Tuesday, May 31, 2011
Colorado Senate Passes Civil Unions Bill
The Colorado Senate passed a comprehensive civil unions bill by a 23 to 12 vote Wednesday, sending the bill to the House of Representatives.SB 127, would allow both gay and straight couples to enter into civil unions, giving couples all of the protections of marriage under state law.Three Republican senators voted in support of the bill. One of the three legislators, Sen. Jean White, delivered a speech that brought some to tears. According to reports, White said the easy thing to do would have been to stay in the shadows, vote for the bill, and not say anything, but she said she has a niece and a nephew she has "loved since they were born? who are gay. Related Media Coverage:Denver Post Blog ? March 24, 2010?Senate passes civil unions bill 23-12?http://blogs.denverpost.com/thespot/2011/03/24/senate-passes-civil-unions-bill-23-12/25880/
(5) Is Being A Lezzy-Cakes A Choice?
Converted Lezzy’s sing Nelly FArtado in Pathmark, Choosing a sexuality?, Vegas karaoke and sexy tranny hookers, Peter Lugar’s steak sauce for 99 cents, Gay beams only for special people, Arguing Lezzy’s with tourrete’s … and Shout Outs!
(20A) Ass Angst and Hill On the Hill (1hr)
Fellow Podcast – Swannie of Goddess Radio Interviews Zsussana Budapest author of The Holy Book of Women’s Mysteries www.GoddessRadio.podomatic.com
In the Pit
Leather labors of love
All over the country leather people are competing for local titles so that they may represent their communities at home and also at international contests next year. Producing a contest is an expensive and time consuming labor of love but the leather women of San Diego have found an ingenious way to raise funds and put a little camp into a community that sometimes takes itself way too seriously. Next Saturday, October 9th is the thirteenth annual Butch Revue which will benefit the charities of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence and SD Leather Pride. Former Ms. World Leather and producer of Ms San Diego Leather, Annie Romano is the founder of the Butch Revue which was initially a fundraiser for her travel fund when she ran for IMsL in 1998 during her reign a…
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All over the country leather people are competing for local titles so that they may represent their communities at home and also at international contests next year. Producing a contest is an expensive and time consuming labor of love but the leather women of San Diego have found an ingenious way to raise funds and put a little camp into a community that sometimes takes itself way too seriously. Next Saturday, October 9th is the thirteenth annual Butch Revue which will benefit the charities of the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence and SD Leather Pride. Former Ms. World Leather and producer of Ms San Diego Leather, Annie Romano is the founder of the Butch Revue which was initially a fundraiser for her travel fund when she ran for IMsL in 1998 during her reign a…
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Out and About
Friday, September 24
Come and get WIRED this Friday at the Brass Rail with Ashley Matte at 9:30 p.m. followed by Dj Kiki Koenig at 11:00 p.m. , The Brass Rail, 3796 Fifth Avenue - San Diego 92103. Great Drink Specials, Live Music and amazing DJs!!!- (619) 298 - 2233
Saturday, September 25
Tony and Pulitzer Award winner Neil Simon’s semi-autobiographical plays follow the life of Eugene Morris Jerome from the foibles of youth in late-1930s Brooklyn to a career as a comedy writer for radio. Brighton Beach Memoirs and Broadway Bound are performed in a rotating repertory schedule at The Old Globe Theatre. Brighton Beach Memoirs first regular performance is on Saturday, September 25 at 2:00 p.m. Broadway Bound first regular performance is on Sunday, Septe…
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Come and get WIRED this Friday at the Brass Rail with Ashley Matte at 9:30 p.m. followed by Dj Kiki Koenig at 11:00 p.m. , The Brass Rail, 3796 Fifth Avenue - San Diego 92103. Great Drink Specials, Live Music and amazing DJs!!!- (619) 298 - 2233
Saturday, September 25
Tony and Pulitzer Award winner Neil Simon’s semi-autobiographical plays follow the life of Eugene Morris Jerome from the foibles of youth in late-1930s Brooklyn to a career as a comedy writer for radio. Brighton Beach Memoirs and Broadway Bound are performed in a rotating repertory schedule at The Old Globe Theatre. Brighton Beach Memoirs first regular performance is on Saturday, September 25 at 2:00 p.m. Broadway Bound first regular performance is on Sunday, Septe…
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It?s OK to Be Takei
George Takei has never missed an opportunity to speak out for equality. So when a Tennessee Senate committee advanced the legislation known as the ?Don?t Say Gay bill,? which would prohibit honest, healthy and age-appropriate conversations about sexuality in Tennessee?s classrooms, the Star Trek legend and HRC Coming Out spokesperson simply could not remain silent. So he took to YouTube to stand up for young LGBT Tennesseans.
Monday, May 30, 2011
Prop 8 backers target trial judge in urging appeal
SAN FRANCISCO (AP) – Backers of California’s same-sex marriage ban urged a federal appeals court to overturn the trial judge who struck down Proposition 8 by arguing late Friday that his consideration of evidence was “egregiously selective and one-sided.”
In written arguments to the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals, lawyers for the ban’s sponsors alleged that Chief U.S. Judge Vaughn Walker “quite willfully” disregarded a 1972 U.S. Supreme Court precedent and other relevant information when he decided the voter-approved measure was an unconstitutional violation of gay Californians’ civil rights.
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In written arguments to the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals, lawyers for the ban’s sponsors alleged that Chief U.S. Judge Vaughn Walker “quite willfully” disregarded a 1972 U.S. Supreme Court precedent and other relevant information when he decided the voter-approved measure was an unconstitutional violation of gay Californians’ civil rights.
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San Diego lesbians rock!
There was a time in San Diego’s rich history when lesbians were not as visible or held in the same esteem in the GLBT community as they are now. At times discounted and thought to be too small a group to warrant advertising dollars, they were also considered too different from gay men to be influential or to hold any positions of power. This was also a time when there was little or no nightlife catering for lesbians and the few lesbian clubs out there had come and gone. They simply could not compete with the gay bars and the numbers that they attracted. Going beyond nightlife there were few resources for lesbians or places that lesbians could gather, socialize, have fun and be in the majority.
Fast forward and it is apparent that this has really chang…
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Web series review: Rose By Any Other Name
A lot of the discourse on the internet (which, frankly, is where I get most of my non-academic discourse) when it comes to bisexuality centers around biphobia, bisexual erasure and how non-supportive the gay and lesbian communities supposedly are.
Maybe this is just me, but I very rarely feel like this describes a situation I find myself in on a regular basis.
What it does create, I think, is a lot of negativity. Add to this the discussion I keep seeing crop up about whether the word ‘bisexual’ implies binarism and before you know it, being bisexual is more of a heavily debated political standpoint than a part of everyday life. And I admit I do like identity politics sometimes. I just only like it when it can be a little fun, too. That is, unless something terrible happens and/or someone gets all offensive, just to include this caveat, but for the most part, I don’t understand why everyone’s so serious. Perhaps I feel this way because I’ve heard more crap and hurtful things about liking girls than about being bi specifically, and all of this came from straight people.
I’m sure I’m not the only one who wants to get away from all this negativity sometimes. That’s why the American Institute of Bisexuality created an It Gets Better video, and why some people, like bisexual activist and director Kyle Schickner, develop films and web series that center around bisexuality in a fun and light-hearted way. Kyle Schickner is the founder of FenceSitter Films, that was founded on “the belief that films don’t need straight white men as heroes in order to be successful and entertaining”. Right on.
Most recently, FenceSitter Films produced the web series Rose By Any Other Name, that, back in 2009, got posted directly to YouTube. With its second season on the way, the entire first season is up to rent for $3,99 (€2,83) for 24 hours. The second season, which premieres June 1st, will not go up on YouTube for free, which is completely understandable, although a bit of a shame for those of us without PayPal accounts.
The first time I saw the web series was two years ago, and when I watched it again for this article, it was better than I remembered. Rose (Stephanie Reibel), a lesbian who works at the LGBT community center, meets Anthony (Kyle Schickner himself), a straight man who works in software, while waiting in line for Prince concert tickets. When she asks him out, everything gets complicated really fast. Anthony’s friends at the office give him a 101 on how to date a lesbian and one of Rose’s friends fumigates her apartment to get rid of all the ‘negative male energy’. Rose By Any Other Name is rife with funny quotes, especially from Anthony and Rose’s crazy friends (“If you have to buy her something, buy her flannel”, or “Rose, you have to be a lesbian.”)
I also love the interaction between Anthony’s friend Chris (Steph Davis) and Rose’s friend Veronica (Fay Wolf). I don’t think you need to be a lesbian for this kind of friendships with men, because I can totally recognize me and some of my guy friends in this.
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Despite the hilarious, almost panicky conversations that make up most of the season, in the end it does get a bit serious after all. When Rose mentions she thinks she might be bisexual, even previously supportive Veronica switches positions. “When you tell someone you’re a lesbian it brings up certain connotations. It’s a stance. What kind of stance is bisexual?” she says. To which I would argue that the word ‘bisexual’ comes with a lot of connotations as well.
Now we’re back at the heavy political identity questions we were at in the first few paragraphs of this post. But here, it isn’t brought on by endless online debate, but by a storyline in a comedy. (Maybe my main problem is with endless online debate.) The fact that Rose By Any Other Name is a comedy, weighs in with how we perceive even these in essence quite offending comments by Rose’s friends. We know that the web series is taking on serious issues in a not-so-serious way, and it’s not like anything before those last scenes was very politically correct if it would have been presented in a different context.
All I’m worried about is if Rose and Anthony can stay together even while yielding so much opposition. My secret wish for the second season is however altogether unrelated to Rose and Anthony or the seemingly complicated inner workings of the bisexual mind: I want Veronica to get a girlfriend, because she seems so cute and lonesome. I would offer myself for this position, but she lives on the West Coast. And, you know, she’s fictional.
While you’re waiting for Rose By Any Other Name’s second season, you can take a look at the FenceSitter Films website, the trailer for the first season below, or the first episode, which is still on YouTube in its entirety.
Maybe this is just me, but I very rarely feel like this describes a situation I find myself in on a regular basis.
What it does create, I think, is a lot of negativity. Add to this the discussion I keep seeing crop up about whether the word ‘bisexual’ implies binarism and before you know it, being bisexual is more of a heavily debated political standpoint than a part of everyday life. And I admit I do like identity politics sometimes. I just only like it when it can be a little fun, too. That is, unless something terrible happens and/or someone gets all offensive, just to include this caveat, but for the most part, I don’t understand why everyone’s so serious. Perhaps I feel this way because I’ve heard more crap and hurtful things about liking girls than about being bi specifically, and all of this came from straight people.
I’m sure I’m not the only one who wants to get away from all this negativity sometimes. That’s why the American Institute of Bisexuality created an It Gets Better video, and why some people, like bisexual activist and director Kyle Schickner, develop films and web series that center around bisexuality in a fun and light-hearted way. Kyle Schickner is the founder of FenceSitter Films, that was founded on “the belief that films don’t need straight white men as heroes in order to be successful and entertaining”. Right on.
Most recently, FenceSitter Films produced the web series Rose By Any Other Name, that, back in 2009, got posted directly to YouTube. With its second season on the way, the entire first season is up to rent for $3,99 (€2,83) for 24 hours. The second season, which premieres June 1st, will not go up on YouTube for free, which is completely understandable, although a bit of a shame for those of us without PayPal accounts.
The first time I saw the web series was two years ago, and when I watched it again for this article, it was better than I remembered. Rose (Stephanie Reibel), a lesbian who works at the LGBT community center, meets Anthony (Kyle Schickner himself), a straight man who works in software, while waiting in line for Prince concert tickets. When she asks him out, everything gets complicated really fast. Anthony’s friends at the office give him a 101 on how to date a lesbian and one of Rose’s friends fumigates her apartment to get rid of all the ‘negative male energy’. Rose By Any Other Name is rife with funny quotes, especially from Anthony and Rose’s crazy friends (“If you have to buy her something, buy her flannel”, or “Rose, you have to be a lesbian.”)
I also love the interaction between Anthony’s friend Chris (Steph Davis) and Rose’s friend Veronica (Fay Wolf). I don’t think you need to be a lesbian for this kind of friendships with men, because I can totally recognize me and some of my guy friends in this.
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Despite the hilarious, almost panicky conversations that make up most of the season, in the end it does get a bit serious after all. When Rose mentions she thinks she might be bisexual, even previously supportive Veronica switches positions. “When you tell someone you’re a lesbian it brings up certain connotations. It’s a stance. What kind of stance is bisexual?” she says. To which I would argue that the word ‘bisexual’ comes with a lot of connotations as well.
Now we’re back at the heavy political identity questions we were at in the first few paragraphs of this post. But here, it isn’t brought on by endless online debate, but by a storyline in a comedy. (Maybe my main problem is with endless online debate.) The fact that Rose By Any Other Name is a comedy, weighs in with how we perceive even these in essence quite offending comments by Rose’s friends. We know that the web series is taking on serious issues in a not-so-serious way, and it’s not like anything before those last scenes was very politically correct if it would have been presented in a different context.
All I’m worried about is if Rose and Anthony can stay together even while yielding so much opposition. My secret wish for the second season is however altogether unrelated to Rose and Anthony or the seemingly complicated inner workings of the bisexual mind: I want Veronica to get a girlfriend, because she seems so cute and lonesome. I would offer myself for this position, but she lives on the West Coast. And, you know, she’s fictional.
While you’re waiting for Rose By Any Other Name’s second season, you can take a look at the FenceSitter Films website, the trailer for the first season below, or the first episode, which is still on YouTube in its entirety.
Scott Herman Meet and Greet benefit May 19th
Personal trainer, actor and model Scott Herman (The Real World: Brooklyn) is one of the 2,500 people who will pedal from San Francisco to Los Angeles with AIDS/LifeCycle (ALC), the world?s largest annual HIV/AIDS fundraising event, this June. Leading Team ?Scott Herman Fitness,? he?ll pedal 545 miles over seven days to help raise millions for the life-saving HIV/AIDS-related services of the L.A. Gay & Lesbian Center and San Francisco AIDS Foundation.
Thursday, May 19 at 9:00pm - 12:00amSCOTT will be hosting a little benefit meet-and-greet at
McFadden's Restaurant and Saloon
800 2nd Avenue (Corner of 42nd Street)$10 Cover- Receive 1/2 off on drinksCheck out the Facebook pageIf you can't make it, but want to support Scott on his ride go to AIDS LIFECYCLE.
Thursday, May 19 at 9:00pm - 12:00amSCOTT will be hosting a little benefit meet-and-greet at
McFadden's Restaurant and Saloon
800 2nd Avenue (Corner of 42nd Street)$10 Cover- Receive 1/2 off on drinksCheck out the Facebook pageIf you can't make it, but want to support Scott on his ride go to AIDS LIFECYCLE.
House passes defense bill with anti-gay language
A defense budget bill containing anti-gay amendments, including one that could complicate the implementation of the repeal of -More-
Same-sex Split
My same-sex partner and I have separated (to my shock and opposition) after a few years of hard financial times. While I am holding out hope that she will come to her senses, I need help deciding on what to do (especially regarding our house) in case we can't resolve our issues. We've been together for over 5 years. She makes a professional salary, and while I have held a para-professional position throughout our relationship, burger-flippers make more than me. Over the last 3 years, I have gone back to school to get a MLIS degree in order to qualify for higher paying jobs. And then the economy collapsed. And then library funding was slashed. Plus, my library's working environment has been contentious at best. Faculty cry on a weekly, sometimes daily basis. But, it's pretty much the only game in town. Which is one of the problems - other than employment, this town is pretty rad. I have a great community. Something I've been searching for my whole life. And it's completely intertwined with the life I built with my partner. I feel shattered by this because it's as if the culmination of 5 years of work is just within reach, but about to be smacked away.
It's been a rough year, and I know it's taken a toll on her. I have taken other steps to improve our situation. I've been going to therapy, and some sessions in the beginning (4 months ago) she attended with me. When questioned, she said 100% she wanted to stay in the relationship, she loved me, etc. My anxious, depressive mood (brought on by lack of opportunity in my field, both locally and globally) has significantly improved. I'm not bringing home my work issues anymore. I have had some big-time interviews. And now, four months later, her tune has changed. She says she can't do it anymore and that we're done. While she has come with me for a few more sessions to my therapist, she refuses to go to a couples counselor. I know she is stubborn and don't expect her to change her mind any time soon (even though I hope she does). She claims she still cares for me and this is very unusual behavior for her. I don't know how long I should wait to see if she has second thoughts.
I have been staying in the house, and she with friends. This is not sustainable in the long run. She bought the house before we met, but I came on as co-owner 3 years after plunking down a chunk of money. Since then, we have paid the mortgage equally, and split the cost of significant property improvements (remodeling and outbuilding). There have been other improvements to the house that may not have been as equal (like roof, furnace, water heater, electrical improvements), but I have also put in a LOT of sweat equity. Currently at my salary, there is no way I could carry the mortgage myself. However, with the potential new faculty-level jobs that would double my salary I would be able to carry the mortgage. I just have to wait a little bit (prob 2-3 months) to find out if I will be getting them. Regardless, I have no savings to buy her out. Another part of me thinks it would be wise to have the opposite happen. But if this is the case, how would I go about calculating a fair buyout?
So to sum up the questions:
1. Advice regarding how long I should wait to see if she's just having a lash-out flip-out.
2. Short-term residence
3. Long term what to do with the house.
It's been a rough year, and I know it's taken a toll on her. I have taken other steps to improve our situation. I've been going to therapy, and some sessions in the beginning (4 months ago) she attended with me. When questioned, she said 100% she wanted to stay in the relationship, she loved me, etc. My anxious, depressive mood (brought on by lack of opportunity in my field, both locally and globally) has significantly improved. I'm not bringing home my work issues anymore. I have had some big-time interviews. And now, four months later, her tune has changed. She says she can't do it anymore and that we're done. While she has come with me for a few more sessions to my therapist, she refuses to go to a couples counselor. I know she is stubborn and don't expect her to change her mind any time soon (even though I hope she does). She claims she still cares for me and this is very unusual behavior for her. I don't know how long I should wait to see if she has second thoughts.
I have been staying in the house, and she with friends. This is not sustainable in the long run. She bought the house before we met, but I came on as co-owner 3 years after plunking down a chunk of money. Since then, we have paid the mortgage equally, and split the cost of significant property improvements (remodeling and outbuilding). There have been other improvements to the house that may not have been as equal (like roof, furnace, water heater, electrical improvements), but I have also put in a LOT of sweat equity. Currently at my salary, there is no way I could carry the mortgage myself. However, with the potential new faculty-level jobs that would double my salary I would be able to carry the mortgage. I just have to wait a little bit (prob 2-3 months) to find out if I will be getting them. Regardless, I have no savings to buy her out. Another part of me thinks it would be wise to have the opposite happen. But if this is the case, how would I go about calculating a fair buyout?
So to sum up the questions:
1. Advice regarding how long I should wait to see if she's just having a lash-out flip-out.
2. Short-term residence
3. Long term what to do with the house.
U.S. Department of State releases statement about freedom of assembly in Russia
It took quite a while after Dan Choi, Andy Thayer and a team of international activists were arrested for protesting the cancellation of Moscow Pride for our government to issue a statement, but here it is.
U.S. DEPARTMENT OF STATE
Office of the Spokesman
For Immediate Release
May 29, 2011
2011/855
STATEMENT BY MARK TONER, DEPUTY SPOKESPERSON
Concern about Freedom of Assembly in Russia
We note with concern that in Moscow on Saturday, May 28, a peaceable demonstration of Russians advocating for the rights of gays and lesbians, joined by international supporters, was forcefully disrupted by counter-protesters, and that Russian security forces then detained people from both groups, including American citizens. Some protestors were seriously injured according to media reports.
Freedom of assembly is a fundamental right all members of the OSCE committed to, including in the Moscow declaration and as recently as the Astana summit. As nationwide legislative elections approach, constraints on the ability of Russian citizens peacefully to gather and express their views will be closely watched in evaluating the integrity of the electoral process. We call on Russian authorities to work with municipal officials to find better ways to safeguard these fundamental freedoms.
###John @ Americablog has quite a bit to say about the statement, including the fact that Secretary of State Hillary Clinton has yet to comment.
UPDATE: Dan Choi's response to the statement...
Sunday, May 29, 2011
(15B) Freestyle Friday Nostalgia Hour at SpiceNYC
lost a lot of sound quality when converted to mp3 but here goes … There’s A Party Going On – Nayobe You’ll Never Find Another Love - Take It While It’s Hot – Sweet Sensation Dancing On The Fire – India Give Me Back My Heart – Corina I Remember What You Like – Jenny [...]
A month of firsts
Here’s an update from the good folks at Equality Arizona: In just a few short months, we have experienced a lot of firsts in Arizona?s movement for equality. The Arizona Safe School Act was introduced in the Arizona Legislature by … Continue reading →
AIDS: EdgeAlliance talks mission, objectives
The Chicago Bar Association CBA on LGBT rights and issues welcomed special guest speakers Jim Flosi and Allen Hailey of EdgeAlliance for a presentation on the organization's mission, new direction and initiatives.
Matthew Ludwinski in the Casper Andreas film GOING DOWN IN LA LA LAND
THOSE LIPS! THAT BODY!Meet MATTHEW LUDWINSKI he is one to watch this year! Going Down in LA-LA Land premiered at this year?s Miami Gay & Lesbian Film Festival in Miami as the coveted final night feature this week. And got RAVE REVIEWS! Based on the novel penned by Andy Zeffer, this film explores the ups and down, and trials and tribulations of trying to make it in Hollywood. What would you do to survive and achieve your ultimate dream? Directed by Casper Andreas, the film stars Matthew Ludwinski as ?Adam,? a Hollywood newbie looking to get his start in the world of lights?camera?action. We recently caught up with Matthew to talk about his starring role, the steamy sex scenes and working with Casper Andreas. In a recent interview, Matthew says, "I knew that Casper had the rights to the book long before he cast me as the lead, so I bought and read the book before Casper had even finished the script. After reading it, I knew it was the perfect part for me. I was dying to play that role! It's fun to imagine oneself in various tragic situations, and this particular situation involves a sexy combination of porn, prostitution and Hollywood romance. Getting to play that role let me live in that world for a bit without any of the pesky consequences.""
I know what it's like to feel objectified. I know what it's like to feel used. I know what it's like to feel desperate. And every actor has thought at some point about the casting couch, and has had the thought, "I wonder if it is possible to sleep my way to the top?" But really his whole journey from arriving to Hollywood bright and excited to the process of his disillusionment?I?ve experienced all of that. I think most actors have."
When asked - What was it like working with director Casper Andreas?
"Casper and I were already friendly from working together on his film, "Between Love & Goodbye ," a few years ago. I knew we liked each other and would get along. We became good friends working on this movie. It made coming to work everyday a blast! I also came to ADORE the two other leads, Allison Lane and Michael Medico. Working with people you like is such a joy. I couldn't wait to start each day."
Casper Andreas has done several popular films. Including Slutty Summer and A Four Letter Word - both of which starred the adorable JESSE ARCHER!Check out their Facebook Page and keep up on all of the news and interviews!Watch for this film to come to your town!We'll be covering it all this summer!It is the #1 Must See Gay Film of the year!(it's in Boston this weekend!) BUY THE BOOK! Casper's latest DVD ......
I know what it's like to feel objectified. I know what it's like to feel used. I know what it's like to feel desperate. And every actor has thought at some point about the casting couch, and has had the thought, "I wonder if it is possible to sleep my way to the top?" But really his whole journey from arriving to Hollywood bright and excited to the process of his disillusionment?I?ve experienced all of that. I think most actors have."
When asked - What was it like working with director Casper Andreas?
"Casper and I were already friendly from working together on his film, "Between Love & Goodbye ," a few years ago. I knew we liked each other and would get along. We became good friends working on this movie. It made coming to work everyday a blast! I also came to ADORE the two other leads, Allison Lane and Michael Medico. Working with people you like is such a joy. I couldn't wait to start each day."
Casper Andreas has done several popular films. Including Slutty Summer and A Four Letter Word - both of which starred the adorable JESSE ARCHER!Check out their Facebook Page and keep up on all of the news and interviews!Watch for this film to come to your town!We'll be covering it all this summer!It is the #1 Must See Gay Film of the year!(it's in Boston this weekend!) BUY THE BOOK! Casper's latest DVD ......
DOMA (Nearly) DOA
Some
good news from the White House:
In a major reversal, the Obama administration has notified
Congress that it will no longer defend the federal law that says
marriage can exist only between a man and a woman.
Attorney General Eric Holder says he has recommended, and the
president has agreed, that the law unconstitutionally discriminates
against same-sex couples who are legally married but whose status
is not recognized by the federal government.
"Given a number of factors, including a documented history of
discrimination," Holder wrote in a statement, the administration
has concluded that classifications based on sexual orientation must
be subject to a higher constitutional standard than ordinary laws.
And the federal Defense of Marriage Act does not meet that test, he
says.
The law is still in effect, but probably lost whatever chance it
had of surviving a legal challenge. You can read Holder's letter
here.
Reason on DOMA
here, including this
piece from 1996 by Nick Gillespie. Excerpt:
It is a misguided attempt to define for all time an institution
that is constantly, if slowly, evolving. Its supporters may think
they can stop social evolution in its tracks and enforce a singular
vision of the good society. But such people misunderstand the very
nature of a free society and its dependence on choice and change.
The Defense of Marriage Act may well have put off state recognition
of same-sex marriage for the time being, but such laws can do
precious little to keep things as they are. There can be little
doubt that, ultimately, the government will be following IBM's
lead, even as IBM has followed its employees'.
good news from the White House:
In a major reversal, the Obama administration has notified
Congress that it will no longer defend the federal law that says
marriage can exist only between a man and a woman.
Attorney General Eric Holder says he has recommended, and the
president has agreed, that the law unconstitutionally discriminates
against same-sex couples who are legally married but whose status
is not recognized by the federal government.
"Given a number of factors, including a documented history of
discrimination," Holder wrote in a statement, the administration
has concluded that classifications based on sexual orientation must
be subject to a higher constitutional standard than ordinary laws.
And the federal Defense of Marriage Act does not meet that test, he
says.
The law is still in effect, but probably lost whatever chance it
had of surviving a legal challenge. You can read Holder's letter
here.
Reason on DOMA
here, including this
piece from 1996 by Nick Gillespie. Excerpt:
It is a misguided attempt to define for all time an institution
that is constantly, if slowly, evolving. Its supporters may think
they can stop social evolution in its tracks and enforce a singular
vision of the good society. But such people misunderstand the very
nature of a free society and its dependence on choice and change.
The Defense of Marriage Act may well have put off state recognition
of same-sex marriage for the time being, but such laws can do
precious little to keep things as they are. There can be little
doubt that, ultimately, the government will be following IBM's
lead, even as IBM has followed its employees'.
Couples plan to make it official at TCRA ceremony
Tony Harper and James Abernathy have been in love for almost 11 years. They live together, work together, travel together—travel to work together—and soon they will make history together. On June 3, they will be among the first LGBT couples across the state of Illinois to be civilly united in a community-wide public ceremony titled "Unite with Pride: A Community Celebration."
One Voice Fundraiser
We wrote last month about the financial difficulties being faced by the One Voice Community Center. Well now the Center is holding a fundraising event this Saturday featuring artist Kenny Thames: One Voice Community Center ~ Jammin’ with One Voice … Continue reading →
Saturday, May 28, 2011
(51) Guest: Shannel of Rupaul?s Drag Race
McDonalds after midnight, Musings on (Logo’s) Rupaul’s Drag Race, Shannel (Bryan) talks about why she chose to leave Drag Race, Life as a seasoned Drag Entertainer, and Beauty secrets! www.myspace.com/shannellv www.shannel.net
Gay-rights activists rally in S.F., Washington
For many of the gays and lesbians marching for equal rights Sunday in San Francisco and Washington, President Obama's pledge of support provoked hope and frustration. They hoped that the president would follow through...
Chicago activists mark IDAHO
Millennium Park was the setting for a demonstration sponsored by the Gay Liberation Network on May 17th to mark the International Day Against Homophobia, Biphobia and Transphobia IDAHO, which began in 2005.
House Adopts 2012 Defense Authorization Bill and its Anti-Gay 'DADT' and DOMA-Related Amendments
The U.S. House yesterday adopted the fiscal year 2012 defense authorization bill by a 322-96 along with several anti-gay provisions intended to affect implementation of repeal of the military's gay ban and prevent same-sex marriages from taking place within military facilities and by military chaplains.
Read about the amendments, which advocates do not expect to succeed in the net-yet-introduced Senate version of the bill, here.
The Washington Blade adds this interesting bit:
Informed sources said House Democratic leaders offered those who worked last year to repeal ?Don?t Ask, Don?t Tell? repeal the opportunity for an amendment on the floor to eliminate the language in the defense authorization bill related to certification expansion.
However, the five major repeal organizations ? the Human Rights Campaign, Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, Third Way, Servicemembers United and the Center for American Progress ? agreed to decline the opportunity for the amendment.
According to sources, repeal advocates believed such a amendment would likely fail and could pick up support from moderate House Democrats. A defeat on the House floor, advocates believed, would increase the chances of the Senate adopting the certification expansion language.
Conservative organizations are vowing to sue unless the Senate adopts similar measures, the WaPo reports:
Conservative legal activists and Christian leaders said Thursday that they will sue on behalf of military chaplains if the Senate does not pass a Republican version of the annual Pentagon policy bill that includes language barring Defense Department employees from participating in same-sex marriage ceremonies.
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Austin Nimocks, senior counsel with the Alliance Defense Fund, said his conservative legal organization would sue all the way to the U.S. Supreme Court if necessary to ensure that federal law ? instead of the Pentagon personnel policy ? represents the group?s position.
?If the Senate does not follow the House and protect chaplains and service members, we have no doubt that legal action will be required,? Nimocks said Thursday at a news conference on Capitol Hill.
Said Alexander Nicholson, Executive Director of Servicemembers United and a former Army Interrogator who was discharged under DADT: ?The passage of the defense authorization bill with these hostile amendments included comes as no surprise, and it should not become a cause for concern as long as our allies in the Senate and the President all stand strong and refuse to support a defense bill containing these amendments. These amendments were nothing short of a waste of time by lawmakers who were sent to Washington to do serious business and a waste of taxpayer money. The Pentagon, the President, and the American people have made it abundantly clear ? we are moving forward and building a stronger military free of unnecessary discrimination.?
Said Servicemembers Legal Defense Network executive director Aubrey Sarvis in a statement: "The opposition may well believe they won the day in the House, simply outnumbering repeal advocates. But this fight is far from over. We must look to repeal supporters in the Senate, where the defense bill will be taken up next and where we are better positioned than in the House. We need to beat back this harmful language and make sure it does not survive in conference committee."
Read about the amendments, which advocates do not expect to succeed in the net-yet-introduced Senate version of the bill, here.
The Washington Blade adds this interesting bit:
Informed sources said House Democratic leaders offered those who worked last year to repeal ?Don?t Ask, Don?t Tell? repeal the opportunity for an amendment on the floor to eliminate the language in the defense authorization bill related to certification expansion.
However, the five major repeal organizations ? the Human Rights Campaign, Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, Third Way, Servicemembers United and the Center for American Progress ? agreed to decline the opportunity for the amendment.
According to sources, repeal advocates believed such a amendment would likely fail and could pick up support from moderate House Democrats. A defeat on the House floor, advocates believed, would increase the chances of the Senate adopting the certification expansion language.
Conservative organizations are vowing to sue unless the Senate adopts similar measures, the WaPo reports:
Conservative legal activists and Christian leaders said Thursday that they will sue on behalf of military chaplains if the Senate does not pass a Republican version of the annual Pentagon policy bill that includes language barring Defense Department employees from participating in same-sex marriage ceremonies.
**
Austin Nimocks, senior counsel with the Alliance Defense Fund, said his conservative legal organization would sue all the way to the U.S. Supreme Court if necessary to ensure that federal law ? instead of the Pentagon personnel policy ? represents the group?s position.
?If the Senate does not follow the House and protect chaplains and service members, we have no doubt that legal action will be required,? Nimocks said Thursday at a news conference on Capitol Hill.
Said Alexander Nicholson, Executive Director of Servicemembers United and a former Army Interrogator who was discharged under DADT: ?The passage of the defense authorization bill with these hostile amendments included comes as no surprise, and it should not become a cause for concern as long as our allies in the Senate and the President all stand strong and refuse to support a defense bill containing these amendments. These amendments were nothing short of a waste of time by lawmakers who were sent to Washington to do serious business and a waste of taxpayer money. The Pentagon, the President, and the American people have made it abundantly clear ? we are moving forward and building a stronger military free of unnecessary discrimination.?
Said Servicemembers Legal Defense Network executive director Aubrey Sarvis in a statement: "The opposition may well believe they won the day in the House, simply outnumbering repeal advocates. But this fight is far from over. We must look to repeal supporters in the Senate, where the defense bill will be taken up next and where we are better positioned than in the House. We need to beat back this harmful language and make sure it does not survive in conference committee."
DADT – Not Your Fight?
Every issue in the GLBT community has had the tendency to show why the ‘GLBT’ community uses individual letters to represent the different components of the community. It’s like staring at a bowl of Alphabets cereal in milk, when an issue comes along certain letters drift away.
We are all creatures of self interest to some degree, and there is nothing inherently wrong with that when it is counter balanced with an understanding that even as individuals we can be diminished by someone else’s loss.
Marriage equality - ‘I don’t want to get married’
Breast cancer - ‘I’m not a woman’ (men have them too)
AIDS - ‘That’s those gay guys’
Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell - ‘Don&r…
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We are all creatures of self interest to some degree, and there is nothing inherently wrong with that when it is counter balanced with an understanding that even as individuals we can be diminished by someone else’s loss.
Marriage equality - ‘I don’t want to get married’
Breast cancer - ‘I’m not a woman’ (men have them too)
AIDS - ‘That’s those gay guys’
Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell - ‘Don&r…
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Task Force on Older Women's Economic Security to President: Women's Issues and Voices Must Be Heard in Budget Talks
http://now.org/press/05-11/05-23.htmlAt a May 24 telephone press conference, members of the Older Women's Economic Security (OWES) Task Force of the National Council of Women's Organizations will demand that President Obama's budget negotiations include women participants and women's views in the discussion.
Friday, May 27, 2011
Potts Point theatre space to stay
The Reginald Murphy Centre in Potts Point, formerly home to Darlinghurst Theatre Company, will continue to run as a theatre
Zayn Malik Shirtless Again
Yet another photo of Zayn Malik Shirtless. People keep asking me for them...
Gay newsView Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
Gay newsView Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
Overblown Buffa: There is a little something for everyone in WNO's season-closing Don Pasquale, but no home run
Music:
It's a shame the Washington National Opera didn't end its season with the brooding intensity of the memorable Iphigénie en Tauride instead of the determined but unenlightened Don Pasquale, which corners one rather like the party guest who insists on describing, between bouts of hilarity, last night's episode of something you would never want to see.
(Photo by Scott Suchman)
Though Pasquale was no doubt imagined as a witty confection upon which to launch the long summer break, in reality it is another example of the unevenness that has dogged recent seasons. And although Maestro Domingo may not have known his date of departure as general director of the WNO when this season was set, it is also hard not to wish he had closed it out with his voice instead of his baton. Still, for those in need of a final fix before the break, at least it is Donizetti. And with its acrobatic trills, melodic arias and pleasing ensembles, there is something for nearly every ear.
Of course, being an opera buffa -- the 18th century equivalent of a sitcom -- it goes without saying that there is as much silliness here as there is drama. After the elderly but thoroughly full-of-himself Pasquale threatens to disinherit his nephew Ernesto by finding himself a bride and a new heir, the old man's doctor, Malatesta, decides to teach him a lesson. Thus begins a deception in which Ernesto's girlfriend Norina lures Pasquale into a sham marriage from hell. Pasquale emerges humbled and all too ready to give his blessing to Ernesto and Norina.
Considered a fine example of the comic operatic tradition, there are few surprises here other than the slightly sadistic degree to which Donizetti has Norina goad Pasquale. Whether it is a comment on the ''real'' wives women may become after the vows or whether it is all about Pasquale's just desserts, it leads to a certain poignancy not normally found in the genre.
Still, this texture aside, the opera keeps to formula and thus the whole game is about making it fresh for a modern audience. But how, and for which audience? Unfortunately, director Leon Major opts for the lowest common denominator ensuring that every moment, whether gaff or gasp, is played out with the dumbed-down obviousness of mainstream musical theater. Whether it is Ernesto falling about with heart-sickness or Norina marching around like a pretend soldier, it is all too, too much. As always, less is more, even with farce.
And yet, having said all that, Major is capable of subtlety – he just confines it to the smaller details instead of the whole. Don Pasquale's elaborate, hygienically challenged morning ritual, and the actions of the mute but highly ironic servants are full of a drier brand of humor. It is in these small moments that Leon offers the kind of silent but amusing commentary that brightens a comedy in the same way that heavy-handedness deadens it. Too bad he keeps it on such a tight leash.
DON PASQUALE To May 27 Washington National Opera Kennedy Center Opera House $55-$300 202-467-4600 kennedy-center.org
Still, making of the most of these smaller moments, James Morris brings much presence to his Don Pasquale and some excellent, understated, comic timing. But our sense of this overbearing buffoon is seriously dampened by the fact that Morris's captivating bass-baritone is often beneath the orchestra. Known for his Wagnerian repertoire, it's intriguing to see Morris challenge himself, but frustrating that the issue remained unaddressed.
Writing it large for Leon and thus overplaying it, soprano Ekaterina Siurina seems most at home here. Her Norina is insuppressibly cheerful and determined, but with all that joie de vivre it's hard to see the heart and soul in this woman. When it finally appears, it's in the sweetness of Siurina's tone and the delicate magic of her vocal runs, not the saccharine smiles.
With such a one-dimensional Norina it is also difficult to understand Ernesto's all-consuming passion and, as such, it isn't all that surprising that tenor Antonio Gandia's efforts seem more at-large than specific to his leading lady. A high, tight tenor, Gandia approached piercing at times, but opens with surprising dimension and color in his top notes. As Doctor Malatesta, baritone Dwayne Croft offers a certain cohesion to the goings-on, a modicum of flair, and some expressive singing.
Perhaps exceptionally tasked in his final months with the WNO, conductor Placido Domingo did not have the orchestra quite where it needed to be, even if all was, as always, imbued with his enduring musicality.
And thus a season and an era end with more of a sigh than a whizz-bang. But then again, with an art as old and enduring as opera, it pays to take the long view. ...more
It's a shame the Washington National Opera didn't end its season with the brooding intensity of the memorable Iphigénie en Tauride instead of the determined but unenlightened Don Pasquale, which corners one rather like the party guest who insists on describing, between bouts of hilarity, last night's episode of something you would never want to see.
(Photo by Scott Suchman)
Though Pasquale was no doubt imagined as a witty confection upon which to launch the long summer break, in reality it is another example of the unevenness that has dogged recent seasons. And although Maestro Domingo may not have known his date of departure as general director of the WNO when this season was set, it is also hard not to wish he had closed it out with his voice instead of his baton. Still, for those in need of a final fix before the break, at least it is Donizetti. And with its acrobatic trills, melodic arias and pleasing ensembles, there is something for nearly every ear.
Of course, being an opera buffa -- the 18th century equivalent of a sitcom -- it goes without saying that there is as much silliness here as there is drama. After the elderly but thoroughly full-of-himself Pasquale threatens to disinherit his nephew Ernesto by finding himself a bride and a new heir, the old man's doctor, Malatesta, decides to teach him a lesson. Thus begins a deception in which Ernesto's girlfriend Norina lures Pasquale into a sham marriage from hell. Pasquale emerges humbled and all too ready to give his blessing to Ernesto and Norina.
Considered a fine example of the comic operatic tradition, there are few surprises here other than the slightly sadistic degree to which Donizetti has Norina goad Pasquale. Whether it is a comment on the ''real'' wives women may become after the vows or whether it is all about Pasquale's just desserts, it leads to a certain poignancy not normally found in the genre.
Still, this texture aside, the opera keeps to formula and thus the whole game is about making it fresh for a modern audience. But how, and for which audience? Unfortunately, director Leon Major opts for the lowest common denominator ensuring that every moment, whether gaff or gasp, is played out with the dumbed-down obviousness of mainstream musical theater. Whether it is Ernesto falling about with heart-sickness or Norina marching around like a pretend soldier, it is all too, too much. As always, less is more, even with farce.
And yet, having said all that, Major is capable of subtlety – he just confines it to the smaller details instead of the whole. Don Pasquale's elaborate, hygienically challenged morning ritual, and the actions of the mute but highly ironic servants are full of a drier brand of humor. It is in these small moments that Leon offers the kind of silent but amusing commentary that brightens a comedy in the same way that heavy-handedness deadens it. Too bad he keeps it on such a tight leash.
DON PASQUALE To May 27 Washington National Opera Kennedy Center Opera House $55-$300 202-467-4600 kennedy-center.org
Still, making of the most of these smaller moments, James Morris brings much presence to his Don Pasquale and some excellent, understated, comic timing. But our sense of this overbearing buffoon is seriously dampened by the fact that Morris's captivating bass-baritone is often beneath the orchestra. Known for his Wagnerian repertoire, it's intriguing to see Morris challenge himself, but frustrating that the issue remained unaddressed.
Writing it large for Leon and thus overplaying it, soprano Ekaterina Siurina seems most at home here. Her Norina is insuppressibly cheerful and determined, but with all that joie de vivre it's hard to see the heart and soul in this woman. When it finally appears, it's in the sweetness of Siurina's tone and the delicate magic of her vocal runs, not the saccharine smiles.
With such a one-dimensional Norina it is also difficult to understand Ernesto's all-consuming passion and, as such, it isn't all that surprising that tenor Antonio Gandia's efforts seem more at-large than specific to his leading lady. A high, tight tenor, Gandia approached piercing at times, but opens with surprising dimension and color in his top notes. As Doctor Malatesta, baritone Dwayne Croft offers a certain cohesion to the goings-on, a modicum of flair, and some expressive singing.
Perhaps exceptionally tasked in his final months with the WNO, conductor Placido Domingo did not have the orchestra quite where it needed to be, even if all was, as always, imbued with his enduring musicality.
And thus a season and an era end with more of a sigh than a whizz-bang. But then again, with an art as old and enduring as opera, it pays to take the long view. ...more
Obama, Gay Marriage, and Executive Power
As Matt Welch noted
yesterday, the Obama administration has announced it will no longer
defend the Defense of Marriage Act in court.
According to Attorney General Eric Holder, ?the President and
[the Attorney General] have concluded that classifications based on
sexual orientation warrant heightened scrutiny and that, as applied
to same-sex couples legally married under state law then, from that
perspective, there is no reasonable defense of DOMA.?
At the Volokh Conspiracy, George Washington University law
professor Orin Kerr wonders if this action
sets a dangerous precedent for the expansion of executive
power:
By taking that position, the Obama Administration has moved the
goalposts of the usual role of the Executive branch in defending
statutes. Instead of requiring DOJ to defend the constitutionality
of all federal statutes if it has a reasonable basis to do so, the
new approach invests within DOJ a power to conduct an independent
constitutional review of the issues, to decide the main issues in
the case ? in this case, the degree of scrutiny for gay rights
issues ? and then, upon deciding the main issue, to decide if there
is a reasonable basis for arguing the other side. If you take that
view, the Executive Branch essentially has the power to decide what
legislation it will defend based on whatever views of the
Constitution are popular or associated with that Administration. It
changes the role of the Executive branch in defending litigation
from the traditional dutiful servant of Congress to major
institutional player with a great deal of discretion.
If that approach becomes widely adopted, then it would seem to
bring a considerable power shift to the Executive Branch. Here?s
what I fear will happen. If Congress passes legislation on a
largely party-line vote, the losing side just has to fashion some
constitutional theories for why the legislation is unconstitutional
and then wait for its side to win the Presidency. As soon as its
side wins the Presidency, activists on its side can file
constitutional challenges based on the theories; the Executive
branch can adopt the theories and conclude that, based on the
theories, the legislation is unconstitutional; and then the
challenges to the legislation will go undefended. Winning the
Presidency will come with a great deal of power to decide what
legislation to defend, increasing Executive branch power at the
expense of Congress?s power. Again, it will be a power grab
disguised as academic constitutional interpretation.
yesterday, the Obama administration has announced it will no longer
defend the Defense of Marriage Act in court.
According to Attorney General Eric Holder, ?the President and
[the Attorney General] have concluded that classifications based on
sexual orientation warrant heightened scrutiny and that, as applied
to same-sex couples legally married under state law then, from that
perspective, there is no reasonable defense of DOMA.?
At the Volokh Conspiracy, George Washington University law
professor Orin Kerr wonders if this action
sets a dangerous precedent for the expansion of executive
power:
By taking that position, the Obama Administration has moved the
goalposts of the usual role of the Executive branch in defending
statutes. Instead of requiring DOJ to defend the constitutionality
of all federal statutes if it has a reasonable basis to do so, the
new approach invests within DOJ a power to conduct an independent
constitutional review of the issues, to decide the main issues in
the case ? in this case, the degree of scrutiny for gay rights
issues ? and then, upon deciding the main issue, to decide if there
is a reasonable basis for arguing the other side. If you take that
view, the Executive Branch essentially has the power to decide what
legislation it will defend based on whatever views of the
Constitution are popular or associated with that Administration. It
changes the role of the Executive branch in defending litigation
from the traditional dutiful servant of Congress to major
institutional player with a great deal of discretion.
If that approach becomes widely adopted, then it would seem to
bring a considerable power shift to the Executive Branch. Here?s
what I fear will happen. If Congress passes legislation on a
largely party-line vote, the losing side just has to fashion some
constitutional theories for why the legislation is unconstitutional
and then wait for its side to win the Presidency. As soon as its
side wins the Presidency, activists on its side can file
constitutional challenges based on the theories; the Executive
branch can adopt the theories and conclude that, based on the
theories, the legislation is unconstitutional; and then the
challenges to the legislation will go undefended. Winning the
Presidency will come with a great deal of power to decide what
legislation to defend, increasing Executive branch power at the
expense of Congress?s power. Again, it will be a power grab
disguised as academic constitutional interpretation.
Nevada becomes 14th state to prohibit employment discrimination based on gender identity
WASHINGTON - The Human Rights Campaign, the nation's largest LGBT civil rights organization, today commends the Nevada Governor Brian Sandoval for signing AB 211 into law. The bill codifies prohibitions against discrimination in employment on the basis of gender identity or expression.
Study Shows Record Majority of New Yorkers Support Marriage Equality
A new Quinnipiac study shows that a majority of New Yorkers statewide support full marriage equality for gay and lesbian couples, by the largest margin ever of 56 percent to 37 percent opposed. This is an increase from 2009?s record of 51 percent who supported marriage. ?Gov. Cuomo didn?t make a big issue of same-sex marriage in his State of the State speech, but he said he was for it and so are most New Yorkers,? pointed out poll director Maurice Carroll. Detailed results included 69% of Democrats and 55% of independent voters who supported marriage. In the city, 55% of all voters support marriage equality. ?This is the last vestige of institutionalized bigotry that?s left in this country and we need to get rid of it,? commented Robert Kennedy Jr. in a video. Governor Andrew Cuomo has said that he plans to push for marriage equality legislation.Related Media Coverage:New York Daily News ? January 27, 2011?Gay Marriage Supported by Record Number of New York Voters: 56% According to New Poll?http://www.nydailynews.com/ny_local/2011/01/27/2011-01-27_gayning_ground_in_samesex_nups_fight.html
Thursday, May 26, 2011
More athletes are speaking against homophobia
On Monday, a former Villanova basketball player told ESPN that he was gay and that his college teammates had known about and fully accepted his sexual orientation. Will Sheridan's story would have been a yawner if not...
(43A) Interview w/Melissa Ferrick! (Part 1)
**Exclusive Interview w/Melissa Ferrick (Part 1)** Prop 8 Turrets by Yours Truly, Part 1 of an Exclusive 2 Part Interview w/ Out Lesbian Singer/Songwriter, Indie Icon, Melissa Ferrick! We talk New Couches, New Album: Goodbye Youth, Touring w/Ani DiFranco, Relationships, Coming Out and More … FRIEND MELISSA FERRICK: http://www.myspace.com/melissaferrick NEW! LISTEN TO THE LESBIAN MAFIA [...]
(62) Intrvw w/ Playboy Bunny Stephanie Adams
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Drag queens inspire Sydney artist
A new art exhibition open to the public for one night only will pay tribute to Sydney’s famous drag scene
A Prescription for Healthcare Equality
Commentary: Medical providers need to recognize and respect ? not ignore ? the sexual orientation and gender identity of every patient for quality care to flourish, writes National LGBT Cancer Network executive director Liz Margolies.
Sunday Worship - with Kellan Lutz
Sunday is a time for worship - and since I don't believe in organized religion or church, our Sunday Worship consists of paying tribute to HOT MEN.Kellan Lutz is NOT gay - but man, that is one hot vampire that could suck me dry! I'm just sayin!(he is currently available, and would love to tie the knot with the right girl one day.)
Perhaps best known as Emmett Cullen from the Twilight sries - Kellan has a couple new films coming out, which are a big departure from Twilight. In ?Love Wedding Marriage,? (out in late June/early July) Lutz plays a ?normal guy? for once, so when we caught up with him at the film?s premiere, we had to ask how it felt to tackle a real-life character versus an undead one, as well as what new side of Lutz we?ll see in the rom-com.
?You see more of the normal guy side [of me] I guess,? Lutz told MTV News. ?My character, Charlie, struggles with being a newlywed husband and the marital bliss of all that, and hoping he?ll get more and get some fun action,? he explained with a grin. ?And his wife [Moore] is kind of preoccupied, trying to save her parents? marriage and he gets frustrated, as most males do.?You can also see him in "A Warriors Heart" out later this year. And also in "The Killing Game" with Samuel L. Jackson.
The Killing Game centers on a young man (Lutz) who is kidnapped and forced into the savage world of a modern gladiator arena, (sounds like a skin flick!) where men fight to the death for entertainment of the online masses. Jackson orchestrates the games, overseeing them from his computer lair with the help of twin ladies who see to his every desire.
Want More? Follow him on Twitter @kellanlutz
Perhaps best known as Emmett Cullen from the Twilight sries - Kellan has a couple new films coming out, which are a big departure from Twilight. In ?Love Wedding Marriage,? (out in late June/early July) Lutz plays a ?normal guy? for once, so when we caught up with him at the film?s premiere, we had to ask how it felt to tackle a real-life character versus an undead one, as well as what new side of Lutz we?ll see in the rom-com.
?You see more of the normal guy side [of me] I guess,? Lutz told MTV News. ?My character, Charlie, struggles with being a newlywed husband and the marital bliss of all that, and hoping he?ll get more and get some fun action,? he explained with a grin. ?And his wife [Moore] is kind of preoccupied, trying to save her parents? marriage and he gets frustrated, as most males do.?You can also see him in "A Warriors Heart" out later this year. And also in "The Killing Game" with Samuel L. Jackson.
The Killing Game centers on a young man (Lutz) who is kidnapped and forced into the savage world of a modern gladiator arena, (sounds like a skin flick!) where men fight to the death for entertainment of the online masses. Jackson orchestrates the games, overseeing them from his computer lair with the help of twin ladies who see to his every desire.
Want More? Follow him on Twitter @kellanlutz
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
White House on Minn. Ballot Initiative
The White House released a statement condemning Minnesota's ballot
initiative ? which could constitutionally ban marriage equality should
voters approve it next year ? but did not go as far as
advocating same-sex marriage.
initiative ? which could constitutionally ban marriage equality should
voters approve it next year ? but did not go as far as
advocating same-sex marriage.
Gay Voice Contestant Defends Blake Shelton
Voice contestant Nakia, who is gay, says that judge Blake Shelton, who
recently apologized for an antigay tweet, is not homophobic, calling the
country music singer a ?good ol? boy.?
recently apologized for an antigay tweet, is not homophobic, calling the
country music singer a ?good ol? boy.?
Touring North Carolina: from the Outer Banks to the Great Smoky Mountains
Perhaps no state in the Southeast offers a greater variety of natural scenery than North Carolina, one of the fastest-growing states in the eastern half of the country, and one that's slowly but surely becoming more welcoming toward gay and lesbian visitors, especially as it becomes politically and socially less conservative. The state enjoys, by far, the longest stretch of coastline on the Atlantic beyond Florida - vacationers regularly flock to the Outer Banks as well as charming and historic Wilmington and the surrounding Cape Fear Coast. Head west to the inland Appalachian Mountains, and you'll find dense woodlands and crystalline lakes as well as the gay-friendly, artsy small city of Asheville. Key cities like Charlotte (the nation's 17th-largest), the capital Raleigh, and collegiate Durham have sizable gay scenes....Read Full Post
Watch: 'Trevor Project' LGBT Suicide Call Center Opens in Harvey Milk Camera Shop Now Owned by HRC
An LGBT suicide call center run by The Trevor Project opened yesterday in the former Harvey Milk Camera Shop on Castro Street in San Francisco, which is now owned by the Human Rights Campaign. The opening was meant to coincide with Harvey Milk's birthday, now Harvey Milk Day in California.
Activist and videographer Sean Chapin shot this video of the opening. Chapin writes that the speakers included Trevor co-founder James Lecesne, Harvey Milk Campaign Manager Anne Kronenberg, Oscar Screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, San Francisco Supervisor Scott Wiener and California State Senator Mark Leno.
Watch, AFTER THE JUMP...
Activist and videographer Sean Chapin shot this video of the opening. Chapin writes that the speakers included Trevor co-founder James Lecesne, Harvey Milk Campaign Manager Anne Kronenberg, Oscar Screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, San Francisco Supervisor Scott Wiener and California State Senator Mark Leno.
Watch, AFTER THE JUMP...
Things they do for love: travel, farm, open a cafe
A warning to vegetarians: Stop reading now. In the garden of this North Oakland compound shared by Katy Wafle and her husband, Sam Hoffman, is a colony of large rabbit hutches. Inside, a warren of American Chinchillas,...
Noriega appointed commissioner of Human Relations Department
Mona Noriega has been appointed by Mayor-elect Rahm Emanuel as commissioner of the Chicago Department on Human Relations CHR . A long-time lesbian activist, Noriega is former head of the Midwest office of Lambda Legal, and a key early leader of Amigas Latinas.
Stage Kiss
Playwright: Sarah Ruhl . At: Goodman Theatre, 170 N. Dearborn. Phone: 312-443-3800; $25-$78. Runs through: June 5
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Poll: Christians Support LGBT Equality
A new poll shows that a majority of Christians oppose the Defense of Marriage Act as well as other laws that enable discrimination against LGBT people.
News: Io, Tom Brady, Maryland, Dharun Ravi, Orgasm, Bill Hunter
"Long and polarizing" marriage campaign in store for Minnesota.
19-year-old Dharun Ravi enters "not guilty" plea to 15 charges in Tyler Clementi case: "Ravi, of Plainsboro, was silent throughout the court appearance, which lasted less than 10 minutes. Clementi's parents and brother sat in the back of the courtroom for the brief hearing."
Priscilla actor Bill Hunter dies.
Tom Brady weeeeees down a water slide.
Obama agrees to form joint security body with UK.
Gender Rights Maryland launches on Facebook: "The purpose of Gender Rights Maryland is to promote civil rights, education, tolerance, equality and acceptance on the basis of sex and gender identity/expression in the State of Maryland. Gender Rights Maryland?s initial legislative goal is to see the passage of a comprehensive gender identity anti-discrimination bill by the end of the 2012 legislative session."
WATCH: Gaga's Google Chrome commercial.
High school student who challenged Rep. Michele Bachmann to debate the Constitution gets rape threats, fears for safety.
Color composite of volcanic eruption on Jupiter's moon Io.
L.A. Times: Positive trend in same-sex marriage polls could bode well for federal challenge to Proposition 8. "There have been at least five national polls since last year that have shown majority and growing support for gay marriage rights. In the most recent, a Gallup survey on values and beliefs found that 53% of Americans support the right of gays and lesbians to legally marry."
Listen: Alanis Morisette releases new song.
Air France 447: Flight recorder indicates pilot not in cockpit during critical moments. "Whatever the case might be, the frozen speed sensors put the pilots in a precarious situation: At this altitude, they would have had to maintain a very precise speed to prevent the plane from stalling. Pilots have dubbed this dangerous flight condition 'deep stall.' 'If the plane can't make a recovery, it plummets at breakneck speed,' explains Jean Fran�ois Huzen, an Air France captain and union representative for pilots."
Orgasm a whole-brain experience.
Male model fix: Justin Hopwood.
The WSJ on Cuomo's NY same-sex marriage push: "At the moment, Mr. Cuomo is holding firm to his original plan. The administration is trying to pass a bill before the end of session in June, but is waiting to advance a bill in the Senate until more votes are secured. 'It's a continuous push to get this done before June 20,' said a Cuomo official."
Author calls for boycott of all heterosexual weddings: "How utterly absurd to celebrate an institution that I am banned from in most of the country. It puzzles me, truth be told, that wedding invitations deluge me. Does a vegan frequent summer pig roasts? Do devout evangelicals crash couple-swapping parties? Do undocumented immigrants march in Minuteman rallies?"
19-year-old Dharun Ravi enters "not guilty" plea to 15 charges in Tyler Clementi case: "Ravi, of Plainsboro, was silent throughout the court appearance, which lasted less than 10 minutes. Clementi's parents and brother sat in the back of the courtroom for the brief hearing."
Priscilla actor Bill Hunter dies.
Tom Brady weeeeees down a water slide.
Obama agrees to form joint security body with UK.
Gender Rights Maryland launches on Facebook: "The purpose of Gender Rights Maryland is to promote civil rights, education, tolerance, equality and acceptance on the basis of sex and gender identity/expression in the State of Maryland. Gender Rights Maryland?s initial legislative goal is to see the passage of a comprehensive gender identity anti-discrimination bill by the end of the 2012 legislative session."
WATCH: Gaga's Google Chrome commercial.
High school student who challenged Rep. Michele Bachmann to debate the Constitution gets rape threats, fears for safety.
Color composite of volcanic eruption on Jupiter's moon Io.
L.A. Times: Positive trend in same-sex marriage polls could bode well for federal challenge to Proposition 8. "There have been at least five national polls since last year that have shown majority and growing support for gay marriage rights. In the most recent, a Gallup survey on values and beliefs found that 53% of Americans support the right of gays and lesbians to legally marry."
Listen: Alanis Morisette releases new song.
Air France 447: Flight recorder indicates pilot not in cockpit during critical moments. "Whatever the case might be, the frozen speed sensors put the pilots in a precarious situation: At this altitude, they would have had to maintain a very precise speed to prevent the plane from stalling. Pilots have dubbed this dangerous flight condition 'deep stall.' 'If the plane can't make a recovery, it plummets at breakneck speed,' explains Jean Fran�ois Huzen, an Air France captain and union representative for pilots."
Orgasm a whole-brain experience.
Male model fix: Justin Hopwood.
The WSJ on Cuomo's NY same-sex marriage push: "At the moment, Mr. Cuomo is holding firm to his original plan. The administration is trying to pass a bill before the end of session in June, but is waiting to advance a bill in the Senate until more votes are secured. 'It's a continuous push to get this done before June 20,' said a Cuomo official."
Author calls for boycott of all heterosexual weddings: "How utterly absurd to celebrate an institution that I am banned from in most of the country. It puzzles me, truth be told, that wedding invitations deluge me. Does a vegan frequent summer pig roasts? Do devout evangelicals crash couple-swapping parties? Do undocumented immigrants march in Minuteman rallies?"
Not as hard as coming out, but still not easy
[Queer-filter] How do you cope with the ambient heterosexism of everyday life? I've been out for years and am lucky to have progressive friends and family and live in a progressive city. I don't have to deal with much overt homophobia. But...it still seems like there's an occasion every couple of days when I'm reminded that I don't actually have the rights that straight people have and that some people think that my intimate relationships are wrong or offensive. I feel like it puts me at a distance from other people sometimes, because I start to retreat to protect myself, and I don't like that.
In case some recent examples would help:
- an older friend of my family implied that I shouldn't have kids because it wouldn't be fair to them to be raised by a gay parent
- a dear friend, who's totally pro-gay, posted on facebook about how happy she is to be "married filing jointly" this year. I know that wasn't remotely intended to hurt anyone, but it reminds me that as long as DOMA stands, that's something I wouldn't be allowed to do
- I was getting to know new work contacts the other day and a moment came up when I would normally have mentioned my ex-girlfriend (explaining why I was familiar with a topic of conversation that she had worked on), but I chose not to in case it would make the other people uncomfortable, esp. since I knew one was an ex-Marine
- when I'm in a relationship, it seems like we always get lots of stares for holding hands and mild PDA. (I don't think I read as especially gay unless I'm obviously part of a couple, so being with a girlfriend always makes me feel a little bit like I was passing the rest of the time, and not realizing how others really felt about gay people because they didn't know I was gay.)
I know these examples are all at different levels of seriousness. But they kind of all accumulate. To the point where I hold myself at a little bit of a distance a lot of the time out of worry that straight people will subtly reject me or just not understand me. I know most people don't mean to. And it gets exhausting to constantly be on alert to how people are reading me and reacting to me. Should I just stop worrying about it? (Assuming I'm not in any physical danger.) How do you deal with this kind of stress? How do you deal with the constant question of whether to come out, and even when you're out, whether to downplay your sexual orientation or be more open and vocal about it?
I'm not so much looking for advice on how to handle the particular examples I described as thoughts on how to generally approach being queer in a society with a lot of heterosexism. I've read a little bit about covering and a little bit about minority stress. I think those ideas are both on point and I'd love any reading suggestions you have in those areas, or any other reading suggestions or personal experiences you could share. I have lots of queer friends, but we don't talk about this much. It seems like we often all try to pretend that we're just fine.
In case some recent examples would help:
- an older friend of my family implied that I shouldn't have kids because it wouldn't be fair to them to be raised by a gay parent
- a dear friend, who's totally pro-gay, posted on facebook about how happy she is to be "married filing jointly" this year. I know that wasn't remotely intended to hurt anyone, but it reminds me that as long as DOMA stands, that's something I wouldn't be allowed to do
- I was getting to know new work contacts the other day and a moment came up when I would normally have mentioned my ex-girlfriend (explaining why I was familiar with a topic of conversation that she had worked on), but I chose not to in case it would make the other people uncomfortable, esp. since I knew one was an ex-Marine
- when I'm in a relationship, it seems like we always get lots of stares for holding hands and mild PDA. (I don't think I read as especially gay unless I'm obviously part of a couple, so being with a girlfriend always makes me feel a little bit like I was passing the rest of the time, and not realizing how others really felt about gay people because they didn't know I was gay.)
I know these examples are all at different levels of seriousness. But they kind of all accumulate. To the point where I hold myself at a little bit of a distance a lot of the time out of worry that straight people will subtly reject me or just not understand me. I know most people don't mean to. And it gets exhausting to constantly be on alert to how people are reading me and reacting to me. Should I just stop worrying about it? (Assuming I'm not in any physical danger.) How do you deal with this kind of stress? How do you deal with the constant question of whether to come out, and even when you're out, whether to downplay your sexual orientation or be more open and vocal about it?
I'm not so much looking for advice on how to handle the particular examples I described as thoughts on how to generally approach being queer in a society with a lot of heterosexism. I've read a little bit about covering and a little bit about minority stress. I think those ideas are both on point and I'd love any reading suggestions you have in those areas, or any other reading suggestions or personal experiences you could share. I have lots of queer friends, but we don't talk about this much. It seems like we often all try to pretend that we're just fine.
NY Senator Alesi: Don't Assume I Went to Gay Rights Dinner Because I Support Gay Rights
This morning I reported that some folks were hopeful because New York Republican Senator James Alesi, who was a (reportedly agonized) "no" vote on marriage equality legislation last time it was introduced, had attended a Rochester benefit for LGBT rights group Empire State Pride Agenda.
Well, Alesi apparently doesn't want to create too much expectation, explaining to Politics on the Hudson that people shouldn't read anything into his presence there:
?These are all my constituents and there is absolutely no way anyone can create a barricade for me when it comes to my constituents,? Alesi said outside the Senate chambers today. ?It?s me doing my job.?
Alesi has been heavily lobbied by both sides of the issue, and confirmed that he was contacted by phone recently by Gov. Andrew Cuomo, who is advocating for the measure?s adoption. But Alesi said his talk with Cuomo was brief, saying he asked the governor for a face-to-face meeting.
Alesi remains undeclared on where he'll vote this time around.
Well, Alesi apparently doesn't want to create too much expectation, explaining to Politics on the Hudson that people shouldn't read anything into his presence there:
?These are all my constituents and there is absolutely no way anyone can create a barricade for me when it comes to my constituents,? Alesi said outside the Senate chambers today. ?It?s me doing my job.?
Alesi has been heavily lobbied by both sides of the issue, and confirmed that he was contacted by phone recently by Gov. Andrew Cuomo, who is advocating for the measure?s adoption. But Alesi said his talk with Cuomo was brief, saying he asked the governor for a face-to-face meeting.
Alesi remains undeclared on where he'll vote this time around.
Minnesota lawmakers OK vote on gay-marriage ban : 2011-05-22
The gay-marriage battle has come to Minnesota after lawmakers passed a bill late Saturday night to allow voters to define marriage in their state constitution.
Monday, May 23, 2011
Michigan Will Provide Benefits to All Domestic Partners of State Employees
This Wednesday, the Michigan Civil Service Commission voted to extend health benefits to domestic partners of state employees. Domestic partner, as defined by the agreement, includes all live-in boyfriends and girlfriends of state workers, regardless of sexual orientation. The extension of benefits will not take effect until October. The issue had been reviewed under Democratic Gov. Jennifer Granholm?s administration, but was stalled by legal issues regarding wording. While current Governor Richard D. Snyder (R) questions the cost of the decision, given Michigan?s challenging budget this year, many are relieved by the agreement. Penny Gardner, president of a local LGBT advocacy group, called the decision ?a great breakthrough.? Gardner is an employee of Michigan State University, which offers similar benefits approved by the state, though her partner does not receive them because Gardner works part-time. In solidarity with state workers, Gardner said, "I know what it?s like having to make choices others don't have to make." Related Media Coverage:WILX.com - January 26, 2011"State Employees' Domestic Partners Will Get Health Benefits"http://www.wilx.com/home/headlines/State_Employees_Domestic_Partners_Will_Get_Health_Benefits_114675514.html
(67) bell hooks
� Lovers, We are still on a bit of a vacay and hope to return soon. In the meanwhile, we managed to snag part of an interview we heard on WBAI with esteemed author, thinker, teacher, and�theorist on feminism, gender, race, class and culture, bell hooks, author of over 20 books. She discuesses parenting, critical [...]
Kimpton Hotels Leaves Atlanta But Plans New Phoenix, Philadelphia Properties
Arguably the first hotel brand that comes to mind when travelers think of stylish, gay-friendly lodgings, the Kimpton Hotel Group recently ceased management of its relatively new (opened in 2009) and swanky Hotel Palomar Atlanta. The hotel had been sold to new owners, and in March, it became the still very gay-popular Renaissance Atlanta Midtown. The news may be a slight disappointment for Kimpton fans visiting Atlanta, but the Renaissance still looks and feels much like its predecessor, and the dining on-site is still outstanding, although the venues have new names: Briza, which continues to serve contemporary Italian fare; and Rooftop 866 remains an inviting lounge serving lighter fare....Read Full Post
Watch: Emotional Speech, Aftermath Of House Vote In Minnesota
There were many emotional speeches from various members of the Minnesotan House of Representatives during last night's debate on the state's same-sex marriage amendment.
John Kriesel, a Republican and Iraqi war vet who lost the use of both of his legs, gave one of the night's most moving speeches against voting for the measure. Said Kriesel amid chants of protesters in the rotunda of the Capitol outside of the chamber: "This amendment doesn't represent what I went to fight for. This doesn't represent that. Hear that out there? That's the America I fought for, and I'm proud of that."
As you know, members of the House subsequently voted on the issue and it will now go to voters in 2012. Kriesel was only one of four republicans to vote against the measure.
Watch him address his colleagues and also watch the aftermath of the vote from inside the Capitol, AFTER THE JUMP.
John Kriesel, a Republican and Iraqi war vet who lost the use of both of his legs, gave one of the night's most moving speeches against voting for the measure. Said Kriesel amid chants of protesters in the rotunda of the Capitol outside of the chamber: "This amendment doesn't represent what I went to fight for. This doesn't represent that. Hear that out there? That's the America I fought for, and I'm proud of that."
As you know, members of the House subsequently voted on the issue and it will now go to voters in 2012. Kriesel was only one of four republicans to vote against the measure.
Watch him address his colleagues and also watch the aftermath of the vote from inside the Capitol, AFTER THE JUMP.
150,000 same-sex couples report being married
Almost 150,000 same-sex couples reported being in marriage relationships last year, many more than the number of actual weddings and civil unions, according to the first U.S. census figures released on same-sex...
Kids Today
By now, you've no doubt seen the video featuring Iowan Zach Wahls and Barbara Bush (see below). And, you've seen the headlines about Meghan McCain as a leader in the NoH8 campaign.
Sheesh! Kids today!
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Sheesh! Kids today!
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Sunday, May 22, 2011
The Dinah 2011: Day One
After fourteen hours of being airborne and being not so airborne in the longest layover ever at LAX, I finally touched down in Palm Springs at 7:30 PT last night and raced over to the comedy show at the Riviera, which was already in progress. 90 degrees, clear skies, palms trees lining the streets.
(7) The I Have No Show, Show. Going Topic-less!
All I need is the right man, Thank God I’m gay, No topic whatsoever, Being ditched, Bad Karaoke Nonsensical ramblings, Paris? Kelly Clarkson? Farting? A tasteless show indeed …
Dining, Drinks & Desserts
The “ZIO’S EXPERIENCE” with 4 lovely lesbians
Greetings everyone, hope your week is going well. What a week in our busy world! The Senate did not pass DADT. The Republicans decided to start running on platforms which the Democrats created and former President Bill Clinton had some great words of advice for President Obama. Sometimes truth is stranger than fiction!
This week my guests were 4 lovely lesbians, Christina our Editor, her partner Alice and their friends Joergie and Neally.
We selected ZIO’S Italian Restaurant on El Cajon Blvd in North Park. When I arrived, owner Darren James greeted me with his warm embrace and handshake. We have chatted several times on Facebook and this was our actual first time meeting in person.
My ladies had not yet arrived so I asked Darren to give me a tour of…
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Greetings everyone, hope your week is going well. What a week in our busy world! The Senate did not pass DADT. The Republicans decided to start running on platforms which the Democrats created and former President Bill Clinton had some great words of advice for President Obama. Sometimes truth is stranger than fiction!
This week my guests were 4 lovely lesbians, Christina our Editor, her partner Alice and their friends Joergie and Neally.
We selected ZIO’S Italian Restaurant on El Cajon Blvd in North Park. When I arrived, owner Darren James greeted me with his warm embrace and handshake. We have chatted several times on Facebook and this was our actual first time meeting in person.
My ladies had not yet arrived so I asked Darren to give me a tour of…
Read More
First Civil Partnership Ceremonies Celebrated in Ireland
On Tuesday, two couples became the first to publicly celebrate their partnership ceremonies under Ireland?s recently instated civil partnership laws. The laws, which went into effect in January, provide couples with many of the protections afforded by marriage, including shared home protections and pension benefits. Chairman Kieran Rose of the Gay and Lesbian Equality Network (GLEN) commented on the ceremonies, saying they marked, ?another great milestone for Ireland and for lesbian and gay people.?Related Media Coverage:Agence France-Presse - April 5, 2011"First Public Same-Sex Partnerships Celebrated in Ireland"http://news.yahoo.com/s/afp/20110405/lf_afp/irelandgayslawmarriage
Love Your Body 2011 Poster Contest Winners
http://loveyourbody.nowfoundation.org/posters/contest-2011/index.htmlAnnouncing the winners of the 2011 Love Your Body poster contest.
Happy New Year from Click Click Expose Gay Podcast Network
HAPPY NEW YEAR podcast fans!! It's our last 2010 podcast update for the year and we end with some strong shows for you to listen too. What is the Click Click Expose Gay Podcast Network? We are a network of different podcast shows either produced by Click Click Expose (Gay Entertainment Media) or distributed by our official content producers and supporters. Our goal is to bring you a wide variety of LGBT podcast shows designed to enrich, entertain and enlighten the gay and lesbian community. In January 2011, we celebrate 5 years of podcasting for the gay and lesbian community AND the CLICK CLICK EXPOSE website has undergone a major re-design (again)- check it out: Click Click Expose and let us know what you think. It's easier now to listen to your favorite shows, watch videos, read news, etc.
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THIS WEEK'S SYNOPSIS: 1. Gay News Week In Review - "Week Ending 12/31/2010" 2. This Show Is So Gay - "2010 NASPA aunction winner Gregory Adam Jones" 3. Strange Dreamz with Kevin J. Thornton - New Year's Eve Special Show" 4. This Show Is So Gay - "Activist Ann Northrop" 5. House Music Show - DJ Carlos Dali - "A Christmas Present: The I'tis"
LISTEN:
Gay News Week In Review w/e 12/31/2010 (Podcast)
This Show Is So Gay - Gregory Adam Jones (Podcast)
Strange Dremaz with Kevin J. Thornton - New Year's Eve Special (Podcast)
DJ Carlos Dali - A Christmas Present: The I'tis (Podcast)
This Show Is So Gay - Activist Ann Northrop (Podcast)
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SUBSCRIBE TODAY:
Subscribe via RSS Feed HERE!
THIS WEEK'S SYNOPSIS: 1. Gay News Week In Review - "Week Ending 12/31/2010" 2. This Show Is So Gay - "2010 NASPA aunction winner Gregory Adam Jones" 3. Strange Dreamz with Kevin J. Thornton - New Year's Eve Special Show" 4. This Show Is So Gay - "Activist Ann Northrop" 5. House Music Show - DJ Carlos Dali - "A Christmas Present: The I'tis"
LISTEN:
Gay News Week In Review w/e 12/31/2010 (Podcast)
This Show Is So Gay - Gregory Adam Jones (Podcast)
Strange Dremaz with Kevin J. Thornton - New Year's Eve Special (Podcast)
DJ Carlos Dali - A Christmas Present: The I'tis (Podcast)
This Show Is So Gay - Activist Ann Northrop (Podcast)
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Touring North Carolina: from the Outer Banks to the Great Smoky Mountains
Perhaps no state in the Southeast offers a greater variety of natural scenery than North Carolina, one of the fastest-growing states in the eastern half of the country, and one that's slowly but surely becoming more welcoming toward gay and lesbian visitors, especially as it becomes politically and socially less conservative. The state enjoys, by far, the longest stretch of coastline on the Atlantic beyond Florida - vacationers regularly flock to the Outer Banks as well as charming and historic Wilmington and the surrounding Cape Fear Coast. Head west to the inland Appalachian Mountains, and you'll find dense woodlands and crystalline lakes as well as the gay-friendly, artsy small city of Asheville. Key cities like Charlotte (the nation's 17th-largest), the capital Raleigh, and collegiate Durham have sizable gay scenes....Read Full Post
Saturday, May 21, 2011
Aurora Dinner ventures to Gay Paris
The 12th annual Aurora Dinner to mark International Stonewall Day is set for Sydney Town Hall with the theme 'Gay Paris'
Virginia State Board of Social Services Votes Against Adoption Policy Changes
On Wednesday, the Virginia State Board of Social Services voted 7 to 2 to reject proposed policy changes that would protect prospective parents from discrimination by adoption agencies. The changes would have prohibited all adoption agencies, including faith-based organizations, from discriminating against adopters based on sexual orientation, gender, age, religion, political beliefs, disability and family status. The only discrimination protections currently in place are for national origin, race and color. According to the Family Equality Council, about 3,330 lesbian and gay couples are raising 6,700 children in Virginia, most of whom were adopted in the state. The American Academy of Adoption Attorneys reports that Virginia is one of 34 states where only single men and women and married couples can adopt.Related Media Coverage:The Washington Post - April 20, 2011"Virginia Board Rejects Proposal That Would Have Allowed Gay Adoptions"http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/politics/virginia-board-rejects-proposal-that-would-have-allowed-gay-apotions/2011/04/20/AF0s5gEE_story.html?nl_headlines
(48) Glossy Glam Drag Race
Intro from Our Friends at the I’m Going to Kill You Podcast Rupaul’s Drag Race, Bigots From All Walks of Life and/or Opposing Parties Etcetera Can ALL Agree on One Thing: H8 Legislation. PC Polizia, Homogenization, the Fairness Doctrine, Freedom of Speech, Women and Food, Stupidity: the Side Effect of Narcissism and more … www.imgoingtokillyou.podomatic.com [...]
Why the Evil Koch Bros. Must be Stopped: They Support Drug Legalization, Gay Marriage, Reduced Defense Spending.
If you're interested in complicating dumb media narratives and
blowing the minds of some of your leftard friends, here's a
spirited posting at Reddit by
someone with the handle epistemicfail:
The KOCH brothers must be stopped. They gave $40K to Scott
Walker, the MAX allowed by state law. That's small potatoes
compared to the $100+ million they give to other organizations.
These organizations will terrify you. If the anti-union thing
weren't enough, here are bigger and better reasons to stop the evil
Kochs. They are trying to:
decriminalize drugs,
legalize gay marriage,
repeal the Patriot Act,
end the police state,
cut defense spending.
Who hates the police? Only the criminals using drugs, amirite?
We need the Patriot Act to allow government to go through our
emails and tap our phones to catch people who smoke marijuana and
put them in prison. Oh, it's also good for terrorists.
Wikipedia shows Koch Family Foundations supporting causes
like:
CATO Institute
Reason Foundation
cancer research
ballet (because seriously: FUCK. THAT. SHIT.) ...
If there's one thing I know about billionaires, it's that they
only care about money. Bill Gates, Warren Buffett and George Soros.
They aren't fooling me. Bill Gates isn't fooling me with his
vaccination campaign in Africa. He's just trying to make African
children live longer so they will buy more copies of Windows. Wow.
Not even trying to hide it.
Now, I don't know why the KOCH brothers want gay people to have
the right to marry. Everybody knows marriage is for a man and a
woman. Even Obama said that. Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve
amirite? I haven't figured out the angle. Maybe it's like this:
legalize drugs
legalize gay marriage
sell drugs and oil to gays
????
PROFIT$$$
I don't know exactly how it would work, but we can all agree
that they're evil.
Read "STOP
THE KOCH BROTHERS. They are trying to end the War on Drugs and
increase civil liberties." I don't know who epistemicfail is,
but the whole thing is totally worth reading.
As Matt Welch noted last night in another
piece well worth reading, David Koch is a trustee of Reason Foundation, the nonprofit that
publishes this website.
Reason.com on the Kochs here.
blowing the minds of some of your leftard friends, here's a
spirited posting at Reddit by
someone with the handle epistemicfail:
The KOCH brothers must be stopped. They gave $40K to Scott
Walker, the MAX allowed by state law. That's small potatoes
compared to the $100+ million they give to other organizations.
These organizations will terrify you. If the anti-union thing
weren't enough, here are bigger and better reasons to stop the evil
Kochs. They are trying to:
decriminalize drugs,
legalize gay marriage,
repeal the Patriot Act,
end the police state,
cut defense spending.
Who hates the police? Only the criminals using drugs, amirite?
We need the Patriot Act to allow government to go through our
emails and tap our phones to catch people who smoke marijuana and
put them in prison. Oh, it's also good for terrorists.
Wikipedia shows Koch Family Foundations supporting causes
like:
CATO Institute
Reason Foundation
cancer research
ballet (because seriously: FUCK. THAT. SHIT.) ...
If there's one thing I know about billionaires, it's that they
only care about money. Bill Gates, Warren Buffett and George Soros.
They aren't fooling me. Bill Gates isn't fooling me with his
vaccination campaign in Africa. He's just trying to make African
children live longer so they will buy more copies of Windows. Wow.
Not even trying to hide it.
Now, I don't know why the KOCH brothers want gay people to have
the right to marry. Everybody knows marriage is for a man and a
woman. Even Obama said that. Adam and Eve, not Adam and Steve
amirite? I haven't figured out the angle. Maybe it's like this:
legalize drugs
legalize gay marriage
sell drugs and oil to gays
????
PROFIT$$$
I don't know exactly how it would work, but we can all agree
that they're evil.
Read "STOP
THE KOCH BROTHERS. They are trying to end the War on Drugs and
increase civil liberties." I don't know who epistemicfail is,
but the whole thing is totally worth reading.
As Matt Welch noted last night in another
piece well worth reading, David Koch is a trustee of Reason Foundation, the nonprofit that
publishes this website.
Reason.com on the Kochs here.
Greatest Hits
Step back in time with Minnie Cooper, Decoda Secret and Little X at the Imperial’s new Friday night offering, Pop Tarts
School bulling, violence against LGBT youth linked to suicide, HIV, STD risk in young adults
MAY 16, 2011 — Critical new research has found that lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender LGBT youth who experience high levels of school victimization in middle and high school report impaired health and mental health in young adulthood, including depression, suicide attempts that require medical care, sexually transmitted diseases STDs and risk for HIV. This is the first known study to examine the relationship between school victimization during adolescence — specifically related to sexual orientation and gender identity — with multiple dimensions of young adult health and adjustment. The study demonstrates the importance of addressing and preventing anti-LGBT victimization at the structural or school level to reduce health disparities among LGBT young people. The study is published in the Journal of School Health, the journal of the American School Health Association.
Alex & Chloe for HRC: Marriage Equality is Black and White
As the battle for marriage equality heats up in New York, HRC is unveiling its latest collaboration with designers Alex & Chloe. The white tee features a ?bleeding heart? and stands for marriage equality. Only 500 shirts are available for purchase ? you can get yours at http://shop.hrc.org/, or at HRC Stores in Provincetown, MA; San Francisco, CA; Palm Springs, CA; and Washington, DC. One-hundred percent of the proceeds go towards HRC?s fight for equality.
(53) Skeleton Closet Confessions
8 minute Mash-up, Then Nikki Guest Hosts and says it’s show 54 but don’t listen to her it’s #53; ate mail from God?/Yeshua; Aimless feminists; and answer listener inquiries from show 52 re: (Sandi’s) run in with a past flame’s ex-hubby a few weeks ago and we both confess a few skeletons in our closets [...]
Friday, May 20, 2011
Portland Pride This Weekend
Boy do I wish I was going to be in Portland this weekend!Two of my favorite performers are singing or strutting their stuff on the Community Stage for the Portland Pride 2010.First up: Christine Havrilla plays at 3pm on Saturday. Right after: Bang Bang Betty's Big Beautiful Bombshells (which includes our Executive Editor from Curve, Diane Anderson-Minshall) at 4:30.Portland Peeps: get your pride on this weekend and go check out these fantabulous performances!Be sure to check out the full lineup of great performers coming to Portland Pride this weekend. It's quite the talent draw: http://www.pridenw.org/* Kina Williams Photography for Bang Bang Betty
150,000 same-sex couples report being married
Almost 150,000 same-sex couples reported being in marriage relationships last year, many more than the number of actual weddings and civil unions, according to the first U.S. census figures released on same-sex...
LADY BUNNY Talks Politics with Feast of Fun Podcast
If you are a reader of this site (and our sister site, BestGayNewYork) you'll know we ADORE Lady Bunny! Besides being the hardest working drag queen in the business, she is also a great writer who does guest author spots everywhere, including Huffington Post.
She recently caught up with Feast of Fun and their #1 gay podcast. She speaks brilliantly on poltics, war, and she is very well read and has wonderful views and opinions, and Lady Bunny gives a great conversational interview on Feast of Fun!It's a wonderful hour of views and conversation!
She recently caught up with Feast of Fun and their #1 gay podcast. She speaks brilliantly on poltics, war, and she is very well read and has wonderful views and opinions, and Lady Bunny gives a great conversational interview on Feast of Fun!It's a wonderful hour of views and conversation!
New Flower Service
As workmen begin installing the flowers for the Prince William and Catherine Middleton's Royal wedding, uur friends at The Garden Party Flower Service launched a new Flower Service today at http://www.thegardenparty.co.uk/ Head over and take a look.
Image by shannonpatrick17 via Flickr
View Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
Image by shannonpatrick17 via Flickr
View Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
Thursday, May 19, 2011
MP tight-lipped on anti-gay email outburst
A state Liberal MP has apologized for a homophobic email exchange, but has yet to explain his comments
Wyoming House Passes Bill Opposing Marriage Equality
On Monday, the Wyoming House of Representatives passed a bill banning state recognition of marriages and civil unions for gay and lesbian couples that were performed elsewhere. The bill comes as the result of several attempts of similar yet unsuccessful legislation in past years. State Rep. Owen Petersen, the bill?s sponsor, says it is necessary to reconcile a contradiction in Wyoming law, which states that marriage is the union of one man and one woman, but also recognizes any valid marriage performed outside of Wyoming?s jurisdiction. The bill passed 32-27 in the House even though it has failed twice before. Its prospects for passing the Senate appear strong.Related Media Coverage:Star-Tribune Capital Bureau ? January 24, 2011?House Passes Anti-Gay Marriage Bill?http://trib.com/news/state-and-regional/govt-and-politics/article_4876d7cc-27f2-11e0-bc10-001cc4c002e0.html
Community News
Get ready Hillcrest, to have your world rocked with delicious food
and entertainment!
Eden, the enlightened lovechild of ChileCo Catering’s Chef Scotty Wagner and NightlifeSD’s David Laurent comes to life on October 28, 2010, as the power duo unveil the reinvented Hillcrest entertainment complex on the corner of University and Vermont. Guests are invited to indulge in Eden’s earthly delights and will be able to enjoy the freshest local fares from the restaurant’s globally inspired menu.
Colorful, casual and contemporary, the restaurant at Eden will be a reflection of the surrounding community. With a focus on providing guests with the highest quality food that is representative of what’s fresh, local and seasonal, Chef Scot…
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and entertainment!
Eden, the enlightened lovechild of ChileCo Catering’s Chef Scotty Wagner and NightlifeSD’s David Laurent comes to life on October 28, 2010, as the power duo unveil the reinvented Hillcrest entertainment complex on the corner of University and Vermont. Guests are invited to indulge in Eden’s earthly delights and will be able to enjoy the freshest local fares from the restaurant’s globally inspired menu.
Colorful, casual and contemporary, the restaurant at Eden will be a reflection of the surrounding community. With a focus on providing guests with the highest quality food that is representative of what’s fresh, local and seasonal, Chef Scot…
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Florida principal threatens gay students for holding hands
Broward County officials are concerned about the actions of a high school principal in Popmano Beach, Fla., who confronted a pair of lesbian students who were holding hands on the way to class.
?We were walking to class when he rolled up on his golf cart and said, ?Didn?t I tell you two to stop doing� that?? and then he took us to his office,? one of the girls told South Florida Times. ?He gave us a speech and then separated us before calling our parents, which was wrong. My mother already knew but my friend?s mom didn?t know she is into girls.?
He then threatened them with suspension.
Though the school board says that no displays of affection - including hand-holding - are permitted, activists say that straight couples aren't censured for holding hands. Additionally, a "hand-holding ban" doesn't appear on the school's code of conduct website page.
The school has a non-discrimination policy that protects students based on age, race, disability, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, marital status, national origin and religion.
?We were walking to class when he rolled up on his golf cart and said, ?Didn?t I tell you two to stop doing� that?? and then he took us to his office,? one of the girls told South Florida Times. ?He gave us a speech and then separated us before calling our parents, which was wrong. My mother already knew but my friend?s mom didn?t know she is into girls.?
He then threatened them with suspension.
Though the school board says that no displays of affection - including hand-holding - are permitted, activists say that straight couples aren't censured for holding hands. Additionally, a "hand-holding ban" doesn't appear on the school's code of conduct website page.
The school has a non-discrimination policy that protects students based on age, race, disability, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, marital status, national origin and religion.
(64) Love & Rage (Mini)
She’s not a f’cking “WRITER”! Blasphemers. Soy. Quack therapists, pills and doctors… oh, and don’t listen if you’re hypersensitive about these issues and can’t deal with anyone having a different opinion and/or life experience than yours. This isn’t NPR, byatches.
Conflicting Reports on OK to Hold Moscow Pride
Several recent reports from Moscow said that officials had greenlighted this year's May 28 gay pride parade, which would have marked the first time in its six years of existence that the parade wasn't officially banned.
Wednesday, May 18, 2011
San Diego community prepares to step off for 21st Annual AIDS Walk
As local service organizations continue to feel the impact of government funding cuts for HIV/AIDS services, the San Diego community will again come together in a display of support and compassion at the 21st annual AIDS Walk & Run. The event will take place on Sunday, Sept. 26 at Balboa Park.
Registration for both walkers and runners will begin at 6am at Balboa Park, along Sixth Avenue (early registration is also available, see the official event guide here for more information) on Sunday. The 10K run will start at 8am, with the Walk step off at 8:10am.
Local elected officials will also take part in the day’s ceremonies, including U.S. Representative Susan Davis, California State Assemblymember Lori Saldaña, and San Diego City Councilmemb…
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Registration for both walkers and runners will begin at 6am at Balboa Park, along Sixth Avenue (early registration is also available, see the official event guide here for more information) on Sunday. The 10K run will start at 8am, with the Walk step off at 8:10am.
Local elected officials will also take part in the day’s ceremonies, including U.S. Representative Susan Davis, California State Assemblymember Lori Saldaña, and San Diego City Councilmemb…
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Newt Gets Glittered
GOP presidential hopeful and "free will adulterer" Newt Gingrich was showered with glitter, courtesy of a
24-year-old LGBT activist, prior to an appearance at the antigay
Minnesota Family Council's annual dinner.
24-year-old LGBT activist, prior to an appearance at the antigay
Minnesota Family Council's annual dinner.
ON THE COUCH With Lisa Truong and Steve Walker / Neighbors to friends to family
Stacks of diapers are piled in the foyer, though the kids who live here are past that stage. The Maxwell Park home of Steve Walker and Lisa Truong, both 38, and their boys, sometimes serves as the makeshift headquarters...
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