Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Previously straight-acting queer girl needs the dating 411!

I have a first date with a girl coming up, which is awesome and I'm psyched. Only... I've never dated girls before! Help! I realize that I should just "be myself" and such, but I'm nervous. I've always identified as queer and have kissed a few ladies in my time, but I've never dated another girl before and I'm kind of terrified that I'll make an ass out of myself.

I've had a series of long term relationships in the past, all with men. Should I mention that at the get go? The girl that I'm meeting identifies as gay (we met online) and I fear the stigma that can come with not having been a 'serious' lesbian, whatever that means. Also: are there signals that are commonly accepted among women as far as flirting and such? I feel like I'm sixteen again!

(Yes, I realize I'm probably overthinking this, I just really want this to go well!)

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