Olympic hopeful Tom Luchsinger writes about the forces that kept him in the closet and why he decided to come out.
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Wednesday, December 17, 2014
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"U can put a cherry on a pile of sh*t but it don't make it a sundae."—Shonda Rhimes weighs via Twitter with her opinion about the email exchange between Sony Pictures co-chair Amy Pascal and producer Scott Rudin where they joke that President Obama probably likes movies like The Butler and Django Unchained. You mean he doesn't?
GLAAD's LA staff celebrates the holidays at PUMP with Bravo's Lisa Vanderpump
Lisa Vanderpump from Bravo's Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and Vanderpump Rules continued her support of GLAAD last night by hosting the Los Angeles staff holiday party at her West Hollywood restaurant PUMP. Vanderpump met with GLAAD's President Sarah Kate Ellis and staff, alongside husband Ken and their dog Giggy.
Thanks to Ken, Lisa and Giggy for having GLAAD staff at Pump for our holiday party in LA!
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Vanderpump has a long history of supporting GLAAD and the LGBT community. Last year, she and GLAAD Board of Directors member Cody Lassen spoke about the importance of Spirit Day and supporting LGBT youth at the unveiling of a Westfield Group Spirit Day photo installation. Vanderpump appeared at the 22nd Annual GLAAD Media Awards in Los Angeles where she co-presented the award for Outstanding Reality Series and she hosted GLAAD's Hancock Park: Top Chef Invasion event in 2011. She has also spoken out against Chik-fil-A's anti-LGBT policies and leant her voice in support of Jennifer Tyrrell, a mother of four from Bridgeport, Ohio who was ousted from the Boy Scouts of America because she is gay. Vanderpump previously hosted GLAAD's post-PRIDE party at her restaurant SUR.
Thank you to Lisa, Ken and the PUMP staff for having us!
December 16, 2014
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Thanks to Ken, Lisa and Giggy for having GLAAD staff at Pump for our holiday party in LA!
A photo posted by @glaad on Dec 12, 2014 at 7:49pm PST
Vanderpump has a long history of supporting GLAAD and the LGBT community. Last year, she and GLAAD Board of Directors member Cody Lassen spoke about the importance of Spirit Day and supporting LGBT youth at the unveiling of a Westfield Group Spirit Day photo installation. Vanderpump appeared at the 22nd Annual GLAAD Media Awards in Los Angeles where she co-presented the award for Outstanding Reality Series and she hosted GLAAD's Hancock Park: Top Chef Invasion event in 2011. She has also spoken out against Chik-fil-A's anti-LGBT policies and leant her voice in support of Jennifer Tyrrell, a mother of four from Bridgeport, Ohio who was ousted from the Boy Scouts of America because she is gay. Vanderpump previously hosted GLAAD's post-PRIDE party at her restaurant SUR.
Thank you to Lisa, Ken and the PUMP staff for having us!
December 16, 2014
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Ruth Messinger talks human-rights issues, justice
"I dedicate my days to the struggles for human rights of some of the people who have the least access to power—women and girls, the LGBT community and indigenous peoples in the developing world whose communities are threatened," said Ruth Messinger, president of the American Jewish World Service AJWS .
Same-sex marriages at least 9 percent of NY total
At least 9 percent of marriages in New York have been between same-sex couples since the law took effect in July 2011, state records show.
Introducing Mrs & Mrs Jodie Foster
Jodie Foster's new wife may be a new face to most of the world, but lesbians and L Word fans will recognize Alexandra Hedison who played sexy Dylan Moreland, the filmmaker who broke Helena's heart in the popular lesbian series. Photographer and actress Alexandra Hedison also dated Ellen DeGeneres for a few years. Now's she's tied the knot with recently out actress Jodie Foster. Congratulations to this new lesbian power couple.
Tuesday, December 16, 2014
I?m not a playa, I just crush a lot: a guide to dating multiple people at once
A lesbian guide on how to date multiple people at once without drama
Federal Court Rules Dept. of Corrections Can Deny Care to Trans Prisoners
In overturning a decision that medically necessary gender-confirmation surgery should be provided to a transgender inmate, advocates worry the court has created a harmful precedent.
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Mississippi's Pastor Edward James Protests Gay Marriage With Horse In Wedding Dress
A Mississippi pastor brought a horse in a wedding dress to stand with him outside a federal courthouse on Friday in Jackson to protest a federal judge's ruling, currently on hold, to overturn the socially conservative state's ban on gay marriage. The horse, complete with white flowers tucked into its harness and a bouquet at its feet, munched grass as the pastor, Edward James of Bertha Chapel Missionary Baptist Church, spoke and waved signs at passersby.
Out and About
Friday, October 8
Now in its 20th smash season, The Mystery Cafe proudly carries on their legacy as San Diego’s longest running dinner theater. Join them for a night of the most informal dining fun San Diego has to offer. Enjoy a four course meal, solve a mystery, be a part of the show, and laugh yourself silly! Bring the family and friends and enjoy an evening of hilarious, non-stop action, great food and good old fashioned FUN...you never know, you might get to be part of the act! 8:00 p.m. to 11:00 p.m. Mystery Café is located at 505 Kalmia St., San Diego, 92101 Tickets - $59.50 which includes 4 course meal, show and tax. Gratuity not included. For more information call the Mystery Cafe Box Office (619) 460-2200 or visit www.mysterycafe.net
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Now in its 20th smash season, The Mystery Cafe proudly carries on their legacy as San Diego’s longest running dinner theater. Join them for a night of the most informal dining fun San Diego has to offer. Enjoy a four course meal, solve a mystery, be a part of the show, and laugh yourself silly! Bring the family and friends and enjoy an evening of hilarious, non-stop action, great food and good old fashioned FUN...you never know, you might get to be part of the act! 8:00 p.m. to 11:00 p.m. Mystery Café is located at 505 Kalmia St., San Diego, 92101 Tickets - $59.50 which includes 4 course meal, show and tax. Gratuity not included. For more information call the Mystery Cafe Box Office (619) 460-2200 or visit www.mysterycafe.net
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Gay officer sues Met over 'Barrymore sex taunts': PC claims he was ...
The constable said he became friends with the TV entertainer in 2001 following his arrest after a man's body was found in his swimming pool. Gay policeman Dan Lichters is suing Scotland Yard for discrimination, harassment and victimisation and claims he was taunted for 'having sex with entertainer Michael Barrymore' The 34-year-old, a serving policeman at Barkingside Police Station in East London who was commended for his bravery during the London riots, claims he was repeatedly victimised for his sexual orientation.
Monday, December 15, 2014
(48) Glossy Glam Drag Race
Intro from Our Friends at the I’m Going to Kill You Podcast Rupaul’s Drag Race, Bigots From All Walks of Life and/or Opposing Parties Etcetera Can ALL Agree on One Thing: H8 Legislation. PC Polizia, Homogenization, the Fairness Doctrine, Freedom of Speech, Women and Food, Stupidity: the Side Effect of Narcissism and more … http://www.imgoingtokillyou.podomatic.com […]
San Diego Drag Kings Ten Year Celebration
Lesbian, gay, transgender, bisexual or straight, no one can deny that the event this Sunday evening at the Flame will definitely be worth attending. The San Diego drag kings will be celebrating their ten year anniversary and everyone is welcome. Favorite faces from the past such as the popular Tommy Salami, Jonny O and Randy Shaft will be traveling to San Diego to perform in this event. The event will also be hosted by some familiar and local drag members. Local members will perform new numbers and include old favorites, which we have not had the opportunity to enjoy for a while. Some of these performances will be hosted by Rudy Ramrod, James Bondage, Drake Bottoms, Trouble, Dragon, Whiskey and Smokey. Drag queen, Regina Styles (Richard Poole), who they ende…
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Say It
Speak up…again and again…and again
I was on the bandstand in LA, just 48 hours before the big 2008 election, thrilled to be singing for yet another gay wedding
I was becoming aware of a strange, new sense of ease in the midst of this uber-straight group of guys, all of whom had, at one point or another, let me know they were unthreatened by the shocking fact that I had “changed teams”. (As if somehow I was now part of the opposition). I whirled around and, with big eyes for emphasis, reminded everyone, “It’s ‘No’ on Prop 8 this Tuesday.”
The Bass player looked up from his tuner, “No, it’s ‘Yes.’”
Now I added the big arms. “No, no, no – we’re voting &l…
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I was on the bandstand in LA, just 48 hours before the big 2008 election, thrilled to be singing for yet another gay wedding
I was becoming aware of a strange, new sense of ease in the midst of this uber-straight group of guys, all of whom had, at one point or another, let me know they were unthreatened by the shocking fact that I had “changed teams”. (As if somehow I was now part of the opposition). I whirled around and, with big eyes for emphasis, reminded everyone, “It’s ‘No’ on Prop 8 this Tuesday.”
The Bass player looked up from his tuner, “No, it’s ‘Yes.’”
Now I added the big arms. “No, no, no – we’re voting &l…
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Food for Thought
You’re kidding; there IS a pill for THAT?
As the government sets to begin reviews of new diet drugs, American obesity rates are nudging upwards in 28 states over the past year, a new report shows. The Center of Disease Control and Prevention reports that 68% of Americans are considered over weight or obese.
According to Jeff Levi, executive director of the Trust for America’s Health, “Back in 1991, not that long ago, not a single state had an obesity rate above 20 percent. More than two-thirds of states now have adult obesity rates above 25 percent,”
There’s been a dramatic change in a relatively short period.
“Obesity is one of the biggest public health crises in the country,” Levi added. “Rising rates of obesity over past decades is one of the major fa…
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As the government sets to begin reviews of new diet drugs, American obesity rates are nudging upwards in 28 states over the past year, a new report shows. The Center of Disease Control and Prevention reports that 68% of Americans are considered over weight or obese.
According to Jeff Levi, executive director of the Trust for America’s Health, “Back in 1991, not that long ago, not a single state had an obesity rate above 20 percent. More than two-thirds of states now have adult obesity rates above 25 percent,”
There’s been a dramatic change in a relatively short period.
“Obesity is one of the biggest public health crises in the country,” Levi added. “Rising rates of obesity over past decades is one of the major fa…
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Grindr's gay allies and enemies
EVER wanted to 'dislike' an annoying Facebook post? Mark Zuckerberg says he's on it - but it's more complicated than you'd think. CARS will soon have technology that will notify the dealer when something is wrong, and then check itself in to get fixed.
Sources for quality lesbian erotica
Where is all the lesbian/queer erotica that doesn't suck? (NSFW, naturally) Gals, help a lady-loving lady out. I am seeking short-form lesbian/queer erotica that fits the following (admittedly rather particular) criteria:
- Smart. Genuinely well-written. Conforms to the basic writing principle of 'show, don't tell'.
- High smut-to-plot ratio. Writer establishes the characters and setting, then lets them get sexy with minimal non-sexy dialogue/dyke drama/coming-out angst/detailed descriptions of knitting/etc in the interim.
- Allows insight into at least one character's internal world. Makes room for vulnerability and uncertainty. More than just a third-person description of tab A going into slot B.
- Describes sex that is safe, sane and enthusiastically consensual for all parties (kink is fine but not required).
- Is written by queer women and portrays queer women's sex lives in a realistic (if unusually sex-tastic) way. No implausible rendezvous, genre fiction cliches, spontaneous locker-room scissoring sessions, etc.
I enjoyed much of Sugarbutch's early work, as well as their book Sweet and Rough. It's smart, brilliantly crafted, and sexy as fuck. I like the way they play with sexuality in a thoughtful, almost intellectual way, while still being incredibly smutty. But I'd like to branch out beyond their favoured genderqueer butch top/femme sub dynamic, and I'm a bit skeeved out by the 'daddy/boi' stories they've been writing more recently.
I checked out Best Lesbian Erotica 2014 but despite a few gems, there is just so much plot and angst and drama and so much telling-not-showing and honestly a lot of the stories read more like teenage fanfic than smutty smut for grown-ups. I can find romance and conflict in actual literature; when it comes to erotica I just want to read stories that get me off. Basically I want the written word version of Crashpad, where the plot is pretty much: "Hot queers meet to have sexy sex. It's super sexy in all kinds of ways, some of which might stretch your sexual horizons. Everyone involved has an awesome sexy time. The End".
So, um?where can I find erotica like that?
- Smart. Genuinely well-written. Conforms to the basic writing principle of 'show, don't tell'.
- High smut-to-plot ratio. Writer establishes the characters and setting, then lets them get sexy with minimal non-sexy dialogue/dyke drama/coming-out angst/detailed descriptions of knitting/etc in the interim.
- Allows insight into at least one character's internal world. Makes room for vulnerability and uncertainty. More than just a third-person description of tab A going into slot B.
- Describes sex that is safe, sane and enthusiastically consensual for all parties (kink is fine but not required).
- Is written by queer women and portrays queer women's sex lives in a realistic (if unusually sex-tastic) way. No implausible rendezvous, genre fiction cliches, spontaneous locker-room scissoring sessions, etc.
I enjoyed much of Sugarbutch's early work, as well as their book Sweet and Rough. It's smart, brilliantly crafted, and sexy as fuck. I like the way they play with sexuality in a thoughtful, almost intellectual way, while still being incredibly smutty. But I'd like to branch out beyond their favoured genderqueer butch top/femme sub dynamic, and I'm a bit skeeved out by the 'daddy/boi' stories they've been writing more recently.
I checked out Best Lesbian Erotica 2014 but despite a few gems, there is just so much plot and angst and drama and so much telling-not-showing and honestly a lot of the stories read more like teenage fanfic than smutty smut for grown-ups. I can find romance and conflict in actual literature; when it comes to erotica I just want to read stories that get me off. Basically I want the written word version of Crashpad, where the plot is pretty much: "Hot queers meet to have sexy sex. It's super sexy in all kinds of ways, some of which might stretch your sexual horizons. Everyone involved has an awesome sexy time. The End".
So, um?where can I find erotica like that?
Walking Alone
.Do you ever contemplate the sadness of walking life alone? .Although you may have friends and family that can walk with you for a while, you realize that they have their own friends and family and you know it's not possible for them to walk with you the entire journey?. Even though you could make it alone, sharing the joyful moments of your journey with someone you really love is the happiness that a good life is made of. .It reminds me of that scene in "Jerry Maguire" where he had his big night but he couldn't enjoy it because his wife wasn't with him. He's telling her (in front of a room full of women) that he realizes that his happiness is now contingent upon having her presence to share it with. . .(Wasn't that sweet?) .Not only do you suffer walking alone by having nobody to share your basic life joys with, but you also know that when you suffer a heart-break (and you WILL), there is nobody with you to comfort you. .When you feel no hand rubbing your back and have no body to just be physically present, be certain that your sadness becomes multiplied. .Walking alone is hard and with each passing year, I have greater tenderness in my heart for those who must do it. It will never be my desire to walk alone but sometimes, it's not up to us. For those who must do it who don't want to, my heart goes out to you. . Love and light.
Sunday, December 14, 2014
February 2012 - Life on the Road (and mostly my crib)
Hello hello! So here we are again. I started this special series of blog entries last month (Click here for Jan. 2012) and am happy to report that...well there is more to report. I have *words* to say about February which means the clock hasn't yet struck midnight on this little fairy tale I'm living.(My friend Adriana and I doin' a faux prom pic in the middle of a hotel in LA a few days ago. That's normal, right? Oh and although it definitely looks like it, she is NOT in love with me. Totally looks like it, though, doesn't it. Sheesh, no means no, lady!)Now don't get me wrong: the job I have (like I'm sure it is for most of you reading this) is a LOT of hard work. Truly. It's mentally and physically challenging and there are a VAGILLION moving parts and lots of high stakes gigs/days. But the good news is that I LOVE that sort of energy. I love high stakes. I love having a ton of responsibility and people looking to me for answers. I love still having so many questions, and being a sponge, soaking it all up each and every day. Cause I know one day I will be jaded. One day this will just be a J.O.B. I hope that doesn't happen for several decades and that when it DOES happen, I'm somewhere on a jetpack and it won't matter anyway:) So the point is, I don't take a minute of this for granted.And while January was chock full of gigs and jetsetting and ROBES (see link above), February was relatively quiet until the veeery end. I spent most of February in Houston working on a few things from home, watching Criminal Intent marathons, and gaining SO much weight all throughout and about my person. I also came across some old photo prints that I did years ago in a dark room and it really has me inspired to pursue photography more seriously than ever before.(My brother Alfred, hand printed)(This chick that used to work at my favorite restaurant in Dallas, Mother Mesquite's, hand printed)The last week in Feb, I got a call that we would have to fly to LA the very next day for a big CeeLo show in Hollywood. We spent a few days in rehearsal...(The band playing during rehearsals)...and I spent a few minutes staring at this sign that I came across...(No biggie, just where my wife Katharine Mcphee's mom teaches and coaches American Idol contestants and others, and where my wife got her chops back in the day. Yep. I was able to *go to there*.)SO, speeeeaking of women named after felines who I am married to, did you guys catch when my other wife Cat Deeley retweeted me in Feb? No? I'll show you:That was cool, right? Know whats even cooler? Days later when I find out that Cat Deeley not only has great taste in food, tweets, and Arlans, but she ALSO says yes to the best gigs. She HOSTED the show we did in Hollywood! Good thing I didn't realize this until the night before the show, or I'm pretty sure I would have hyperventilated days earlier and wouldn't have been able to make it to the show at all. All tolled, I spent about 6 hours in Ms. Deeley's tall, luxurious, babe-alicious presence, and I can tell you this: the woman is HOT, friendly, DAMN good at her job, and an overall pleasant individual to be around. Unfortunately I did not get to redeem myself and ask for her hand in marriage, because she's a lady and I'm a professional...aaand truth be told, anytime she'd look in my general direction, I'd giggle and turn into a bowl of jello. But next time, I'll be rock solid, my friends. ROCK. SOLID.(My view of part of soundcheck at Hollywood and Highland. New artist 'V' was preparing for her incredible duet with CeeLo. She sounded great!)You can see pics from the red carpet and the show itself HERE!So thats a wrap for February 2012. I now return you to your regularly scheduled Daily Lesbian Moment blog:) See you again a few days into April where hopefully there will be even more to report. Shenanigans, I tell you. Pure shenanigans!- (Click here for Jan. 2012 blog entry)
WATCH: Model on Va. 'Ex-Gay' Billboard Is Gay, Not a Twin
The man who modeled for a stock image used on an 'ex-gay' group's billboard claiming twins research proves no one is born gay, says he in fact was born gay ? and doesn't have a twin.
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Emails Show Conflict Behind ExxonMobil's Discrimination Policy Case
An ExxonMobil executive says the company is great for LGBT employees, but the lack of an antidiscrimination policy may prove otherwise.
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(12) The Lesbian Teen Show (1hr)
Sandi talks with teenagers Mandy, Tash and Mary, about relevant and retarded issues. What’s on the minds of lesbian youth today, safe dental sex, and how to off an abusive parent … all in one 54 minute show.
A gay marriage celebrated, nearly 49 years in the making
WESTMINSTER, England -- It was hardly the most evocative of locations ? an empty, overlit office space with on the 17th floor of ugly concrete towerblock that is home to Westminster Council ? but when the moment came, with the late afternoon sunshine casting the panelled ceiling and carpet tiles in a luminous gold, Percy Steven confessed to a flicker of nerves and an unexpected lump in his throat.
A British couple, who fell in love long ago when it was a crime to be gay, finally get to tie the knot.
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A British couple, who fell in love long ago when it was a crime to be gay, finally get to tie the knot.
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Google+ Now Lets You Define Your Gender
The social networking outlet of the tech giant is the latest to let users define their gender identity however feels right to them.
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One conversation can change minds on gay marriage, study finds
For David Fleischer, it was a gut-punch when Proposition 8, the ballot initiative banning gay marriage, passed in California in 2008. He wondered: What could we do to change people?s minds on this subject?
Support for same-sex marriage jumped eight percentage points among those voters who had a single conversation with a gay canvasser, according to the study.
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Support for same-sex marriage jumped eight percentage points among those voters who had a single conversation with a gay canvasser, according to the study.
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Attending 2014 Folsom Street Fair and Up Your Alley
The dates are now in place for one of the most celebrated queer leather events in the world, the annual Folsom Street Fair, which draws a few-hundred-thousand ardent fans and onlookers to San Francisco in late September (September 21). Here's more on the big event, as well as information about the similarly fun-filled Up Your Alley Fair, held in San Francisco on July 27 this year. And lastly, if you're in Europe, don't forget that Folsom Europe gears up in mid-September in Berlin - the dates are September 13 and 14....Read Full Post
Saturday, December 13, 2014
Which US Schools Have the Most LGBT Students?
Reaching Out MBA's survey reveals the percentage of LGBT students at 33 top US schools. Which business schools have the highest percentage of LGBT MBAs?
Gay weddings could add $2.6B to U.S. economy in three years
LOS ANGELES, California -- Gay weddings could spark a $2.6 billion boost to the U.S. economy in just the first three years, according to new research.
?Same-sex couples and their out-of-town guests spend money to celebrate weddings,? said M.V. Lee Badgett, a Williams Distinguished Scholar. ?As we have seen in states that already extend marriage to same-sex couples, this spending boost can lead to an influx of tourism dollars that benefit local businesses and an increase in state and local tax revenue.?
The resource estimates that the nationwide economic boost from marriage of same-sex couples could be up to $2.6 billion in just the first three years.
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?Same-sex couples and their out-of-town guests spend money to celebrate weddings,? said M.V. Lee Badgett, a Williams Distinguished Scholar. ?As we have seen in states that already extend marriage to same-sex couples, this spending boost can lead to an influx of tourism dollars that benefit local businesses and an increase in state and local tax revenue.?
The resource estimates that the nationwide economic boost from marriage of same-sex couples could be up to $2.6 billion in just the first three years.
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(4) PMS and Worst Psycho Lesbian Stories Revealed
pms, weapon weilding mattress stabbing, gas station fights, holes in walls, head banging stalkers, bottle dodging, and flying chairs …
INTJ Personality Type: 'Introvert' Does Not Mean 'Shy'
I've been learning a lot in my new media classes. The one that I'm taking that is giving me a grade for this blog has been especially helpful. In analyzing what keywords people use to arrive at my blog, I noticed a special one: INTJ. The INTJWhat the hell is that, you ask?IntrovertediNtuitive (don't think that "N" instead of "I" shit doesn't bother us because it does...)ThinkingJudgingI think we will start talking about this on a regular basis but for today, I felt it was important to get a fundamental truth out of the way:Being an introvert does not mean that you're shy. I'm very outgoing and can talk to and get along with almost anyone. Do I want to?Hell no. But I've learned how to be friendly and a good listener out of necessity and I'll do it if I must; it's just not my favorite thing. An introvert is someone who recharges by being alone. An extrovert gets charged up by being around people. To be clear: It has nothing to do with shyness or being outgoing. You are almost certain to have an introvert in your life so I thought I would borrow this handy chart that I found on Pinterest to help guide you in your care for the introvert (INTJ) in your life: If you offer this type of love and support to your introvert, you will be valued and prized above all others! You may even be invited into our private world.
It Starts With A 'D', Aunt Mama
Tonight, I was talking to my 13 year old niece, Mackenzie.She was bringing me up to date on how she is spending her summer, the pool that she frequents and the many delights of Chinese take out. Then, she suddenly remembered that she was doing a thing tomorrow...Mackenzie: "Guess where I'm going tomorrow?"Me: "Ummmm, to an ashram to take a systematic course in ancient techniques of yoga and kriya?"Mackenzie, "No. It starts with a 'D', Aunt Mama. It has to do with teeth."Me: "A dungeon? You're going to a dungeon to get your teeth knocked out by a professional torturer?"Mackenzie: "No, Aunt Mama! I'm going to the dentist... sheesh!"
Gay candidates for Congress draw interest, hope
PROVIDENCE (AP) – Laure Rondeau, an 82-year-old Catholic, supports Providence Mayor David Cicilline for Congress because he wants to get the troops out of Afghanistan and says Washington is losing sight of what’s happening to regular people.
The sexual orientation of the openly gay mayor doesn’t figure into her decision.
“That doesn’t bother me at all,” Rondeau says. “He’s been a good mayor of Providence, and I think he’d do well in Congress.”
Just three of the 535 members of Congress are openly gay, but two candidates hope to inch that number up to five this year: Cicilline, who is running to succeed fellow Democrat Patrick Kennedy, and Democrat Steve Pougnet, who’s trying to knock Republi…
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The sexual orientation of the openly gay mayor doesn’t figure into her decision.
“That doesn’t bother me at all,” Rondeau says. “He’s been a good mayor of Providence, and I think he’d do well in Congress.”
Just three of the 535 members of Congress are openly gay, but two candidates hope to inch that number up to five this year: Cicilline, who is running to succeed fellow Democrat Patrick Kennedy, and Democrat Steve Pougnet, who’s trying to knock Republi…
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Seat Filler: Our New York Theater Guide for December 2014
Planning to see theater in NYC? Check out these five new LGBT-inclusive shows.
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Friday, December 12, 2014
6 Ways to Sabotage Your Relationship
Earlier this week I talked about 6 ways to make your relationship awesome. Today I've got 6 ways to really screw it up. Beware of these 6 ways to sabotage your relationship.
(33) What Does Gay Pride Mean to YOU?
(1hr) This podcast’s topic: “Why Is Gay Pride Important to You?” We took your calls!! Some special guests called in also and are sprinkled throughout this podcast. Lizzy the Lezzy – http://www.myspace.com/ruthselwyn Gay Carrington – http://www.youtube.com/user/GayCarrington Jamesson – http://www.myspace.com/jamesson JHermBaby – http://www.youtube.com/user/jhermbaby Italian Stallionette – http://www.youtube.com/user/ItalianStallionette Kentucky Lightening!!!! http://www.myspace.com/sarah_hyland and Carla Jean Johnson Deputy Marriage […]
Anti-gay N.C. church members indicted on felony kidnapping, assault against gay man
Published: December 10, 2014 in News Updated: December 10, 2014 at 12:29 pm ENGAGE: Write a letter to the editor CHARLOTTE, N.C. - Five members of an anti-LGBT church in Spindale, N.C., were indicted on several felony charges this week, following a complaint lodged by a young gay man who says church members kidnapped him and assaulted him because of his sexual orientation. A grand jury indicted Justin Brock Covington, Brooke McFadden Covington, Robert Louis Walker Jr. and Adam Christopher Bartley on second degree kidnapping and simple assault charges.
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In honor of National Coming Out Day (October 11, 2010), we at Affirmations would like to take a moment to reflect on the continuous benefits to the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community (LGBT) brought about since Michigan’s recently passed smoke free law has been implemented.
During the coming out process, many people seek to connect with the LGBT community for support, encouragement, networking and socializing. It is wonderful for the LGBT community to now socialize and connect at bars and restaurants in Michigan without facing the dangers of second hand smoke.
Historically, statistics have shown that the LGBT community is 50% more likely to start and/or continue smoking compared to its straight counterpart. We are hopeful …
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In honor of National Coming Out Day (October 11, 2010), we at Affirmations would like to take a moment to reflect on the continuous benefits to the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community (LGBT) brought about since Michigan’s recently passed smoke free law has been implemented.
During the coming out process, many people seek to connect with the LGBT community for support, encouragement, networking and socializing. It is wonderful for the LGBT community to now socialize and connect at bars and restaurants in Michigan without facing the dangers of second hand smoke.
Historically, statistics have shown that the LGBT community is 50% more likely to start and/or continue smoking compared to its straight counterpart. We are hopeful …
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Best Gay Phoenix Arizona Restaurants
These are some of the best places to eat in the Phoenix area gay or not but the fact these places are very gay friendly and in some cases male only makes them even that much better. #1 Harley’s Italian Bistro Traditional Italian fare 4221 N 7th Ave , Phoenix, AZ #2 Fez Food, drinks, […]
Nick Jonas proud to play gay MMA fighter Nate Kulina on DirecTV's 'Kingdom'
Nick Jonas, famous as one third of former boyband The Jonas Brothers and now a solo artist and actor, spoke with Buzzfeed last night about the reveal of his character Nate Kulina's sexuality on the DirecTV mixed martial arts drama Kingdom and his feelings about the role. Kingdom's season finale aired last night and saw Nate getting rejected from a gay bar for being intoxicated and drunkenly hooking up with another male patron in an alley. Previous episodes of the series, which has already been renewed for two more 10-episode seasons, hinted at Nate being gay and the struggle he has to reconicle his sexuality with his identity as a fighter.
?Everyone at Kingdom was really transparent about the character and some of the things the character would go through. And in my prep work, I wanted to be aware so I could properly tell this story," Jonas said. "?The attitude I take in the stories I want to share and my personal life and my view is that I think we?re in a time where there?s a new progression. For all people of all walks of life to accept all people ? I?d be thrilled if I?m any part of that.?
?I have trust in Byron and the writing team to tell these stories in a really honest and grounded way and it?s my responsibility as an actor to be that person and tell those stories the best I can,? Jonas said of Nate's story going forward. ?So, absolutely I will do all I need to do. I think it would be ideal if Nate could just live in his truth and be exactly who he needs to be and be OK with it, but the reality is that, for him specifically, it?s tough. There?s a journey he has to go on, and I hold that with a lot of responsibility and I?m thrilled to get to tell this story.?
?Just because we?ve seen a truth about Nate doesn?t mean anyone else has,? show creator Byron Balasco added. ?The bigger issue for Nate is not what everybody else will think but his perception of what everybody else is going to think. All of our characters are fighting for survival, fighting to understand who they are, fighting to understand their significance in the world. You always think everybody is thinking about you all the time, but the truth is, nobody?s thinking about you ? period. Your sexuality isn?t as earth shattering to the other guy in the gym as you think it is, but it?s scary to actually find out that answer.?
Kingdom will return with new episodes in 2015. Read the full piece at Buzzfeed.
December 11, 2014
Issues:
Entertainment,
Television
Tags:
Kingdom,
Nick Jonas
?Everyone at Kingdom was really transparent about the character and some of the things the character would go through. And in my prep work, I wanted to be aware so I could properly tell this story," Jonas said. "?The attitude I take in the stories I want to share and my personal life and my view is that I think we?re in a time where there?s a new progression. For all people of all walks of life to accept all people ? I?d be thrilled if I?m any part of that.?
?I have trust in Byron and the writing team to tell these stories in a really honest and grounded way and it?s my responsibility as an actor to be that person and tell those stories the best I can,? Jonas said of Nate's story going forward. ?So, absolutely I will do all I need to do. I think it would be ideal if Nate could just live in his truth and be exactly who he needs to be and be OK with it, but the reality is that, for him specifically, it?s tough. There?s a journey he has to go on, and I hold that with a lot of responsibility and I?m thrilled to get to tell this story.?
?Just because we?ve seen a truth about Nate doesn?t mean anyone else has,? show creator Byron Balasco added. ?The bigger issue for Nate is not what everybody else will think but his perception of what everybody else is going to think. All of our characters are fighting for survival, fighting to understand who they are, fighting to understand their significance in the world. You always think everybody is thinking about you all the time, but the truth is, nobody?s thinking about you ? period. Your sexuality isn?t as earth shattering to the other guy in the gym as you think it is, but it?s scary to actually find out that answer.?
Kingdom will return with new episodes in 2015. Read the full piece at Buzzfeed.
December 11, 2014
Issues:
Entertainment,
Television
Tags:
Kingdom,
Nick Jonas
Knight at the Movies: The Imitation Game; Exodus; film notes
The oddly handsome Benedict Cumberbatch doesn't look like other film stars and he doesn't act like them, either. His richly resonant, caramel-coated voice is quickly identifiable in the wide range of roles that he has essayed the past few years even when it's been electronically altered, as it is for Smaug the dragon in The Hobbit movies . Sometimes, the parts haven't fit being miscast in August: Osage County, for starters but Cumberbatch always makes an impression. When you're hot, you're hot, and when it comes to character movie actors, Cumberbatch is on fire.
Thursday, December 11, 2014
(81) AUDIO: Eva Longoria Lies About Eating Cheetos On Twitter
New mini-podcast, can you believe it?! Haven’t posted in a very long WHILE but had to say something about some of the things we have seen on our Twitter timeline NAMELY Eva Longoria LYING about eating Cheetos! Miss you all terribly and not sure when there will be another podcast but someone had to tackle […]
What the fuck is happening in America's malls?
I hate to shop. Really - I hate it. (That's what I have a girlfriend for.) But today, I had some time to kill in between appointments so I went in looking for something to wear to a gay PRIDE event this coming weekend. I walked in and the first thing I saw was this grown-ass woman riding past me on an electric giraffe: I know it's been a while since I've gone to the mall but can someone please tell me when this became a thing?
(15B) Freestyle Friday Nostalgia Hour at SpiceNYC
lost a lot of sound quality when converted to mp3 but here goes … There’s A Party Going On – Nayobe You’ll Never Find Another Love - Take It While It’s Hot – Sweet Sensation Dancing On The Fire – India Give Me Back My Heart – Corina I Remember What You Like – Jenny […]
The Dildo Diaries: The Follow Up
If you still haven't checked it out, I highly recommend heading over to the site (newlovecreations.com) if nothing else check out the hot models they have that are actually wearing the InJoyUs �. Continue reading →
HRC: Addressing hate crimes
WASHINGTON DC - Yesterday, the Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) released its annual Hate Crime Statistics for 2013, including for the first time statistics for hate crimes reported based on gender identity.
HRC?s guide shows state-level advocates what their state legislatures must do to fully address the problem of hate crimes.
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HRC?s guide shows state-level advocates what their state legislatures must do to fully address the problem of hate crimes.
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Wednesday, December 10, 2014
(27) The Complete Guide to Loosening Uranus
The Shadow Knows, Melissa’s Mash-Up Submission, Listener Call In, Polygamists, Summer Diets, Gym Observations, Kardashian Meaninglessnesses, Fantasies, Subconscious Seriousness and more … Music Featured by: The Trucks http://www.myspace.com/thetrucks
Special Cover Series: An Average Tuesday for LGBTs
You could be next on our hourly digital cover. Find out how.
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(63) Stop the Insanity! w/Susan Powter
Out Three-time New York Times best-selling author and creator of the ?Stop the Insanity!? movement, Susan Powter, like you’ve never heard her before. We talk Wellness, Radical Feminism, Lesbian Culture, her new book The Politics of Stupid and more … http://susanpowteronline.com ____________________________ PS. The Trevor Project crisis and suicide prevention for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender […]
Federal Judge in Kansas Strikes Down State?s Ban on Marriage for Same-Sex Couples
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CONTACT: 212-549-2666, media@aclu.org
KANSAS CITY, KANSAS ? Kansas Federal Court Judge Daniel Crabtree today overturned the state's ban on marriage for same-sex couples. The decision strikes down the 2005 Kansas Marriage Amendment that defines marriage as a "civil contract between one man and one woman only" in the Kansas Constitution, declaring any other definition of marriage as void. The ruling is temporarily stayed, putting the effect of the ruling on hold until November 11.
"We are immensely pleased that the freedom to marry has finally come to Kansas," said Susan Estes, President of the Board of the ACLU of Kansas. "Today's decision serves as proof that Kansans, like the majority of Americans, believe same-sex couples and their families should be treated just like any other loving family."
The ruling came in Marie, et al., v. Moser, et al., a lawsuit filed October 10, 2014 by the American Civil Liberties Union of Kansas on behalf of two lesbian couples denied marriage licenses in Douglas and Sedgwick counties. Even though binding precedent from the Tenth Circuit, which includes Kansas, has already held that excluding same-sex couples from marriage is unconstitutional, Kansas state officials have continued to enforce Kansas's marriage ban and defend the ban in court.
"Today's victory adds to the tremendous momentum toward full marriage equality to which our country has been building in the past year and, especially, within the past few weeks," said Doug Bonney, Legal Director of the ACLU of Kansas. "The ACLU of Kansas will remain vigilant in opposition to any discriminatory measures put forth to chip away at equal treatment for same-sex couples moving forward."
Court documents for Marie, et al., v. Moser, et al., are available at www.scribd.com/doc/245530706/2-14-cv-02518-29-ORDER. For more information about the ACLU of Kansas visit www.aclukansas.org.
CONTACT: 212-549-2666, media@aclu.org
KANSAS CITY, KANSAS ? Kansas Federal Court Judge Daniel Crabtree today overturned the state's ban on marriage for same-sex couples. The decision strikes down the 2005 Kansas Marriage Amendment that defines marriage as a "civil contract between one man and one woman only" in the Kansas Constitution, declaring any other definition of marriage as void. The ruling is temporarily stayed, putting the effect of the ruling on hold until November 11.
"We are immensely pleased that the freedom to marry has finally come to Kansas," said Susan Estes, President of the Board of the ACLU of Kansas. "Today's decision serves as proof that Kansans, like the majority of Americans, believe same-sex couples and their families should be treated just like any other loving family."
The ruling came in Marie, et al., v. Moser, et al., a lawsuit filed October 10, 2014 by the American Civil Liberties Union of Kansas on behalf of two lesbian couples denied marriage licenses in Douglas and Sedgwick counties. Even though binding precedent from the Tenth Circuit, which includes Kansas, has already held that excluding same-sex couples from marriage is unconstitutional, Kansas state officials have continued to enforce Kansas's marriage ban and defend the ban in court.
"Today's victory adds to the tremendous momentum toward full marriage equality to which our country has been building in the past year and, especially, within the past few weeks," said Doug Bonney, Legal Director of the ACLU of Kansas. "The ACLU of Kansas will remain vigilant in opposition to any discriminatory measures put forth to chip away at equal treatment for same-sex couples moving forward."
Court documents for Marie, et al., v. Moser, et al., are available at www.scribd.com/doc/245530706/2-14-cv-02518-29-ORDER. For more information about the ACLU of Kansas visit www.aclukansas.org.
(53) Skeleton Closet Confessions
8 minute Mash-up, Then Nikki Guest Hosts and says it’s show 54 but don’t listen to her it’s #53; ate mail from God?/Yeshua; Aimless feminists; and answer listener inquiries from show 52 re: (Sandi’s) run in with a past flame’s ex-hubby a few weeks ago and we both confess a few skeletons in our closets […]
Thomson: Prentice's apology one thing, cleanup another
At the legislature Thursday, Premier Jim Prentice announces his government is putting on hold a bill that legislates on gay-straight alliances in schools. Critics say the bill institutionalizes discrimination of homosexuals.
Tuesday, December 9, 2014
(10) Back From Hiatus
Thanks Nadya, for Babkas Bikini Wax Messages, Back from Techno-challenges, Child Abusers, Vibrating i-Phones, Pseudo-Lesbians have babies, Joe Walsh as a cure for insomnia, Combi-Christ for adults, Hilary for president, but only because she has a vagina.
Zayn Malik Shirtless Again
Yet another photo of Zayn Malik Shirtless. People keep asking me for them...
Gay newsView Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
Gay newsView Australian Queer News on the web at Gay News Blog
Out Country Singer Ty Herndon Makes First Public Appearance With Boyfriend
'This is monumental for both of us,' Herndon said at the Trevor Live L.A. benefit on Sunday.
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Lesbian Commercials
My friend Kelly sent these great commercials to me recently and I thought you'd all appreciate them...
(10) Back From Hiatus
Thanks Nadya, for Babkas Bikini Wax Messages, Back from Techno-challenges, Child Abusers, Vibrating i-Phones, Pseudo-Lesbians have babies, Joe Walsh as a cure for insomnia, Combi-Christ for adults, Hilary for president, but only because she has a vagina.
Monday, December 8, 2014
(10) Back From Hiatus
Thanks Nadya, for Babkas Bikini Wax Messages, Back from Techno-challenges, Child Abusers, Vibrating i-Phones, Pseudo-Lesbians have babies, Joe Walsh as a cure for insomnia, Combi-Christ for adults, Hilary for president, but only because she has a vagina.
Hotels in Phoenix Arizona that are Gay Friendly
This is a list of gay friendly hotels in the phoenix Arizona area that cater to gay males and couples looking to spend a night relaxing or partying. Rainbow Casita Tropical gay guest house retreat Central Phoenix – 2707 N 20th Ave , Phoenix, AZ ZenYard Guest House Zen out 830 E Maryland Ave , […]
Curve Auction :: Dani Campbell + the Real L Word Ladies
FW: Curve Magazine Auction: Lunch with Dani Campbell ++ EDEN Party with THE REAL L WORLD CAST!Exclusive eBay Curve Auction....
This is a chance of a lifetime!
Hang out with the smoking hot Curve magazine cover girl... lesbian firefighter DANI CAMPBELL from MTV's A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila!
Now's your chance to hang out with Dani Campbell in San Francisco during Pride Weekend (June 26-27, 2010)
If you are the highest bidder, you and a friend will party with Dani Campbell and the Curve magazine editors in San Francisco during Pride Weekend!
Here's what's included:
? Lunch for you and a friend with Dani Campbell (Saturday, June 26th) in San Francisco
? Two (2) ALL-ACCESS general admission passes to EDEN - All Women, All Weekend.
EDEN: The official women's events at San Francisco Pride: with Dani Campbell and cast members from Showtime's new series, The Real L Word.
Include general admission passes to:
EDEN Welcome Party (Thursday, June 24th)
Lesbian Comedy Show (Friday, June 25th)
Tease Dance Party (Friday, June 25th)
EDEN Signature Dance party (Saturday, June 26th)
Good Times after party in Oakland (Sunday, June 27th)
? One (1) autographed copy of Dani's Curve magazine cover
? One (1) official limited edition Curve magazine 20th Anniversary Tee Shirt
? Two (2) Grandstand tickets for at San Francisco?s Pride Parade (Saturday, June 26th)
FW: Curve Magazine Auction: Lunch with Dani Campbell ++ EDEN Party with THE REAL L WORLD CAST!
*** NOTE: This package does not include hotel, air travel or transportation.
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ABOUT EDEN:SIX MONTHS in the making...
Movement Productions and Curve Magazine present in conjunction with Olivia Travel, BoiBlue Events and FullCircle Events
The 1st ANNUAL All Women, All Weekend Pride Event
EDEN is the 1st Annual All Women, All Weekend San Francisco Pride Event co-produced by Movement Productions and Curve Magazine in conjunction with Olivia Travel, BoiBlue Events and FullCircle Events. Welcome to four days of non-stop parties, women and more. For information on ticket prices please click here (http://edensf.eventbrite.com/)
THURSDAY - June 24tn
EDEN Welcome Party
Parc55, SF
7pm-9pm
Only available to ALL ACCESS and ALL ACCESS VIP Ticket Holders
FRIDAY - June 25th
EDEN Comedy Show co-sponsored by Olivia Travel
Parc55, SF
7pm-9pm
Featured Comedians: Dana Goldberg, Sandra Valls, Julie Goldman, Gina Yashere
FRIDAY - June 25th
TEASE
Suite 181
181 Eddy, SF
9pm-3am
Featured DJs: DJ Olga T, DJ C-L.A. DJ Calalo, DJ Campbell, DJ Rockaway
Hosted by: Aysha of Flourish and Miranda of Afterglow
2 Floors
3 Dancefloors
5 DJs
Gorgeous, Hosted VIP areas
Bottle Service (VIP only)
Hot Go-Gos
Hotter Celesbians
SATURDAY - June 26th
EDEN
Taste the Forbidden Fruit
434 Brannan, SF
Inside the historic Olivia Travel Building, 3rd Floor
9pm-3am
Featured DJs: DJ Olga T, DJ Ms. Jackson, DJ Rockaway
Be transported into the Garden of Eden with 180 degree views overlooking the city, Movement Productions and FullCircle Events have created San Francisco's very own Eden inside the historic Olivia Travel building. Come taste of the Forbidden Fruit.
The Flyest Music
Hot Go-Gos
Drink Specials
Meet our Comedians
Special Guest Celesbians from THE REAL L WORD
Hosted VIP section
Hosted Bottle Service
Red Carpet
Valet Parking
SUNDAY - June 27th
GOOD TIMES
The Den, Oakland
7pm-midnight
Featured DJs: DJ Olga T, DJ Rapture, DJ Ryan, DJ Trinity, DJ Jacatac
End your party weekend right at one of the most popular All Women's event in the Bay, GOOD TIMES in the city with the largest lesbian population in the country, Oakland! GOOD TIMES is hosted at one of the most beautifully appointed venues in Oakland, The Den. Right across from the 17th street Bart, it takes less than 20 minutes to Bart over from the city and trust it is well worth the trip!
To bid, go here: http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=300434151013&ssPageName=ADME:B:EF:US:1123
This is a chance of a lifetime!
Hang out with the smoking hot Curve magazine cover girl... lesbian firefighter DANI CAMPBELL from MTV's A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila!
Now's your chance to hang out with Dani Campbell in San Francisco during Pride Weekend (June 26-27, 2010)
If you are the highest bidder, you and a friend will party with Dani Campbell and the Curve magazine editors in San Francisco during Pride Weekend!
Here's what's included:
? Lunch for you and a friend with Dani Campbell (Saturday, June 26th) in San Francisco
? Two (2) ALL-ACCESS general admission passes to EDEN - All Women, All Weekend.
EDEN: The official women's events at San Francisco Pride: with Dani Campbell and cast members from Showtime's new series, The Real L Word.
Include general admission passes to:
EDEN Welcome Party (Thursday, June 24th)
Lesbian Comedy Show (Friday, June 25th)
Tease Dance Party (Friday, June 25th)
EDEN Signature Dance party (Saturday, June 26th)
Good Times after party in Oakland (Sunday, June 27th)
? One (1) autographed copy of Dani's Curve magazine cover
? One (1) official limited edition Curve magazine 20th Anniversary Tee Shirt
? Two (2) Grandstand tickets for at San Francisco?s Pride Parade (Saturday, June 26th)
FW: Curve Magazine Auction: Lunch with Dani Campbell ++ EDEN Party with THE REAL L WORLD CAST!
*** NOTE: This package does not include hotel, air travel or transportation.
????????
ABOUT EDEN:SIX MONTHS in the making...
Movement Productions and Curve Magazine present in conjunction with Olivia Travel, BoiBlue Events and FullCircle Events
The 1st ANNUAL All Women, All Weekend Pride Event
EDEN is the 1st Annual All Women, All Weekend San Francisco Pride Event co-produced by Movement Productions and Curve Magazine in conjunction with Olivia Travel, BoiBlue Events and FullCircle Events. Welcome to four days of non-stop parties, women and more. For information on ticket prices please click here (http://edensf.eventbrite.com/)
THURSDAY - June 24tn
EDEN Welcome Party
Parc55, SF
7pm-9pm
Only available to ALL ACCESS and ALL ACCESS VIP Ticket Holders
FRIDAY - June 25th
EDEN Comedy Show co-sponsored by Olivia Travel
Parc55, SF
7pm-9pm
Featured Comedians: Dana Goldberg, Sandra Valls, Julie Goldman, Gina Yashere
FRIDAY - June 25th
TEASE
Suite 181
181 Eddy, SF
9pm-3am
Featured DJs: DJ Olga T, DJ C-L.A. DJ Calalo, DJ Campbell, DJ Rockaway
Hosted by: Aysha of Flourish and Miranda of Afterglow
2 Floors
3 Dancefloors
5 DJs
Gorgeous, Hosted VIP areas
Bottle Service (VIP only)
Hot Go-Gos
Hotter Celesbians
SATURDAY - June 26th
EDEN
Taste the Forbidden Fruit
434 Brannan, SF
Inside the historic Olivia Travel Building, 3rd Floor
9pm-3am
Featured DJs: DJ Olga T, DJ Ms. Jackson, DJ Rockaway
Be transported into the Garden of Eden with 180 degree views overlooking the city, Movement Productions and FullCircle Events have created San Francisco's very own Eden inside the historic Olivia Travel building. Come taste of the Forbidden Fruit.
The Flyest Music
Hot Go-Gos
Drink Specials
Meet our Comedians
Special Guest Celesbians from THE REAL L WORD
Hosted VIP section
Hosted Bottle Service
Red Carpet
Valet Parking
SUNDAY - June 27th
GOOD TIMES
The Den, Oakland
7pm-midnight
Featured DJs: DJ Olga T, DJ Rapture, DJ Ryan, DJ Trinity, DJ Jacatac
End your party weekend right at one of the most popular All Women's event in the Bay, GOOD TIMES in the city with the largest lesbian population in the country, Oakland! GOOD TIMES is hosted at one of the most beautifully appointed venues in Oakland, The Den. Right across from the 17th street Bart, it takes less than 20 minutes to Bart over from the city and trust it is well worth the trip!
To bid, go here: http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&item=300434151013&ssPageName=ADME:B:EF:US:1123
Marine Reservist questions demobilization over HIV status
San Diego, CA – Marine Reservist Sgt Timothy Holmberg is questioning his recent demobilization by Marine Fighter Attack Training Squadron 101 (VMFAT 101). Holmberg recently volunteered for active duty service to support the Miramar based training squadron in its mission to train pilots for service in Iraq and Afghanistan. The squadron trains pilots to fly the F/A-18 Hornet in combat support roles and Holmberg has over 20 years experience maintaining the aircraft and its systems.
This would have been Holmberg’s second mobilization tour with the squadron, but it was cut short by the unit’s commanding officer. “I reported as ordered for duty and when I arrived at the squadron was told to stop checking in by the unit Sgt Maj. He indicat…
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This would have been Holmberg’s second mobilization tour with the squadron, but it was cut short by the unit’s commanding officer. “I reported as ordered for duty and when I arrived at the squadron was told to stop checking in by the unit Sgt Maj. He indicat…
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Business Spotlight: Casa Del Encanto Interiors
145 W. Washington Street
San Diego, CA 92103
619-295-7400
www.casadelencanto.net
Casa Del Encanto Interiors is a full service Interior Design firm as well as a retail showroom for gifts, accessories, furnishings, dried floral arrangements, lighting, antiques, candles, tabletop and countless other things.
The business was started in 1985 in Encanto Park, Phoenix, Arizona by Luis Corona. Luis, originally born in Mexico, was the son of a gifted mother that had a passion for nature and beauty. Luis arrived in San Diego in the late 60’s and had moved to Phoenix in 1982 to pursue his career in interiors. He landed a position with an interior design firm and floral shop in Scottsdale, AZ. Then, just 3 years later he founded Casa Del Encanto. Over th…
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San Diego, CA 92103
619-295-7400
www.casadelencanto.net
Casa Del Encanto Interiors is a full service Interior Design firm as well as a retail showroom for gifts, accessories, furnishings, dried floral arrangements, lighting, antiques, candles, tabletop and countless other things.
The business was started in 1985 in Encanto Park, Phoenix, Arizona by Luis Corona. Luis, originally born in Mexico, was the son of a gifted mother that had a passion for nature and beauty. Luis arrived in San Diego in the late 60’s and had moved to Phoenix in 1982 to pursue his career in interiors. He landed a position with an interior design firm and floral shop in Scottsdale, AZ. Then, just 3 years later he founded Casa Del Encanto. Over th…
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Sunday, December 7, 2014
Vaccinate Illinois Week: CDPH offers flu vaccine clinics
CHICAGO -The Chicago Department of Public Health CDPH is once again teaming up with health departments and healthcare organizations throughout Illinois to encourage residents to get a flu shot during Vaccinate Illinois Week VIW , December 7 through 13. VIW is a statewide observance focused on educating the public about the importance of getting a flu vaccine during the fall and winter months. VIW grew out of Vaccinate Chicago week, started by CDPH in 2012.
(54) Potty Training & Stalkers
Opening song by Wendy Ho, widely known and beloved in the community and gay rights supporter. To purchase more of Wendy Ho’s music go here: http://www.wendyho.net Friend Wendy on Myspace: http://www.myspace.com/wendyho (Don’t listen to S, it’s show 54 not 55, it’s 54) A Smother’s love, Getting scammed for juice, Why does Heide http://theheideshow.podomatic.com say lesbians […]
PHOTOS: T.R. Knight Manages a Chain Restaurant
The out Emmy nominee tackles a gay role in off-Broadway's Pocatello, a world premiere by out playwright and MacArthur 'genius' Samuel D. Hunter.
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Playing my part in making life for fellow LGBT countryfolk bearable.
The State-sanctioned homophobia and transphobia in Malaysia, my country of origin, is breaking my heart. What can I do as a currently overseas citizen to make things better for my fellow LGBT folk back in Malaysia, particularly in raising awareness of the issue internationally? I left Malaysia for various reasons, but one core reason was escaping the various persecutions and micro/macro-aggressions I felt for who I am. Most of this has to do with race (my parents are Bangladeshi migrants) and citizenship/residency, but I also felt that I wouldn't be safe exploring my sexuality in a country that so deeply vilifies sexuality that "sexy" is a slur and politicians get run out of Parliament for what they wear (or don't) in their sleep. It took me until I had been in Australia for a few years that I felt safe and able to explore my sexuality and gender without having to look behind my back to see if I will get screwed over by the Malaysian Government. I have had friends and acquaintances who cannot go back to Malaysia because they will face persecution, and one person whose Government scholarship was revoked and who was forced to come back home because her ex outed her as a trans woman.
I am trying to get the word out about the situation in Malaysia, especially this ridiculous propaganda musical, but I am facing a few roadblocks:
1. I am overseas and am not likely to return to Malaysia anytime soon, so my ability to organise something back home is limited. If I did try to do something in Malaysia, I'd be dismissed as a "foreign Zionist agent" of some fashion.
2. Incorporated into the musical is a plot point about how LGBT people who protest are being paid a handsome sum by the Opposition party and are merely reacting against the advice of "reasonable Malay Muslims". This makes any show of protest difficult to be taken seriously - especially when the main sexuality rights event in the country gets shut down for "threatening to disrupt public order" - pretty much the main excuse for arresting any protestor ever.
3. I am trying to get the word out in the Bay Area (where I live right now), especially with the Queer People of Color circles I am heavily involved with. Not many people have really picked up on this though - most people get stuck on "a musical about anti-gay sentiment! ISN'T THAT IRONIC" and don't move on from there. Also it seems that Malaysia doesn't quite have the White/Western Savior Cred of places like Uganda or India, where people seem to care more about LGBT issues there.
4. Even when there are people that DO care, I'm at a loss for what they could do. Petitions are pointless, because the Malaysian Government isn't going to pay attention (the whole paid-by-the-Opposition thing). International attention would be handy, but then it becomes "Foreign Zionist Agents". Tying this in to the United Nations may be useful, but I'm sure there will be a stack of countries who will take Malaysia's side.
5. People often bring up voting, but Malaysia has arcane voting laws that make it near impossible for overseas residents to vote. I technically am allowed to vote overseas because I'm an international student (one of the few classes of overseas residents allowed to vote), but I have to register in Malaysia first - not overseas. Gah! (Besides, it's not like there is anyone to vote for in my district that isn't Ruling Party, and there's a lot of electoral fraud.)
I want Malaysians to see that the so-called deviants are people like everyone else, diverse and unique and part of their community, and not a danger or scrounge to society. My current idea is to organise a performance of monologues, ala Yoni ki Baat (semi self link) or The Vagina Monologues, about Malaysians dealing with the stigmatization of sexuality. Not just in terms of being LGBT, but also slut-shaming, ageism against young people, and misogyny - one does not have to do much to be branded a sexual deviant in Malaysia. I have been and am currently involved in these sorts of This requires being back in Malaysia for a substantial amount of time, which I am not able to do right now. I'm also reminded of how the Vagina Monologues are banned in Malaysia and how anything of this nature would have to be underground...which then leads to the issue of preaching to the choir, the people who already know that LGBT people are not evil...rather than the people who will be affected by this propaganda. Something along the lines of the Pussy Riot worldwide protests would be awesome, but I'm not sure how to get people to care.
Any ideas of what I can do to get international support? I'm reaching out super slowly, one person at a time, but I really don't want Malaysia to get away with it and continue being an unsafe hostile space for people like me.
I am trying to get the word out about the situation in Malaysia, especially this ridiculous propaganda musical, but I am facing a few roadblocks:
1. I am overseas and am not likely to return to Malaysia anytime soon, so my ability to organise something back home is limited. If I did try to do something in Malaysia, I'd be dismissed as a "foreign Zionist agent" of some fashion.
2. Incorporated into the musical is a plot point about how LGBT people who protest are being paid a handsome sum by the Opposition party and are merely reacting against the advice of "reasonable Malay Muslims". This makes any show of protest difficult to be taken seriously - especially when the main sexuality rights event in the country gets shut down for "threatening to disrupt public order" - pretty much the main excuse for arresting any protestor ever.
3. I am trying to get the word out in the Bay Area (where I live right now), especially with the Queer People of Color circles I am heavily involved with. Not many people have really picked up on this though - most people get stuck on "a musical about anti-gay sentiment! ISN'T THAT IRONIC" and don't move on from there. Also it seems that Malaysia doesn't quite have the White/Western Savior Cred of places like Uganda or India, where people seem to care more about LGBT issues there.
4. Even when there are people that DO care, I'm at a loss for what they could do. Petitions are pointless, because the Malaysian Government isn't going to pay attention (the whole paid-by-the-Opposition thing). International attention would be handy, but then it becomes "Foreign Zionist Agents". Tying this in to the United Nations may be useful, but I'm sure there will be a stack of countries who will take Malaysia's side.
5. People often bring up voting, but Malaysia has arcane voting laws that make it near impossible for overseas residents to vote. I technically am allowed to vote overseas because I'm an international student (one of the few classes of overseas residents allowed to vote), but I have to register in Malaysia first - not overseas. Gah! (Besides, it's not like there is anyone to vote for in my district that isn't Ruling Party, and there's a lot of electoral fraud.)
I want Malaysians to see that the so-called deviants are people like everyone else, diverse and unique and part of their community, and not a danger or scrounge to society. My current idea is to organise a performance of monologues, ala Yoni ki Baat (semi self link) or The Vagina Monologues, about Malaysians dealing with the stigmatization of sexuality. Not just in terms of being LGBT, but also slut-shaming, ageism against young people, and misogyny - one does not have to do much to be branded a sexual deviant in Malaysia. I have been and am currently involved in these sorts of This requires being back in Malaysia for a substantial amount of time, which I am not able to do right now. I'm also reminded of how the Vagina Monologues are banned in Malaysia and how anything of this nature would have to be underground...which then leads to the issue of preaching to the choir, the people who already know that LGBT people are not evil...rather than the people who will be affected by this propaganda. Something along the lines of the Pussy Riot worldwide protests would be awesome, but I'm not sure how to get people to care.
Any ideas of what I can do to get international support? I'm reaching out super slowly, one person at a time, but I really don't want Malaysia to get away with it and continue being an unsafe hostile space for people like me.
(36) Bernie & LINDSAY the Lezzy?
Bernie, Isaac, LINDSAY the Lezzy Trash-Talk, to Drill or Not to Drill, Hydrogen Cars, 12 Steppin’ Gift Bags, Word of the Day – Tourniquette, Why Don’t they Fall? Not Even Science Can Conclude and More Bernie … This show is dedicated to the late great, Bernie Mac.
Rejected Craigslist Roommate = Possible Date?
My housemates and I interviewed several people yesterday for a new roommate. We chose the person whose move-in schedule logistically worked best. However, we got along with all of the interviewees surprisingly well; each one stayed and chatted for at least an hour.
I especially got along with two people, and I'd like to contact them again to see if they want to get together as friends, or - especially one of them - as a date. How inappropriate is this? Would you feel flattered or stalked if someone who didn't choose you as a roommate asked you out? Probably relevant details: I am a queer/lesbian woman. This is in San Francisco. The one person I want to "get to know" more as a friend is also a queer woman. The person I really want to ask on a date is a trans* guy. Both mentioned during the interviews that they are single.
I especially got along with two people, and I'd like to contact them again to see if they want to get together as friends, or - especially one of them - as a date. How inappropriate is this? Would you feel flattered or stalked if someone who didn't choose you as a roommate asked you out? Probably relevant details: I am a queer/lesbian woman. This is in San Francisco. The one person I want to "get to know" more as a friend is also a queer woman. The person I really want to ask on a date is a trans* guy. Both mentioned during the interviews that they are single.
ADOPT ME! Take Petey home!
Petey is a White and Cream-colored Terrier. He is 4 years old and has been neutered.
How I arrived
I was brought in by a Good Samaritan.
At SDHS
My doctors have helped to care for me, as I was injured when I first arrived.
Why I am the one for you
My Personality Color Code is Purple; meaning I'm Happy - Go - Lucky...Carefree...Engaging...Adaptive...and Cheerful! I would do well in a variety of homes as I really enjoy human attention.
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Petey is a White and Cream-colored Terrier. He is 4 years old and has been neutered.
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How I arrived
I was brought in by a Good Samaritan.
At SDHS
My doctors have helped to care for me, as I was injured when I first arrived.
Why I am the one for you
My Personality Color Code is Purple; meaning I'm Happy - Go - Lucky...Carefree...Engaging...Adaptive...and Cheerful! I would do well in a variety of homes as I really enjoy human attention.
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Petey is a White and Cream-colored Terrier. He is 4 years old and has been neutered.
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Gay Music Director Fired for Engagement Files Discrimination Claim
An Illinois music director who was fired after announcing his engagement to a man has filed a discrimination complaint.
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Saturday, December 6, 2014
Kate McKinnon is ****ing Hilarious!
The comical genius Kate McKinnon is at it again--making us laugh our asses off. Recently, she was part of a skit about the BP oil spill (with the UBC Theater). The skit made its way to the Rachel Maddow Show. If you haven't seen it, you must! Go Kate! Keep on keeping on. We need humor in light of the unstoppable awfulness that is happening down south.
Comments from the Web
Kenny Kardashian says:
I, too, served in the Navy and also swore the same oath, not really knowing what lay ahead. While for most people, being gay is dangerous I was lucky to experience minimal discrimination and teasing. However, I was not immune from such teasing. Everyone at my shore duty facility at Naval Air Staton North Island in San Diego knew I was gay and while I made a risky move, when people asked, I told. However, there was no one running to the officer in charge. Most the people that asked me said they were “cool with it”, or others simply just knew.
I am not the most butch guy in the world, but my feminine mannerisms and the way I was did catch the attention of some few people in leadership chain of command around me. They woul…
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I, too, served in the Navy and also swore the same oath, not really knowing what lay ahead. While for most people, being gay is dangerous I was lucky to experience minimal discrimination and teasing. However, I was not immune from such teasing. Everyone at my shore duty facility at Naval Air Staton North Island in San Diego knew I was gay and while I made a risky move, when people asked, I told. However, there was no one running to the officer in charge. Most the people that asked me said they were “cool with it”, or others simply just knew.
I am not the most butch guy in the world, but my feminine mannerisms and the way I was did catch the attention of some few people in leadership chain of command around me. They woul…
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Must-See LGBT TV 11/30 - 12/6: Documentary 'The Last One' premieres and more!
Grab the remote, set your DVR or queue up your streaming service of choice! GLAAD is bringing you the highlights in LGBT on TV this week. Check back every Sunday for up-to-date coverage in LGBT-inclusive programming on TV.
In honor of the 26th World AIDS Day, Showtime will premiere the documentary The Last One on December 1. The 70-minute documentary chronicles the history of The NAMES Project Foundation's AIDS Memorial Quilt using archival footage, interviews with the Quilt's founder Cleve Jones, "Hand Maiden of the Quilt" Gert McMullin and other early volunteers and panel makers to talk about the creation of the Quilt, giving hope and fighting back against a system that refused to act. The Last One: Monday, 8:30pm on Showtime.
This week, America's Next Top Model wraps up the 21st cycle and names a winner. This season saw the return of Miss J as a judge and included two out contestants, Will and Romeo. Will is still in the running to become the winner. America's Next Top Model: Friday, 9pm on CW.
Jon Stewart hosts the three hour A Tribute to Bruce Springsteen concert with a number of musicians covering Springsteen's hits. Elton John will be performing "Streets of Philadelphia." A Tribute to Bruce Springsteen: Friday, 9pm on PBS.
For a breakdown of LGBT-inclusive shows airing every week, check out our nightly listings below:
Sunday November 30: Mulaney (7:30pm, FOX); Brooklyn Nine-Nine (8:30pm, FOX); Revenge (10pm, ABC)
Monday: The Last One (8:30pm, Showtime); Major Crimes (9pm, TNT)
Tuesday: The Flash (8pm, CW); Marry Me (9pm, NBC)
Wednesday: Modern Family (9pm, ABC); Red Band Society (9pm, FOX); Nashville (10pm, ABC)
Thursday: White Collar (9pm, USA); The McCarthys (9:30pm, CBS)
Friday: America's Next Top Model (9pm, CW); A Tribute to Bruce Springsteen (9pm, PBS)
Saturday: The Graham Norton Show (10pm, BBC America)
On daytime,�check your local listings for information about�Ellen,�The Talk�(CBS), The Gossip Table (VH1), The View (ABC) and�The Chew�(ABC). Soap operas Days of Our Lives�on NBC and General Hospital on ABC (check local listings) both feature out characters.
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About GLAADGLAAD amplifies the voice of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community by empowering real people to share their stories, holding the media accountable for the words and images they present, and helping grassroots organizations communicate effectively. By ensuring that the stories of LGBT people are heard through the media, GLAAD promotes understanding, increases acceptance, and advances equality. For more information, see�www.glaad.org, www.facebook.com/glaad, www.twitter.com/glaad and�www.glaad.tumblr.com.
November 30, 2014
Issues:
What to Watch on TV
Tags:
Must-See LGBT TV
In honor of the 26th World AIDS Day, Showtime will premiere the documentary The Last One on December 1. The 70-minute documentary chronicles the history of The NAMES Project Foundation's AIDS Memorial Quilt using archival footage, interviews with the Quilt's founder Cleve Jones, "Hand Maiden of the Quilt" Gert McMullin and other early volunteers and panel makers to talk about the creation of the Quilt, giving hope and fighting back against a system that refused to act. The Last One: Monday, 8:30pm on Showtime.
This week, America's Next Top Model wraps up the 21st cycle and names a winner. This season saw the return of Miss J as a judge and included two out contestants, Will and Romeo. Will is still in the running to become the winner. America's Next Top Model: Friday, 9pm on CW.
Jon Stewart hosts the three hour A Tribute to Bruce Springsteen concert with a number of musicians covering Springsteen's hits. Elton John will be performing "Streets of Philadelphia." A Tribute to Bruce Springsteen: Friday, 9pm on PBS.
For a breakdown of LGBT-inclusive shows airing every week, check out our nightly listings below:
Sunday November 30: Mulaney (7:30pm, FOX); Brooklyn Nine-Nine (8:30pm, FOX); Revenge (10pm, ABC)
Monday: The Last One (8:30pm, Showtime); Major Crimes (9pm, TNT)
Tuesday: The Flash (8pm, CW); Marry Me (9pm, NBC)
Wednesday: Modern Family (9pm, ABC); Red Band Society (9pm, FOX); Nashville (10pm, ABC)
Thursday: White Collar (9pm, USA); The McCarthys (9:30pm, CBS)
Friday: America's Next Top Model (9pm, CW); A Tribute to Bruce Springsteen (9pm, PBS)
Saturday: The Graham Norton Show (10pm, BBC America)
On daytime,�check your local listings for information about�Ellen,�The Talk�(CBS), The Gossip Table (VH1), The View (ABC) and�The Chew�(ABC). Soap operas Days of Our Lives�on NBC and General Hospital on ABC (check local listings) both feature out characters.
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About GLAADGLAAD amplifies the voice of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community by empowering real people to share their stories, holding the media accountable for the words and images they present, and helping grassroots organizations communicate effectively. By ensuring that the stories of LGBT people are heard through the media, GLAAD promotes understanding, increases acceptance, and advances equality. For more information, see�www.glaad.org, www.facebook.com/glaad, www.twitter.com/glaad and�www.glaad.tumblr.com.
November 30, 2014
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What to Watch on TV
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Must-See LGBT TV
My favorite time of year?
The month of May is a time for celebration, a time for titillation, a time for good vibrations…it is National Masturbation Month! To me, this is like Christmas with a gift that I keep giving to myself! National Masturbation Month … Continue reading →
Prop 8 backers target trial judge in urging appeal
SAN FRANCISCO (AP) – Backers of California’s same-sex marriage ban urged a federal appeals court to overturn the trial judge who struck down Proposition 8 by arguing late Friday that his consideration of evidence was “egregiously selective and one-sided.”
In written arguments to the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals, lawyers for the ban’s sponsors alleged that Chief U.S. Judge Vaughn Walker “quite willfully” disregarded a 1972 U.S. Supreme Court precedent and other relevant information when he decided the voter-approved measure was an unconstitutional violation of gay Californians’ civil rights.
“The district court based its findings almost exclusively on an uncritical acceptance of the evidence submi…
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In written arguments to the 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals, lawyers for the ban’s sponsors alleged that Chief U.S. Judge Vaughn Walker “quite willfully” disregarded a 1972 U.S. Supreme Court precedent and other relevant information when he decided the voter-approved measure was an unconstitutional violation of gay Californians’ civil rights.
“The district court based its findings almost exclusively on an uncritical acceptance of the evidence submi…
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Friday, December 5, 2014
Conversations with Nicole
None of us should have been surprised at the defeat of our efforts to end “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”…it’s the usual politics and lack of leadership from the White House and Democratic Party and the new homophobia of two faced Senator John McCain and his fellow Republican Senators…this country needs a new third party!
Tea Party Movement and the Radical Right
This past week MSNBC stated that the “Culture War” is back especially with the growing alliance of the Tea Party movement and the radical Christian (?) Right movement….Now we have Tea Party leaders coming out against gay marriage and some even against condoms and sex education. All the “Tea Party” rallies are 95% white and a majorit…
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Tea Party Movement and the Radical Right
This past week MSNBC stated that the “Culture War” is back especially with the growing alliance of the Tea Party movement and the radical Christian (?) Right movement….Now we have Tea Party leaders coming out against gay marriage and some even against condoms and sex education. All the “Tea Party” rallies are 95% white and a majorit…
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COMEDY BODEGA : Thursday night comedy club in San Francisco
COMEDY BODEGA : Thursday night comedy club in San Francisco.
Adios, Bitchachos
I've decided that as fun as this blog was, and as useful as it was to me to sort through the things going on in my life, and to ruminate out loud about the things that I ponder, I'm going to shut it down for a while and focus on finishing my last semester and writing my thesis.I may or may not be back but you can always use the contact form to send a message. Wishing you all well.... -Shannon
Paris to Host Gay Games X in 2018
Organizers and athletes are preparing for Gay Games 9, which will take place this year in Cleveland (the dates are August 9 through August 2014 - I'll be adding a detailed preview of events in the coming weeks). Cleveland joins cities that have included San Francisco, Vancouver, New York, Amsterdam, Sydney, Chicago, and Cologne in hosting this illustrious exhibition and competition. Recently, the host city for Gay Games 10 was announced: the Games will be returning to Europe, to Paris, in 2018. Here's the latest on the efforts Paris is making to prepare for the event.
Cheapflights.com Shares its List of 10 "New Gay Travel Hot Spots"
I'm always interested to see how other writers and outlets cover up-and-coming gay travel destinations - there's definitely been a movement of late to think a bit outside convention and promote new places around the world as emerging LGBT gay vacation options. I tend to do this a lot myself in my writing on this site - in fact, in tomorrow's New York Times, I'm quoted in a story about less-obvious gay destinations discussing one of my under-the-radar favorites, Eureka Springs, Arkansas....Read Full Post
Bonez N Booze with Franki
Bartender and Culinary Extraordinaire
Franki has been a staple in the San Diego lesbian, nightlife and art scene for a long time. She is someone that everyone has something good to say about. Franki was one of the first lesbians to throw San Diego art shows including The No Name Art Shows that drew in huge crowds eager to participate in something other than the status quo. Franki has the reputation of being one of San Diego’s hottest and most down to earth bartenders. A combination hard to find in any person let alone a bartender and she truly is one of a kind. Talented in the art of making drinks and customer service she commands her bar like a pro. She is equally as talented in the arts of all kinds. Everything from food to painting to the drums she does well and grabs attention while do…
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Franki has been a staple in the San Diego lesbian, nightlife and art scene for a long time. She is someone that everyone has something good to say about. Franki was one of the first lesbians to throw San Diego art shows including The No Name Art Shows that drew in huge crowds eager to participate in something other than the status quo. Franki has the reputation of being one of San Diego’s hottest and most down to earth bartenders. A combination hard to find in any person let alone a bartender and she truly is one of a kind. Talented in the art of making drinks and customer service she commands her bar like a pro. She is equally as talented in the arts of all kinds. Everything from food to painting to the drums she does well and grabs attention while do…
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THEATER REVIEW Shining City
Playwright: Conor McPherson. At: Irish Theatre of Chicago at the Den, 1333 N. Milwaukee Ave. Tickets: 773-878-3727; www.seanachai.org; $26-$30. Runs through: Jan. 4
Thursday, December 4, 2014
Minnesota State High School League passes trans-inclusive policy
The Minnesota State High School League (MSHSL) has passed a policy that will allow transgender students to participate in athletics and other extracurricular activities. The policy, which will go into effect in the 2015-2016 academic year, reads thusly:
In accordance with applicable state and federal laws, rules and regulations, the Minnesota State High School League allows participation for all students regardless of their gender identity or expression in an environment free from discrimination with an equal opportunity for participation in athletics and fine arts.
The policy goes on to describe an appeal process in which transgender students must follow to be eligible to participate in athletics. The policy passed with a vote of 18-1 in the MSHSL.
While the policy is not without issue, including requiring a trans student to get written confirmation from their parents to confirm their gender identity (which can present an issue for some cases) and gathering testimonials from individuals who know the student in order to "affirm that the actions, attitudes, dress and manner demonstrate the student?s consistent or sincerely held gender-related identification and expression."
This vote was supposed to occur in October, but was delayed for two months. Anti-LGBT activsts took out full page ads in Minnesota papers to oppose the policy, using false and misleading messages about transgender students. However, in the end, Minnesota joins 18 other states, plus the District of Columbia in affirming the particiaption of transgender students in high school athletics.�
December 4, 2014
Issues:
Local and Regional News,
Sports,
Transgender,
Young Adult
Tags:
Minnesota State High School League,
MSHSL,
Liberty Council
In accordance with applicable state and federal laws, rules and regulations, the Minnesota State High School League allows participation for all students regardless of their gender identity or expression in an environment free from discrimination with an equal opportunity for participation in athletics and fine arts.
The policy goes on to describe an appeal process in which transgender students must follow to be eligible to participate in athletics. The policy passed with a vote of 18-1 in the MSHSL.
While the policy is not without issue, including requiring a trans student to get written confirmation from their parents to confirm their gender identity (which can present an issue for some cases) and gathering testimonials from individuals who know the student in order to "affirm that the actions, attitudes, dress and manner demonstrate the student?s consistent or sincerely held gender-related identification and expression."
This vote was supposed to occur in October, but was delayed for two months. Anti-LGBT activsts took out full page ads in Minnesota papers to oppose the policy, using false and misleading messages about transgender students. However, in the end, Minnesota joins 18 other states, plus the District of Columbia in affirming the particiaption of transgender students in high school athletics.�
December 4, 2014
Issues:
Local and Regional News,
Sports,
Transgender,
Young Adult
Tags:
Minnesota State High School League,
MSHSL,
Liberty Council
Renewed push for harsher anti-LGBT law in Uganda
After a controversial version of the Ugandan anti-gay law, known as the "jail the gays" law, was ruled unconstitutional by the Uganda's constitutional court this August, anti-gay sentiment in the country has increased significantly. as reported by Al Jazeera and other media outlets, the court reversed the law because it was passed without the necessary quorum required by law.
The overall anti-gay environment in the country has led to a renewed campaign to get the law passed again by the end of 2014. This time the law would be in line with the rules governing the functioning of parliament. Also, it aims to employ even harsher punishments applicable on a broader scale. In addition to punishing LGBT relationships, the new bill makes it illegal to rent homes to LGBT Ugandans. It potentially criminalizes anyone who ?leases or subleases, uses or allows to be used any premises for the purpose of engaging in unnatural sexual practices.?
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The legislation is triggering broad international reaction and alienates some countries that support Uganda, currently financing about 20 percent of Uganda's budget.
November 24, 2014
Issues:
News
Tags:
international news,
Africa,
Uganda,
anti-gay legislation,
Global Voices
The overall anti-gay environment in the country has led to a renewed campaign to get the law passed again by the end of 2014. This time the law would be in line with the rules governing the functioning of parliament. Also, it aims to employ even harsher punishments applicable on a broader scale. In addition to punishing LGBT relationships, the new bill makes it illegal to rent homes to LGBT Ugandans. It potentially criminalizes anyone who ?leases or subleases, uses or allows to be used any premises for the purpose of engaging in unnatural sexual practices.?
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The legislation is triggering broad international reaction and alienates some countries that support Uganda, currently financing about 20 percent of Uganda's budget.
November 24, 2014
Issues:
News
Tags:
international news,
Africa,
Uganda,
anti-gay legislation,
Global Voices
Lt. Dan Choi
Arabic Linguist. Iraq Veteran. West Point Graduate. Infantry Officer. Gay... Fired... and Fighting Back!
On March 19, 2009, Lt. Dan Choi, a West Point graduate and Iraq veteran fluent in Arabic, announced that he was gay on The Rachel Maddow Show. Because of three words – “I am gay” – Lt. Choi’s life changed forever. Despite his extreme value as an Arabic speaker able to communicate quickly and clearly with the Iraqi people, one month after his announcement Lt. Dan Choi was notified that the Army had begun discharge proceedings against him. He was one of only eight soldiers from his graduating class who majored in Arabic. Lt. Choi kindly agreed to an interview with The Gay & Lesbian Times
and this is his story.
GLT: What was it like for you to be discharged from the Military?
DC: As gay people there is no shortage of pain…
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On March 19, 2009, Lt. Dan Choi, a West Point graduate and Iraq veteran fluent in Arabic, announced that he was gay on The Rachel Maddow Show. Because of three words – “I am gay” – Lt. Choi’s life changed forever. Despite his extreme value as an Arabic speaker able to communicate quickly and clearly with the Iraqi people, one month after his announcement Lt. Dan Choi was notified that the Army had begun discharge proceedings against him. He was one of only eight soldiers from his graduating class who majored in Arabic. Lt. Choi kindly agreed to an interview with The Gay & Lesbian Times
and this is his story.
GLT: What was it like for you to be discharged from the Military?
DC: As gay people there is no shortage of pain…
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The GLAAD Wrap: The Imitation Game,The Queen of Bounce returns and The Land of Stories grows
Every week, The GLAAD Wrap brings you LGBT-related entertainment news highlights, fresh stuff to watch out for, and fun diversions to help you kick off the weekend.
1) New biopic The Imitation Game opens this week in wide release. The film tells the story of mathematician Alan Turing, who created a decryption machine that cracked Nazi codes during WWII and eventually helped end the war.� That machine also happened to be a foundational invention for modern computers, but despite his monumental contributions to history, the fact that Turing was gay (and publicly prosecuted for it) long kept him from being recognized and celebrated by the general public.� The film stars Benedict Cumberbatch as Turing, along with Matthew Goode and Keira Knightley.
2) Dan Bucatinsky has been promoted to a series regular on the NBC comedy�Marry Me. On the show he plays Kevin; one of the main character Annie two dads (both of whom are named Kevin.)
3) The new season of Sirens will premiere January 27th on the USA Network. The series follows 3 EMTS, one of whom is gay, as they bumble through their personal lives while saving the lives of others.
4) Adam Shankman will produce a new series called Vamp for ABC that follows a ballerina who moves to New York and finds herself dancing in the hottest club in town as a means to escape the stress of the ballet world. Shankman will team up with Amy B. Harris - the developer and executive producer of the Carries Diares - for this series.
5) Catey Shaw has released the video for her single "Night Go Slow." The video tells the story of two girls on a romantic adventure, 50's style. Watch it here:
6) New Orleans bounce star Big Freedia will be back with new season of her reality show Big Freedia: Queen of Bounce on February 25th, 2015. The series will continue to follow the Queen of Bounce as she tours, dates and deals with her mother's passing.
7) Glee star Chris Colfer has inked a 5 book deal to extend his hit book series�beyond the three he has released so far. The prolific writer and actor also has a YA novel and 2 children's books in the works.
8) Following a successful Kickstarter campaign, the documentary Becoming More Visible has now was released its first trailer, as well as announcing the #Whosyourselfie campaign through MTV Act's website. The documentary from producer and director Pamela French focuses on a group of transgender youth telling their stories as they take part in a photo project with photographer Josh Lehrer. Check out the trailer below.
November 28, 2014
Issues:
Entertainment,
Music,
Film,
Television
Tags:
The Wrap,
The Imitation Game,
Glee,
Adam Shankman,
Chris Colfer
1) New biopic The Imitation Game opens this week in wide release. The film tells the story of mathematician Alan Turing, who created a decryption machine that cracked Nazi codes during WWII and eventually helped end the war.� That machine also happened to be a foundational invention for modern computers, but despite his monumental contributions to history, the fact that Turing was gay (and publicly prosecuted for it) long kept him from being recognized and celebrated by the general public.� The film stars Benedict Cumberbatch as Turing, along with Matthew Goode and Keira Knightley.
2) Dan Bucatinsky has been promoted to a series regular on the NBC comedy�Marry Me. On the show he plays Kevin; one of the main character Annie two dads (both of whom are named Kevin.)
3) The new season of Sirens will premiere January 27th on the USA Network. The series follows 3 EMTS, one of whom is gay, as they bumble through their personal lives while saving the lives of others.
4) Adam Shankman will produce a new series called Vamp for ABC that follows a ballerina who moves to New York and finds herself dancing in the hottest club in town as a means to escape the stress of the ballet world. Shankman will team up with Amy B. Harris - the developer and executive producer of the Carries Diares - for this series.
5) Catey Shaw has released the video for her single "Night Go Slow." The video tells the story of two girls on a romantic adventure, 50's style. Watch it here:
6) New Orleans bounce star Big Freedia will be back with new season of her reality show Big Freedia: Queen of Bounce on February 25th, 2015. The series will continue to follow the Queen of Bounce as she tours, dates and deals with her mother's passing.
7) Glee star Chris Colfer has inked a 5 book deal to extend his hit book series�beyond the three he has released so far. The prolific writer and actor also has a YA novel and 2 children's books in the works.
8) Following a successful Kickstarter campaign, the documentary Becoming More Visible has now was released its first trailer, as well as announcing the #Whosyourselfie campaign through MTV Act's website. The documentary from producer and director Pamela French focuses on a group of transgender youth telling their stories as they take part in a photo project with photographer Josh Lehrer. Check out the trailer below.
November 28, 2014
Issues:
Entertainment,
Music,
Film,
Television
Tags:
The Wrap,
The Imitation Game,
Glee,
Adam Shankman,
Chris Colfer
Lady Ga Ga Speaks her Mind
They asked her to boycott her shows in Arizona to protest SB1070. Instead, Lady Ga Ga activates the crowd. I love Lady Ga Ga.
FDA advisers mull lifting ban on gay blood donors
Government health advisers have concerns about lifting a nationwide ban on blood donations from gay and bisexual men, despite growing pressure against the policy from gay rights advocates, medical experts and blood banks. The ban dates from the first years of the AIDS epidemic and was intended to protect the U.S. blood supply from exposure to the little-understood disease.
Apartment Adoption Project starts for homeless Chicago youth
CHICAGO — The 750 Club Apartment Adoption Project is launching this week in Chicago to provide private apartments for youth moving out of transitional housing. The project was initiated at the LGBTQ Homeless Youth Summit hosted earlier in 2014 by Windy City Times newspaper.
Wednesday, December 3, 2014
Comments from the Web
Kenny Kardashian says:
I, too, served in the Navy and also swore the same oath, not really knowing what lay ahead. While for most people, being gay is dangerous I was lucky to experience minimal discrimination and teasing. However, I was not immune from such teasing. Everyone at my shore duty facility at Naval Air Staton North Island in San Diego knew I was gay and while I made a risky move, when people asked, I told. However, there was no one running to the officer in charge. Most the people that asked me said they were “cool with it”, or others simply just knew.
I am not the most butch guy in the world, but my feminine mannerisms and the way I was did catch the attention of some few people in leadership chain of command around me. They woul…
Read More
I, too, served in the Navy and also swore the same oath, not really knowing what lay ahead. While for most people, being gay is dangerous I was lucky to experience minimal discrimination and teasing. However, I was not immune from such teasing. Everyone at my shore duty facility at Naval Air Staton North Island in San Diego knew I was gay and while I made a risky move, when people asked, I told. However, there was no one running to the officer in charge. Most the people that asked me said they were “cool with it”, or others simply just knew.
I am not the most butch guy in the world, but my feminine mannerisms and the way I was did catch the attention of some few people in leadership chain of command around me. They woul…
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Gay Mayor's Election Marks Poland's Steady Stride Toward Acceptance
Polish voters proved they're more interested in growing their economy than clinging to homophobia when they elected an out gay lawmaker mayor.
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HIV/AIDS and the Military After 28 Years
Randy Shilts very accurately described the early stages of the treatment of HIV/AIDS in the military in his ground breaking book And The Band Played On. In short he described a military that when faced with an epidemic that at the time was largely viewed as being a gay disease, against the odds, they chose the higher road. The military’s initial response while far from perfect, was among the most progressive at the time.
Among other things the military made the wise choice of letting medical fact rather than social stigma and fear guide their policy. They recognized early on that HIV was not transmitted through casual contact and therefor those who had contracted HIV were not a threat to their coworkers. That realization led to a sensible policy tha…
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Among other things the military made the wise choice of letting medical fact rather than social stigma and fear guide their policy. They recognized early on that HIV was not transmitted through casual contact and therefor those who had contracted HIV were not a threat to their coworkers. That realization led to a sensible policy tha…
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'It's a Whore-Ratio...'
LOL, I just watched this video after not seeing it in YEARS. So funny...such a great time with these ladies. I'd love to do this again. Visit the ladies of CHERRY BOMB at http://www.cherrybombtv.comNow keep in mind this was a few years AND girlfriends ago and my opinions then don't necessarily reflect the ones I have today. Oh, to be young and naive again...Get More: Video & Movies, Logo: Fierce TV
Got Plans Tomorrow Night?
If so, cancel them and go see one amazing singer/songwriter: Christine Havrilla. She's not only a great friend, but we also recently collaborated on an original song for the short film Patty and I are doing. The song is called Hightail and you can buy it HERE.Havrilla will be at Mississippi Pizza's Atlantis Lounge tomorrow night from 6-8pm with special guests The Ragged Word.
Transmasculine / Masculine-of-Center Fashion Blogs
I'm a queer girl who sometimes likes to dress like a boy. I would like suggestions for fashion blogs that focus on genderqueer/butch/trans fashion. I'm especially looking for style aesthetics other than the very popular "dapper" look. I love Qwear and dapperQ, but they both focus on the bow-tied and buttoned-up dapper look, for the most part.
I love Fuck Yeah FTMs of Color, The Test Shot, and Original Plumbing, but they don't really have a "fashion" focus. Still, I'd love to have more rad stuff to read!
Things I'm Not Into: "Androgynous" style Tumblrs/blogs with lots of beautiful skinny ciswomen in makeup and slicked back hair and suits; menswear blogs aimed at cisgendered men.
I love Fuck Yeah FTMs of Color, The Test Shot, and Original Plumbing, but they don't really have a "fashion" focus. Still, I'd love to have more rad stuff to read!
Things I'm Not Into: "Androgynous" style Tumblrs/blogs with lots of beautiful skinny ciswomen in makeup and slicked back hair and suits; menswear blogs aimed at cisgendered men.
Op-ed: Let These Men Remind You That HIV Is Still Real
The death of one friend and the suffering of another was a major wake-up call for this writer. It should be one for you too.
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Tuesday, December 2, 2014
(38) Paranormal Lesbian (Mini)
Snotty Neighbors Headgames, Animal Love & Gratitude, Soy, Obsessed Weirdo’s, Paranormal Voices from the Netherworld …
Howard. Stern.
Liked him before. Simply ADORE HIM now. This is a MUST LISTEN. It's wonderful...honest, raw, passionate, TRUTH. On his show Monday, Howard Stern went on a 12-minute rant about the ?One Million Moms? campaign against Ellen DeGeneres, people who joke about Rosie O'Donnell being a lesbian, anti-gay politicians, and much more. It's worth listening to in its entirety.
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