Boy George Headlines Cleveland Gay Games White Party
This should be fun, especially to any of us who grew up in the '80s: queer pop icon Boy George will be performing this summer in Cleveland during Gay Games IX. You can catch the show during the week's much-anticipated White Party, which takes place Monday, August 11, at Jacobs Pavilion, in Nautica. The party is preceded by a two-hour scenic dinner cruise on the Nautica Queen, and Boy George will be joined onstage by DJs Marc Vedo and Evan Evolution. Sounds like a memorable evening! Here are more details on this year's Gay Games 9 in Cleveland.
One Direction - Trouble in Da House
There is trouble in the house - the X Factor house that is, between the boys in One Direction.
Inside the house the boys are bitchin and fighting for the mirror. Louis Tomlinson, Liam Payne, Harry Styles, Zain Malik and Niall Horan have been doing really well with X factor fans, so much so that there is plenty of cat calling and nail scratching over who is the most popular.
There is so much friction in the group. The other boys are jealous that Harry and Liam are getting all the press attention. It?s a real sore point.
Louis [Tomlinson], Niall [Horan] and Zain [Malik] are worried that they aren?t as popular and that no-one knows who they are.
Liam?s mother is adding to the heat by telling him to scratch those other boys eyes out, as he is the most popular. She said this week
?Liam has a very strong following.
?I can?t speak for the other boys, I don?t know about their solo careers, but Liam gigged all over the country so he has both options open really.?
Well there you go.
Mums the word.View Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
Inside the house the boys are bitchin and fighting for the mirror. Louis Tomlinson, Liam Payne, Harry Styles, Zain Malik and Niall Horan have been doing really well with X factor fans, so much so that there is plenty of cat calling and nail scratching over who is the most popular.
There is so much friction in the group. The other boys are jealous that Harry and Liam are getting all the press attention. It?s a real sore point.
Louis [Tomlinson], Niall [Horan] and Zain [Malik] are worried that they aren?t as popular and that no-one knows who they are.
Liam?s mother is adding to the heat by telling him to scratch those other boys eyes out, as he is the most popular. She said this week
?Liam has a very strong following.
?I can?t speak for the other boys, I don?t know about their solo careers, but Liam gigged all over the country so he has both options open really.?
Well there you go.
Mums the word.View Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
Miracles in the Fall
Playwright: Chuck O'Connor. At: Polarity Ensemble Theatre at the Greenhouse, 2257 N. Lincoln Ave. Tickets: 773-404-7336; www.petheatre.com; $25. Runs through: Oct. 5
Pretty Airplanes
Jes from Dayton Ohio recently contacted me to tell me about an art project she completed. She was invited by the city to cover this model F16 jet with art. Since she is a mosaic artist, this is what she came up with. Jess said:I covered the Jet with stained glass because glass is the most beautiful media in the world ;)I wanted to show a larger range of color and knew that a rainbow would be perfect. The plane is meant to be beautiful more than anything else. I wanted people to want to know what she is all about. A beautiful sculpture that says I'm proud to be gay and in the military. I hope this Rainbow F16 serves as a reminder that we need to defeat the BAN on gay men and women serving our country. Equality is beautiful.Jes's plane will be on display in a bank in Dayton, Ohio. Thanks for sharing Jes!
Gaga speaks, Reid acts on ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’
LAS VEGAS (AP) – Does Lady Gaga run the U.S. Senate?
A spokesman for Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid said Tuesday a vote to repeal the military’s ban of openly gay and lesbian soldiers had been planned for next week before the singer made waves with a plea during a daytime talk show.
The pop star known for flashy performances and eccentric style called on Reid to repeal the military’s “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy in an interview with Ellen DeGeneres that aired Monday.
Reid’s campaign and Gaga traded talking points on Twitter after the lawmaker announced the vote. Reid told Gaga repealing the measure was the right thing to do.
Campaign spokesman Kelly Steele said Reid does not take cues from Gaga.
…
Read More
A spokesman for Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid said Tuesday a vote to repeal the military’s ban of openly gay and lesbian soldiers had been planned for next week before the singer made waves with a plea during a daytime talk show.
The pop star known for flashy performances and eccentric style called on Reid to repeal the military’s “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy in an interview with Ellen DeGeneres that aired Monday.
Reid’s campaign and Gaga traded talking points on Twitter after the lawmaker announced the vote. Reid told Gaga repealing the measure was the right thing to do.
Campaign spokesman Kelly Steele said Reid does not take cues from Gaga.
…
Read More
Monday, September 22, 2014
tap…tap…tap…Is This Thing On?
Just wondering if anyone uses these forums and/or they actually work anymore.
Interesting: many of us have waited so long for the recognition to be married you’d think we’d be one big clusterfun of sworling ideas, eh?
Interesting: many of us have waited so long for the recognition to be married you’d think we’d be one big clusterfun of sworling ideas, eh?
What to Watch Monday 9/22: 'Under the Dome' season finale
Tonight catch the season finale of Under the Dome and a new episode of America's Next Top Model.
What to Watch: Monday, September 22
9:00pm: America's Next Top Model, CW (1 hr) NEW
This season Miss J has returned as a judge and the cast includes out contestant Will. This week, the models are challenged to perform in extreme conditions during a windblown photo shoot and later they get the opportunity to be the face of a major campaign.
10:00pm: Under the Dome, CBS (1 hr) SEASON FINALE
A possible exit from the dome is discovered as the townspeople trapped in Chester's Mill face mortal danger.
This morning and afternoon,�check your local listings for information about�Ellen,�The Talk�(CBS), The Gossip Table (VH1), The View (ABC) and�The Chew�(ABC). Soap operas Days of Our Lives�on NBC and General Hospital on ABC (check local listings for time) both feature out characters.
____________________________________________________
About What to Watch on TV
Grab the remote or set your DVR!�GLAAD�brings you the most up-to-date listing of LGBT content on television every weekday. Check�GLAAD Blog�for daily What to Watch on TV posts!
About GLAADGLAAD amplifies the voice of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community by empowering real people to share their stories, holding the media accountable for the words and images they present, and helping grassroots organizations communicate effectively. By ensuring that the stories of LGBT people are heard through the media, GLAAD promotes understanding, increases acceptance, and advances equality. For more information, see�www.glaad.org,�www.facebook.com/glaad,�www.twitter.com/glaad�and�www.glaad.tumblr.com.
September 22, 2014
Issues:
What to Watch on TV
What to Watch: Monday, September 22
9:00pm: America's Next Top Model, CW (1 hr) NEW
This season Miss J has returned as a judge and the cast includes out contestant Will. This week, the models are challenged to perform in extreme conditions during a windblown photo shoot and later they get the opportunity to be the face of a major campaign.
10:00pm: Under the Dome, CBS (1 hr) SEASON FINALE
A possible exit from the dome is discovered as the townspeople trapped in Chester's Mill face mortal danger.
This morning and afternoon,�check your local listings for information about�Ellen,�The Talk�(CBS), The Gossip Table (VH1), The View (ABC) and�The Chew�(ABC). Soap operas Days of Our Lives�on NBC and General Hospital on ABC (check local listings for time) both feature out characters.
____________________________________________________
About What to Watch on TV
Grab the remote or set your DVR!�GLAAD�brings you the most up-to-date listing of LGBT content on television every weekday. Check�GLAAD Blog�for daily What to Watch on TV posts!
About GLAADGLAAD amplifies the voice of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community by empowering real people to share their stories, holding the media accountable for the words and images they present, and helping grassroots organizations communicate effectively. By ensuring that the stories of LGBT people are heard through the media, GLAAD promotes understanding, increases acceptance, and advances equality. For more information, see�www.glaad.org,�www.facebook.com/glaad,�www.twitter.com/glaad�and�www.glaad.tumblr.com.
September 22, 2014
Issues:
What to Watch on TV
Irene Monroe: Black children are "beloved and beaten"
"Beloved and beaten" is a phrase that best depicts how many African American children ? past and present ? are disciplined.
It is an authoritative type of African-American parenting discipline style that is painfully revered. Yet, in too many incidents, it continues to be uncritically passed along generationally.
When Minnesota Vikings running back Adrian Peterson was indicted on allegation of child abuse, he admitted to using the disciplinary methods passed down by his father.
The Rev. Irene Monroe looks at the roots of African-American corporal punishment of children, and urges us to break from from a shackle of our past.
read more
It is an authoritative type of African-American parenting discipline style that is painfully revered. Yet, in too many incidents, it continues to be uncritically passed along generationally.
When Minnesota Vikings running back Adrian Peterson was indicted on allegation of child abuse, he admitted to using the disciplinary methods passed down by his father.
The Rev. Irene Monroe looks at the roots of African-American corporal punishment of children, and urges us to break from from a shackle of our past.
read more
(39) Tatooed Atom Smashers & 13 Bisexual Lesbotrons
Vladimir is Displeased w/the Bing Bang, Aries Discrimination, Lesbian Mafia Tattoos, Sex Addiction, *Guest *Heide* (formerly of Chaos Radio) and Her Dream Life, Houseboy Slaves, Dominatrixes Make Strange Lovers, 13 Types of Bisexuality – Which One Are You? *Guest: *Reap* of Pulse Talk Radio�talks Black Holes & San Fran … Lesbian Mafia Apparel: http://thelesbianmafia.spreadshirt.com Voice […]
(25) The Pope Show & Debbie Gibson
The Pope reps in NYC, The Pope-mobile, Pope apologies, The Pope on Evil Eve, The Pope, Pope and more Pope ….
Sunday, September 21, 2014
Openly gay radio host Enrique Santos gets his own TV show
Enrique Santos is no longer just a voice on your radio, he's now the host of his own talk show El Palenque de Enrique Santos on Univision's UniM�s. Santos has a successful career in radio, and has a daily morning broadcast, "The Enrique Santos Show," where he interviews a wide variety of celebrities. Also known for celebrity prank calls, Santos became infamous for successfully prank calling Cuban dictator Fidel Castro. Santos is an out Latino man who has worked his charm, humor and bilingual abilities to attract radio listeners and is now set to win over viewers. You can listen to the "Enrique Santos Show" on your location Univision radio station or at http://enriquesantos.com/. Watch him daily on El Palenque de Enrique Santos on UniM�s (5PM Eastern, 4PM Central, and 5 PM Pacific).
September 17, 2014
Issues:
Spanish-Language Media
September 17, 2014
Issues:
Spanish-Language Media
Marine Reservist questions demobilization over HIV status
San Diego, CA – Marine Reservist Sgt Timothy Holmberg is questioning his recent demobilization by Marine Fighter Attack Training Squadron 101 (VMFAT 101). Holmberg recently volunteered for active duty service to support the Miramar based training squadron in its mission to train pilots for service in Iraq and Afghanistan. The squadron trains pilots to fly the F/A-18 Hornet in combat support roles and Holmberg has over 20 years experience maintaining the aircraft and its systems.
This would have been Holmberg’s second mobilization tour with the squadron, but it was cut short by the unit’s commanding officer. “I reported as ordered for duty and when I arrived at the squadron was told to stop checking in by the unit Sgt Maj. He indicat…
Read More
This would have been Holmberg’s second mobilization tour with the squadron, but it was cut short by the unit’s commanding officer. “I reported as ordered for duty and when I arrived at the squadron was told to stop checking in by the unit Sgt Maj. He indicat…
Read More
Make Oregon State #18 to Legalize Same-Sex Marriage
I have to admit, it's been hard to sit here in Oregon and watch state after state legalize same-sex marriage, when I knew my state was one of the ones with a Constitutional Ban on against it. But finally today, a federal judge has ruled that to ban same-sex couples from marrying violates their constitutional rights. Yay Oregon!...Read Full Post
Miracles in the Fall
Playwright: Chuck O'Connor. At: Polarity Ensemble Theatre at the Greenhouse, 2257 N. Lincoln Ave. Tickets: 773-404-7336; www.petheatre.com; $25. Runs through: Oct. 5
LGBT group hosts 9/11 tribute to Fr. Mychal Judge
About 50 people attended the 9/11 memorial tribute to Fr. Mychal Judge at Old St. Patrick's Church Sept. 11. The tribute featured a screening of a documentary about Judge's life, the "Saint of 9/11."
D'Emilio symposium examines state and future of his field
Following the May 2014 retirement of renowned and accomplished LGBTQ educator, historian, author and activist John D'Emilio from a 15-year position as the professor of history and women's and gender studies at the University of Illinois at Chicago UIC , his former department convened a two-day public symposium to study his impact on LGBTQ histories, lives and futures.
Jim Winsor?s Out & About: STUD Night anniversary party at the Eagle on Friday
This Friday night the San Diego Eagle will be celebrating the 3-year anniversary of their popular STUD Night with the Bad Boys of Porn, with a special guest appearance this month by porn star Devin Dixon.
The fun starts at 10:30 pm, right after their new Cowboys & Kinksters bi-monthly event, which gets going at 9 pm.
Birthday Night at Babycakes
Another fun weekend is ahead of us!
read more
The fun starts at 10:30 pm, right after their new Cowboys & Kinksters bi-monthly event, which gets going at 9 pm.
Birthday Night at Babycakes
Another fun weekend is ahead of us!
read more
Saturday, September 20, 2014
(23) We?re 1! Let?s Get Serious ?
New Show Post! #23 – We’re 1! Let’s Get Serious … Up Close and Personal with Sandi solo. St. Pats, Elliot Spitz, Courtesans, 1 Year Anniversary Introspection Featuring Music by Natalia Zuckerman in the artists corner: http://www.myspace.com/nataliazukerman Lesbian Mafia Apparel http://thelesbianmafia.spreadshirt.com Voice Mail – 206-984-4093 Happy St. Pats peoples!
QueerFest St. Petersburg a Success Despite Evictions, Attacks
Organizers of the International Queer Culture Festival in St. Petersburg gracefully faced down bullies with courage, determination and help from police, American and European diplomatic missions, as well as friendly passersby.
read more
read more
The new gay sex
WITH half an hour still to go before the forum would officially begin, out in the audience the conversation about Pre Exposure Prophylaxis for HIV and mdash; PrEP and mdash; was already in full swing.
No gays at the Chymorvah guesthouse Cornwall
Martin Hall and his civil partner Stephen Preddy, were turned away from a homophobic guesthouse at Marizion in Corwall, on the grounds of "we dont allow unmarried couples to sleep in our guesthouse". Given that Hall and Preddy are in a civil partnership, this is a bit hard to believe.
It transpires that the owners are some sort of religious nut cases who have taken some line from the Bible a little to far. It is incredible in this day and age that people still think this way. It is obviously far more important to ignore the "LOVE" and "ACCEPTANCE" message from their faith and focus on - shock horror - the possibility that two people might actually have SEX.
Peter and Hazelmary Bull denied the allegation that they discriminated against Martyn Hall and Steven Preddy because they were gay, but insisted their faith meant they believed unmarried couples should not share a room under their roof.
A second case of homophobic prejudice. Sad old couple!
Gay newsView Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
It transpires that the owners are some sort of religious nut cases who have taken some line from the Bible a little to far. It is incredible in this day and age that people still think this way. It is obviously far more important to ignore the "LOVE" and "ACCEPTANCE" message from their faith and focus on - shock horror - the possibility that two people might actually have SEX.
Peter and Hazelmary Bull denied the allegation that they discriminated against Martyn Hall and Steven Preddy because they were gay, but insisted their faith meant they believed unmarried couples should not share a room under their roof.
A second case of homophobic prejudice. Sad old couple!
Gay newsView Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
ADOPT ME! Take Maia home!
Maia is a blue and white-colored short-haired kitten. She is 2 months old and has been spayed.
How I arrived
I was transferred in from another shelter.
At SDHS
I am a lovely little kitten with a heart of gold. My kitten antics are sure to make you smile.
Why I am the one for you
Maia is a blue and white-colored short-haired kitten. She is 2 months old and has been spayed.
read more
How I arrived
I was transferred in from another shelter.
At SDHS
I am a lovely little kitten with a heart of gold. My kitten antics are sure to make you smile.
Why I am the one for you
Maia is a blue and white-colored short-haired kitten. She is 2 months old and has been spayed.
read more
Vancouver Queers :: Will You Be at Davie + Howe?
Vancouver is a-talking about what's coming to Davie & Howe in October and it's all the buzz.... Much speculation has been going around about what would be going into the prime intersection in gay-town. While I was glad to hear it's not going to be a Starbuck's or a BlockBuster or yet another Safeway, I couldn't get the skinny on what was coming to the location exactly. I'm super intrigued, though, as I like the way "whatever-it-is" is flirting with the gay community.What I Did Find OutIt's going to be a new Canadian brand and that they are launching in Vancouver before going national. Hmm.... a brand of what? We also heard from a very reliable source that this new yet to be named Canadian brand is going to definitely support the LGBT community. Even though it's quite coy, I'm very curious--curious enough to join the online bandwagon! You should, too.I'll keep my ear to the ground and let you know what I can uncover between now and Oct. I'm excited to see so many cute faces out and about and online! Join me in the fun.
(16) New Year, Same Ol? Foolishness ?
Republican Pizza Pies, Nipple Clamps, Porn Virgins, Naughty Blue Chippers, Ear Piercing Karaoke … does any of it really have any meaning?
(11) Idiocy Abound and Professions of Love for MJ
Voicemails from Cindy, Hairy Hedges, Sick Vick, Hicoughs, Ay Bay Bay, Fartisodes, Professions of Love for Mistress Juliya, Orbit Bubble Gum, What Is Dirty Armenian Sex?, Curve Girls …
Friday, September 19, 2014
Trans* woman claims self-defense in case
Like any 22-year-old growing up in a country that has historically prided itself on opportunities available to all, Eisha Love had dreams. On a website, she showcased photographs of herself, saying she was looking to get a start in life. "I am a hard worker and a fast learner," she wrote. "I know I was born to model."
For the love of music
An interview with DJ Nikol
If you ever walk into a venue where DJ Nikol, also known as Nikolbag, is spinning you will realize it right away. The distinctive sound that was born in the San Diego underground art shows has carried over to her new home “Playhouse” at The Office on Tuesday nights. She is a resident DJ at Playhouse and has been there since its birth. She can be heard spinning your old or hard to find favorites, including new DJ remixes that no one else will play. She is a San Diego native that has one true love, music.
GLT: What inspired you to become a DJ?
NB: When I was younger I always into music. Even as a child I was strongly influenced by the B-boy, B-girl movement. I believe we are created to be inspired by music, that’s why music has the ability …
Read More
If you ever walk into a venue where DJ Nikol, also known as Nikolbag, is spinning you will realize it right away. The distinctive sound that was born in the San Diego underground art shows has carried over to her new home “Playhouse” at The Office on Tuesday nights. She is a resident DJ at Playhouse and has been there since its birth. She can be heard spinning your old or hard to find favorites, including new DJ remixes that no one else will play. She is a San Diego native that has one true love, music.
GLT: What inspired you to become a DJ?
NB: When I was younger I always into music. Even as a child I was strongly influenced by the B-boy, B-girl movement. I believe we are created to be inspired by music, that’s why music has the ability …
Read More
4 Hour Body
This is a must for all gym boys out there.
I have started the 4 Hour Body diet (yeh) - follow my progress here The Four Hour Body - Paul ThompsonView Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
I have started the 4 Hour Body diet (yeh) - follow my progress here The Four Hour Body - Paul ThompsonView Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
(61) Gettin? Hyphy
The Ariana Nation is getting hyphy on Biden; We gettin hyphy on The Penis director Polanski who rapes 7th graders; Some of YOUR voicemails; Chat w/Bobbi about Jada & Lil Kim’s cheek bones, Cougars, LTRs, Chat w/Niki about Guns & Women, 911 Conspiracy Theories, Dancing Guidettes … http://www.altfg.com/blog/directors/roman-polanski-petition Woody Allen signed this petition. WOODY ALLEN! […]
What is Mark Regnerus' new international video project?
Mark Regnerus, who is now infamous in American political circles for his flawed, widely repudiated, far-right-concoted "study" that was designed to slight same-sex parents in order to influence the 2012 elections and the Supreme Court, but that has ultimately backfired on the movement that designed it. �But now it seems that Mr. Regnerus might have international aspirations.
In a 9/17/14 Catholic radio appearance, right in the middle of a lengthy discussion on marriage equality, Regnerus revealed that he was just in a number of other nations filming some sort of video series that is presumably on the same subject:
SOURCE: Relevant Radio, 9/17/14
All of the nations that Regnerus mentioned have some sort of marriage equality or LGBT rights debate going on. In Mexico, recent court developments have allowed marriage equality in some areas but not others. �France has been a bit of a ground zero for American activists, with Regnerus' allies at the National Organization For Marriage working very closely with Parisian activists in the go-nowhere hope of overturning equality. In Lebanon, a landmark court ruling recently determined that same-sex relations are not a crime. �And then in Nigeria, you have a similar situation as Uganda, with local activists and courts literally debating whether or not LGBT people should have to spend lifetimes in prison or face the death penalty.
I guess it could be coincidence that these nations, which have all been in the news over the past two years precisely for their LGBT rights/marriage debates, just so happen to be the locales where a man best known for his anti-equality activism did his filming. �But considering he mentioned them as part of his broader discussion about LGBT rights, I think it's a pretty safe bet that whatever he was filming, and for whomever he was filming it, involves international advocacy against LGBT equality which, as as many of us who pay attention to these things keep noting, seems to be the new focus for American activists who are dismayed by their fortunes here at home.
Perhaps Regnerus is helping NOM launch its long-percolating International Organization For Marriage? It's worth asking the question.�
September 18, 2014
Issues:
News,
Family
In a 9/17/14 Catholic radio appearance, right in the middle of a lengthy discussion on marriage equality, Regnerus revealed that he was just in a number of other nations filming some sort of video series that is presumably on the same subject:
SOURCE: Relevant Radio, 9/17/14
All of the nations that Regnerus mentioned have some sort of marriage equality or LGBT rights debate going on. In Mexico, recent court developments have allowed marriage equality in some areas but not others. �France has been a bit of a ground zero for American activists, with Regnerus' allies at the National Organization For Marriage working very closely with Parisian activists in the go-nowhere hope of overturning equality. In Lebanon, a landmark court ruling recently determined that same-sex relations are not a crime. �And then in Nigeria, you have a similar situation as Uganda, with local activists and courts literally debating whether or not LGBT people should have to spend lifetimes in prison or face the death penalty.
I guess it could be coincidence that these nations, which have all been in the news over the past two years precisely for their LGBT rights/marriage debates, just so happen to be the locales where a man best known for his anti-equality activism did his filming. �But considering he mentioned them as part of his broader discussion about LGBT rights, I think it's a pretty safe bet that whatever he was filming, and for whomever he was filming it, involves international advocacy against LGBT equality which, as as many of us who pay attention to these things keep noting, seems to be the new focus for American activists who are dismayed by their fortunes here at home.
Perhaps Regnerus is helping NOM launch its long-percolating International Organization For Marriage? It's worth asking the question.�
September 18, 2014
Issues:
News,
Family
INTJ Personality Type: 'Introvert' Does Not Mean 'Shy'
I've been learning a lot in my new media classes. The one that I'm taking that is giving me a grade for this blog has been especially helpful. In analyzing what keywords people use to arrive at my blog, I noticed a special one: INTJ. The INTJWhat the hell is that, you ask?IntrovertediNtuitive (don't think that "N" instead of "I" shit doesn't bother us because it does...)ThinkingJudgingI think we will start talking about this on a regular basis but for today, I felt it was important to get a fundamental truth out of the way:Being an introvert does not mean that you're shy. I'm very outgoing and can talk to and get along with almost anyone. Do I want to?Hell no. But I've learned how to be friendly and a good listener out of necessity and I'll do it if I must; it's just not my favorite thing. An introvert is someone who recharges by being alone. An extrovert gets charged up by being around people. To be clear: It has nothing to do with shyness or being outgoing. You are almost certain to have an introvert in your life so I thought I would borrow this handy chart that I found on Pinterest to help guide you in your care for the introvert (INTJ) in your life: If you offer this type of love and support to your introvert, you will be valued and prized above all others! You may even be invited into our private world.
We must straighten our backs…
We trusted that following conservative and STRAIGHT (for those Prop 8 supporters) Justice Phillips’ September 9th decision that “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell” was unconstitutional on two counts, the Senate would vote to uphold the integrity of our Nation by voting for the repeal of this pathetic law. The House had done so in June, along with the Senate Armed Services Committee. Now, backed by an unconstitutionality ruling, certainly the Senate would end the ban once and for all.
Fail.
Instead, on September 21st Sen. John McCain (R-Az.), a POW and a former hero to many of us veterans, single handedly obstructed justice with a filibuster. Sadly, the Senate could not muster 60 Senators willing to vote to override him.
No more than two…
Read More
Fail.
Instead, on September 21st Sen. John McCain (R-Az.), a POW and a former hero to many of us veterans, single handedly obstructed justice with a filibuster. Sadly, the Senate could not muster 60 Senators willing to vote to override him.
No more than two…
Read More
Thursday, September 18, 2014
Outed on Amazon.com
No Warning...I let my daughter handle the deets when it came to writing her book, Ashway. She signed her own contract (her dad reviewed it) and had it edited by someone else. In fact, I still have not read it because I was trying to buy a case at a wholesale price and was not able to get anywhere with the publisher on a timetable that I could live with. So today, I went to Amazon to order a copy. (You can get your own by clicking HERE)Ooooh! There are 2 reviews (5 stars by verified purchases) and wow - they have a thing where you can look on the inside and also see the back cover now! How exciting... a short author bio! And I LOVE that pic of her. Oh, she mentions being homeschooled. How adorab....Wait.Did my kid just OUT ME AS A LESBIAN ON AMAZON.COM?!?!Fuck yes, she did! No warning. Nothing. THIS is how I found out. Damn her introvertedness...
(37) She Fills In Cause WhatsHerFace Is On Hiatus
Guest Host Nikki Fills In While Sandi Is On Brief Hiatus, (go easy on her) Most of this is nonsense but it’s stuff was laying around the hard drive from a few weeks ago so we figured we’d post it, why the Hey not?! “Elegant” Farm Dinners?, Irrational War Mongers, Aussies Tear Into Sandi with […]
(3) Interview w/ Marga Gomez & etc.
there’s some echo on the crank call, sorry ’bout that. if you’ve been gay for more than a minute, you probably know who marga gomez is. for someone like myself who is a bit of a funny person, it was an honor to have her grace the show. hope you enjoy it! (repost from 4-13-2007) […]
Stuff Lesbians Like Part 124: Reply-All-colism
What really makes a lesbian more excited than a paparazzo in room full of Kardashians is when she receives a mass email announcing a night on the town or a house party. This is not because she will get to drink cocktails with her friends and thirty other people she barely knows but pretends to be best friends with. It means that she will be able to solidify her position in the entourage by announcing her presence and expressing her thoughts to a built-in audience by pressing ?reply all.?
Midnight Sun: Sir Ivan and #39;s Annual Hampton Fundraising Bash
On the heels of the release of his newly single �Here Comes The Sun,� recording artist Sir Ivan hosted his annual bash, �Midnight Sun� at his lavish castle in the Hamptons on August 23, 2014, to celebrate the release of his single, and to raise funds for his foundation. Sir Ivan's Castle shining under the Midnight SunKnown for singing tunes about universal love, human rights and world peace, Sir Ivan created �The Peaceman Foundation,� to help individuals suffering from Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (P.T.S.D.) as a result of bullying, hatred, violence or persecution. Additionally, 100% of Sir Ivan�s personal recording artist royalties go to the non-profit charity. Later this year, Sir Ivan will release an anti-bullying anthem titled �Kiss All The Bullies Goodbye,� to raise awareness about the staggering statistics of teen suicides in the LGBT community, who attempt suicide at a rate 40% higher than that of straight teenagers. Proceeds from this song will be going to various LGBT organizations, including The Trevor Project. Produced by world famous Paul Oakenfold, �Kiss All the Bullies Goodbye� also features a vocal performance from International pop star Taylor Dayne.See link below to an article with The Source magazine, which recaps the big bash, as well as includes photos and details about Sir Ivan�s charity efforts: and nbsp
Wednesday, September 17, 2014
(35) Fruits, Porn & Cheats 101
Frustrating fruits “shit in my peach.” Sarah Jessica Parker and Ferris Bueller’s Day Off Getting Off, Interns, Infidelitors, Porn, and more trash-talk! (some of the calls had bad sound, sorry :/ Featuring music by: Sarah Greenwood’s – GSX! http://www.myspace.com/gsx Vote for her VIDEO HERE: http://www.logoonline.com/shows/dyn/the_click_list/video_voting.jhtml
WATCH: Eli Lieb's moving performance at the #glaadgala in SF
Openly gay singer-songwriter Eli Lieb performed a beautiful rendition of his song "Young Love" at the GLAAD Gala San Francisco: Game Changers. Attendees including Tyler Oakley and DJ Juanita MORE! praised the performance:
@elilieb Incredible performance tonight at the #glaadgala! I'm a fan! <3
? Tyler Oakley (@tyleroakley) September 14, 2014
Fell in love w @elilieb last nite at #glaadgala when he sang to me! pic.twitter.com/DdPfthjaEN
? Juanita More (@juanitamore) September 14, 2014
Check out the video:�
Later in the evening, Lieb joined host Taryn Manning on stage to auction off a kiss to benefit GLAAD. Check out the picture!
GLAAD Gala San Francisco: Game Changers recognizes national and Bay Area leaders advancing LGBT equality through the media and also funds GLAAD's national advocacy work to rewrite the script for LGBT equality.
Take a look at more photos from the event.
�
�
�
September 16, 2014
Issues:
Music
@elilieb Incredible performance tonight at the #glaadgala! I'm a fan! <3
? Tyler Oakley (@tyleroakley) September 14, 2014
Fell in love w @elilieb last nite at #glaadgala when he sang to me! pic.twitter.com/DdPfthjaEN
? Juanita More (@juanitamore) September 14, 2014
Check out the video:�
Later in the evening, Lieb joined host Taryn Manning on stage to auction off a kiss to benefit GLAAD. Check out the picture!
GLAAD Gala San Francisco: Game Changers recognizes national and Bay Area leaders advancing LGBT equality through the media and also funds GLAAD's national advocacy work to rewrite the script for LGBT equality.
Take a look at more photos from the event.
�
�
�
September 16, 2014
Issues:
Music
(8) The Gay Fucking Fucky Pride Show Coming Out Stories
Adam & Andrews Tatu parody ‘I’m a Lesbian,’ My software ate the real show so here’s the fake one , Bickering lezzies, Gay Pride but not in Miami, I need to get Bucked?, Coming out stories, Really bad greaseball accents, Shout outs!
‘Don’t ask, don’t tell’ injunction now up to judge
SAN DIEGO, Ca (AP) – U.S. government lawyers are trying to stop a federal judge from issuing an injunction that would immediately do what President Obama has yet to accomplish so far in his first term: Halt the military’s ban on openly gay troops. Now it is up to U.S. District Court Judge Virginia Phillips to decide if she is willing to do that.
The White House says the legal filing Thursday by the U.S. Department of Justice attorneys in a federal court in Riverside follows government procedure by defending an act of Congress that is being challenged, but it does not detract from the president’s efforts to get ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ repealed.
“This filing in no way diminishes the president’s firm commi…
Read More
The White House says the legal filing Thursday by the U.S. Department of Justice attorneys in a federal court in Riverside follows government procedure by defending an act of Congress that is being challenged, but it does not detract from the president’s efforts to get ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ repealed.
“This filing in no way diminishes the president’s firm commi…
Read More
Toronto lesbian social groups?
Toronto lesbian community/friends filter: Where in Toronto can I find and join some sort of lesbian social groups? Where are the non-alcoholic local hang outs? I am single (so, the couples-only ones are out) and in my late 20's. I'm really just looking for friends. I tried okcupid, but all the meetings turn into dates quickly, and before I know it a woman is professing love when I haven't even decided we can be great friends. I have some gay friends, both men and women, in real life, but I want to meet more.
(34) Deleted Scenes!
Could a podcast have Deleted Scenes? The answer is yes! Got a portable was testing it out so most of this is stuff that would have normally been deleted but for the sake of consistancy here it goes … Bullshit & Dolphins, Portable Recorder Nonsense from Various Locations, Best Buy, Rude Toll Booth People, Word […]
'The Real L Word' Season 3, Episode 1...a Twittercap
So, not sure if I'll keep live tweeting The Real L Word after tonight. Depends on what you guys think and what I hear on fb/twitter. But if you're interested, here are ye olde tweets. Start from the bottom up (*Zach Morris 4th wall wink*) and enjoy. Follow me @ twitter.com/ArlanWasHere Follow Whitney @ twitter.com/Whitneymixterla Follow Kiyomi @ twitter.com/Kiyomance Follow Romi @ twitter.com/TenderRomi Follow Kacy & Cori @ twitter.com/KacyChristine & twitter.com/CoriCupcakeFollow the official Real L Word @ twitter.com/Sho_RealLWord
Tuesday, September 16, 2014
I'm From Driftwood Presents: 'You're Bisexual? Then Why Not Choose To Be Normal?'
A video from the LGBT story archive I'm From Driftwood asks, 'what's normal anyway?'
read more
read more
The Dinah 2011: Day 3
They're here, they're queer, and you might just react with fear. Videos of 10,000 lesbians in the desert.
Op-ed: Finding Haven In Gay Saunas
Some say the writing is on the wall for gay bathhouses, but is that really true?
(44) (Part 2) Interview w/Melissa Ferrick & Prop H8 Protest Recap
Prop H8 Protest Observational Observations,, Part 2 of the Melissa Ferrick Interview! We talk File Sharing, Touring, Sobriety, Porn Names and More. To Catch Melissa Live Check Out Her Tour Schedule … http://www.myspace.com/melissaferrick The Lesbian Mafia is syndicated every Tuesday @6pm EST On: RadioDentata.com! & Daily @12pm EST On ReapSowRadio.com NEW! LISTEN TO THE LESBIAN […]
I'm 45, female and just discovered I'm bi. Now what?
I'm 45, female and just discovered I'm bi. Now what?
Yes, I know it seems unlikely, and the nearest I can figure is my arousal/desire for every single one of my lovers has occurred after being desired, rather than finding someone hot in advance. I was married for a very long time, and possibly oblivious to any gay come-ons, in my premarital time. For the sake of the information I seek, can we please assume that I am correct - that I am bi, and that this wasn't just experimental? (which has been suggested to me by a straight friend). I had very satisfying sex with a close friend a week ago after she flirted relentlessly with me for 6 weeks (yes, I'm clueless). I find I want more, and not just/necessarily with her. There were aspects of it very different to sex with a man (which I also enjoy immensely) which were just delightful, not least the emotional closeness, the softer kisses, the different body to hold in my arms, the feel of ... yeah, you get the idea.
So I don't know where to start, and feel like a near virgin again, but old enough this time to realise there's so many complications.
Here's some:
I'm concerned about coming out at some stage to my adult but somewhat innocent children, who still don't cope well with me having sex with someone other than their father, particular as their father and I didn't share a bedroom for most of our marriage.
I'm wondering if I should come out to my siblings - or is my sex-life none of their business, until I turn up at a barbecue with a female companion? They're not homophobic, but I think it will be a shock to them, simply because I've never identified that way.
I've heard that some lesbian women find bi-women problematic.
I don't know how to present my lack of experience at this age to potential female lovers. I don't know how to indicate my interest in a woman, in a way that is different to overtures of friendship. I really don't know know what to do in bed. I'm not sure lesbian porn is the way to go, if I could find it, because like, I wouldn't recommend porn to anyone to learn about sex.
I wonder if I should tell my friends, and long-term colleagues and I do work in a very gay-friendly workplace, but is my sexuality an inappropriate topic at work?
I'm a student and could join the uni queer support group, but the members are likely to be much younger than me, and with very different issues.
I'm confused that it took me this long to find out. I feel somewhat guilty that I didn't have to go through discrimination in my youth because I didn't know.
I'm kind of horrified that I'm so clueless about myself that I didn't know. I feel my self-identity has just been turned upside, and I'm not sure who I am anymore, and it feels awfully late to go looking for myself.
I wonder if I should go to gay clubs.
The very few straight friends that I've shared with seem to think it's no big deal, the males saying most women are bi, and whatever, the females telling me I'm still the same person I was before and they love me, which is nice and accepting of both sets, but not very helpful if you know what I mean.
I don't know where to start. I don't know what I don't know. I wonder if I'm making too big a deal of this.
Bonus question: my arousal/desire for every single one of my lovers has occurred after being desired - this probably explains why I have such difficulty masturbating to orgasm without company (and I do have a very good imagination, also can come very easily with a partner), but also makes me further question my sexuality - why is it so much tied into external influences. What's up with that?
Location: Brisbane Queensland Australia
Yes, I know it seems unlikely, and the nearest I can figure is my arousal/desire for every single one of my lovers has occurred after being desired, rather than finding someone hot in advance. I was married for a very long time, and possibly oblivious to any gay come-ons, in my premarital time. For the sake of the information I seek, can we please assume that I am correct - that I am bi, and that this wasn't just experimental? (which has been suggested to me by a straight friend). I had very satisfying sex with a close friend a week ago after she flirted relentlessly with me for 6 weeks (yes, I'm clueless). I find I want more, and not just/necessarily with her. There were aspects of it very different to sex with a man (which I also enjoy immensely) which were just delightful, not least the emotional closeness, the softer kisses, the different body to hold in my arms, the feel of ... yeah, you get the idea.
So I don't know where to start, and feel like a near virgin again, but old enough this time to realise there's so many complications.
Here's some:
I'm concerned about coming out at some stage to my adult but somewhat innocent children, who still don't cope well with me having sex with someone other than their father, particular as their father and I didn't share a bedroom for most of our marriage.
I'm wondering if I should come out to my siblings - or is my sex-life none of their business, until I turn up at a barbecue with a female companion? They're not homophobic, but I think it will be a shock to them, simply because I've never identified that way.
I've heard that some lesbian women find bi-women problematic.
I don't know how to present my lack of experience at this age to potential female lovers. I don't know how to indicate my interest in a woman, in a way that is different to overtures of friendship. I really don't know know what to do in bed. I'm not sure lesbian porn is the way to go, if I could find it, because like, I wouldn't recommend porn to anyone to learn about sex.
I wonder if I should tell my friends, and long-term colleagues and I do work in a very gay-friendly workplace, but is my sexuality an inappropriate topic at work?
I'm a student and could join the uni queer support group, but the members are likely to be much younger than me, and with very different issues.
I'm confused that it took me this long to find out. I feel somewhat guilty that I didn't have to go through discrimination in my youth because I didn't know.
I'm kind of horrified that I'm so clueless about myself that I didn't know. I feel my self-identity has just been turned upside, and I'm not sure who I am anymore, and it feels awfully late to go looking for myself.
I wonder if I should go to gay clubs.
The very few straight friends that I've shared with seem to think it's no big deal, the males saying most women are bi, and whatever, the females telling me I'm still the same person I was before and they love me, which is nice and accepting of both sets, but not very helpful if you know what I mean.
I don't know where to start. I don't know what I don't know. I wonder if I'm making too big a deal of this.
Bonus question: my arousal/desire for every single one of my lovers has occurred after being desired - this probably explains why I have such difficulty masturbating to orgasm without company (and I do have a very good imagination, also can come very easily with a partner), but also makes me further question my sexuality - why is it so much tied into external influences. What's up with that?
Location: Brisbane Queensland Australia
Dining, Drinks & Desserts
Little Italy’s “5 Star Restaurant”
Hello everyone and thanks for checking back in this week. Before beginning I would like to ask for your friendship on Facebook. In the search box type in Frank Lechner and my mug will pop up. I have created an album and will be adding photos of places we visit.
Thanks again for your continued support.
This week my guest was John Woodgate, a long time friend and wonderful man. Our destination BENCOTTO – Italian Kitchen in Little Italy, created by owners Guido Nistri and his lovely bride Valentina Di Pietro. I think this is about as Italian as it gets.
Website Quotes: The word BENCOTTO, means and refers to a meal “done well” or perfectly cooked. Our core belief is that high quality food can be simple and supremely delicious. Combining differ…
Read More
Hello everyone and thanks for checking back in this week. Before beginning I would like to ask for your friendship on Facebook. In the search box type in Frank Lechner and my mug will pop up. I have created an album and will be adding photos of places we visit.
Thanks again for your continued support.
This week my guest was John Woodgate, a long time friend and wonderful man. Our destination BENCOTTO – Italian Kitchen in Little Italy, created by owners Guido Nistri and his lovely bride Valentina Di Pietro. I think this is about as Italian as it gets.
Website Quotes: The word BENCOTTO, means and refers to a meal “done well” or perfectly cooked. Our core belief is that high quality food can be simple and supremely delicious. Combining differ…
Read More
Monday, September 15, 2014
Arkansas AG asks state's high court to uphold gay marriage ban
LITTLE ROCK, Arkansas -- The Attorney General's Office is asking the Arkansas Supreme Court to uphold the state's gay marriage ban, arguing a county judge was wrong to say it violated the state and U.S. constitutions.
Attorney General Dustin McDaniel's office on Monday asked justices to uphold the 2004 constitutional amendment and an earlier state law defining marriage as between a man and a woman. Pulaski County Judge Chris Piazza struck down the ban earlier this year, and 541 same-sex couples were married before the ruling was suspended by the state Supreme Court pending appeals.
The Attorney General's Office is asking the Arkansas Supreme Court to uphold the state's gay marriage ban, arguing a county judge was wrong to say it violated the state and U.S. constitutions.
read more
Attorney General Dustin McDaniel's office on Monday asked justices to uphold the 2004 constitutional amendment and an earlier state law defining marriage as between a man and a woman. Pulaski County Judge Chris Piazza struck down the ban earlier this year, and 541 same-sex couples were married before the ruling was suspended by the state Supreme Court pending appeals.
The Attorney General's Office is asking the Arkansas Supreme Court to uphold the state's gay marriage ban, arguing a county judge was wrong to say it violated the state and U.S. constitutions.
read more
EXCLUSIVE: Annie Lennox: 'Nostalgia' Preview
Annie Lennox takes fans behind the scenes for a preview of her new album Nostalgia in this exclusive trailer.
read more
read more
Bill for benefits for vets' same-sex spouses is rejected
A House committee on Wednesday rejected a measure that sought to extend benefits to same-sex spouses of military veterans eve -More-
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)